Happy Hump Day Everyone! It feels so different now and all I did was change to a new host site for my blog!

Anyway how are you all on this Hump Day. How is your week going? Mine is okay. It is raining today which sucks because I have 30 bowling pins that need to be spray painted and the Girl stayed home sick today so I don’t think spray painting upstairs in the unfinished attic even with the big window open and fan going would be the best option. I want to get caught up and I am running out of time. The Girl needs to get better for the last three weeks she has been sick or kind of sick. She had a slight fever last night and then again the morning so I decided no more pushing through time to just get healthy so no school and she will hate me for this part, no dance! Just rest. She is currently sewing the elastic on her new pointe shoes.

For today’s Hump Day Challenge I am reaching into my lower drawer of my nightstand. In there I have a set of flash cards of sorts called the “super hot sex deck” by Tracey Cox, it is a set of 52 cards. Each card has a tip or trick to help encourage long-term lovers be more sexually adventurous. There are 4 categories Lust Lessons and Fantasies, Get Kinky, Show Off and Play Dirty. We are going to go with a Get Kinky card today.

Get Kinky up the ‘kink’ factor in your relationship. My favorite part for today is that they come with a “wimp’s way out” option. So here I go I am going to pick a pink card because I am feeling like being Kinky and getting a little naughty I picked Toy Story card. Play with your lover with toys. Now that can mean watch your lover play with toys on him/her self or you use the toy(s) on him/her. This can be quiet an exciting very kinky or very basic. Talk with your lover and make sure he/she is liking what you are doing to them communication is key!

There are many types of toys to include. Some more risqué than others. If you are new to toys a good thing to do is swing by Lovers Package to browse what is there, or remember even Spencer’s in the mall carries sex toys. Go with your lover and pick one out. Don’t get freaked out! No one is watching or judging you! You can use everything from vibrating sponges to butt plugs and vibrators and if you are adventurous maybe even try a strap on. If you can’t bring yourself to go to a store have a Sex Toy party, Google it you will find stuff.The party is a must go, just to learn, there are so many types of toys that you don’t even know what you might be missing.

Ladies, If you have a vibrator let your man use it on you. You could orally stimulate him while he plays with you with your toy. Very pleasurable way to give oral sex! One toy that is fun and no man ever thought he needed or would even consider buying probably (unless he knows about them) is a vibrating cock ring. It is a ring that stretches over the man’s junk and squeezes a bit, just enough that material is very stretchy and it doesn’t hurt. It helps with premature ejaculation so it is great if your lover has a hard time sustaining. The vibrating kind have a little bullet looking thingy that vibrates. You can play with the placement of the bullet. If you put the vibrating bullet part up front you can stimulate your clitoris while he enjoys the vibration as well. With the vibrating part turn around on his balls guys enjoy stimulation on their balls as they come but how can you stimulate his balls while he is riding you missionary and grinding so nicely on your clitoris? So inspired the invention of the vibrating cock ring.

One of my favorite toys is one we found by accident at a really cool high-end sex store in Vegas right across the mall from Louis Vuitton store in City Center (not sure what it was called). We learned so much that day in that store, it was such a cool place. Not creepy or dirty feeling place at all. The toy is a butt plug (gasp did she say THAT?!) It is an Njoy butt plug. We will talk anal play much more in future posts but don’t keep that back door locked up, there are many ways to enjoy (hehe pun intended) anal play for both Ladies and Gents. So, don’t knock it until you try it. I had tried other butt plugs and have always been kind of “Eh!” about them but this one is the best.

Bottom line today’s challenge is a toy challenge. Nothing specific go at your own pace with the kink factor.  Or create your own, use your phone on vibrate, the washing machine on spin cycle or any object that is the right size. Safety alert: be mindful if you are using homemade toys for penetration don’t be dumb and use something that will break inside you. If you are experimenting with anal play it needs to be tapered or have a string attached so you don’t lose it inside you. You don’t have to insert the toys, that is not required.

Your “wimps way out” option is to just look for a toy that you and your mate might like to play with, go to a sex shop or go online. Or try this if you have no toys or are too afraid to create one like using a vibration from your phone, try using hot and cold and ice.. It helps to be horny turned on or at least hot and bother when you get the ice out. So talk sexy with your man, look at sexy pictures or read sexy stories. As you get to an exciting part of the story or are getting really turned on, rub the ice down your partners spine dripping little drips of water in his/her butt crack, take a drink of tea and suck on your partners nipples and then put it in your mouth and go down on your mate. Be creative and let it flow. Share the ice back forth exchanging it with your mouth to his/her mouth.

In China (I believe) they used to have to disguise sex toys mainly dildos by putting a face on the tip of them. I have one that looks like a little old mans face and swirls around while it vibrates, he calls it my china-man boyfriend (no offense I hope that is not an offensive statement) …I am looking forward to the Hubs getting to play with it on me he likes to torment me and tease me and draw out my orgasm and give me multiples, what will you do to your mate? Maybe I will track down the vibrating cock ring too…We have a box under our bed, actually a bag hung high in our closet now that has our stash of toys. We rarely use them but it is fun to be adventurous sometimes. We have been together for a long time as you know a little spice is nice! So happy hump day challenging folks!

Just Enjoy, Relax and have fun! What will your Toy Story be?

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