Happy Hump Day Challenge Day! Today’s challenge will get you naked and down and dirty while getting clean all at the same time! You guessed it, your challenge is Shower Sex! We have updated the Sex Love and Washing Clothes amazon store for today’s challenge. There are products to help you have a fun and safe time in the shower! Click the link under the Blogroll section or Click on the Sex Love and Washing Clothes Store tab at the top of the page.

Start by just taking a shower together or if you decide you want to make it a production from the beginning you can seductively take each other’s clothes off and make it a big event. Or you could sneak into the shower while your lover is taking their daily shower. The shower it is a great time for naked skin to skin contact! What is better than seeing you lover naked and rubbing up against him/her? Seeing him/her wet and naked in a hot steamy shower!

First start with warm water…hot water the kind that is almost too hot but bareable. (Tip if you like the idea of a steamy situation don’t turn on the fan and let the steam just build up around you). Make out with your lover. Wrap your arms around each other, notice the skin to skin contact and what does that do to your insides when you are both naked. Feel the water running down your bodies! Men swoop down and suck on her nipples, ladies grasp his cock and feel it get hard in your hands. Press and rub your hips against each other. Cop a feel if you haven’t yet. Take your time feeling each other’s body and kiss, caressing and sucking and licking the whole time.

When you are ready to get to the actual business it takes a bit of creativity. You can face each other, ladies (especially if you are shorter) lift one leg, let him hold it up while he adjusts to enter you. Or have him lift you and you can kind of bounce on him with your legs flinging around in the air. However, he must be very strong and balanced and be careful because the floor of the shower is not only slippery but also very hard! Any standing position can work in the shower.   This is where the suction cup handles and foot rests can come into play and be very helpful!  We have a shower door so I sometimes grab hold of the top of it and use the side of the bath tub to get a lift (be careful bathtubs are slippery and shower doors and/or curtain rods are not always strong enough to do that). The hubs and I have quite a difference in height so we have experimented a lot of options. Try try and try again, be careful. The position that works the best to get the job done, for us, is a modified doggie style. I turn around bend over and he enters me and holds on to my hips.  I rest my hands on my thighs or knees or sometimes on the edge of the tub as well. If you have handicap bars in your shower from someone who lived there before, consider that a shower sex bonus!

Now, lets get the negatives out of the way! Some people don’t have huge showers, everyone’s everything is different sizes and we all find a way to make those smaller things work just fine…see what I did there size doesn’t matter! If you do have a smaller shower you will enjoy more skin to skin contact. Enjoy as you accidentally brush her breast on your forearm as you reach for the soap. Another issue is the floor is slippery when wet. Move consciously and slowly. If you want, swing by a local store grab a nonskid bath mat. (Remember to take it out at the end to let it dry after each use so to not trap mildew and mold under your mat.) Just be careful not to fall or push against your lover if you lose your balance. You can purchase the suction cup handles that suction cup to the walls and foot rests to help. Also know that water is not the same thing as lube. Water is a horrible sexual lubricant (my fave is in the Sex Love and Washing Clothes store as well) so you may want to bring some of your silicone based lube with you into the shower. Just don’t spill it as it is very slippery and will not wash away with the water.

For an added bonus most bathrooms have mirrors, so pull back the curtain or watch through a glass door your bodies rubbing and loving up on each other. Ladies, embrace the water running over your face and body, make your breasts little water falls I bet he will suck that water right up off of them. After you have your first shower sex together you may realize you enjoy that extra skin to skin contact. Feel free to try just showering together more regularly. The Hubs and I shower together all the time. The extra time we have being naked together really adds a positive energy to the relationship that is unexplainable and definitely worth adding to your routine! Experiment and try different things don’t give up too soon and don’t ever give up having sex in the shower. Most of the time in my life shower sex is sex that starts in the shower. Sometimes it is hard to finish in the shower we like certain positions to “finish” and the shower is not the easiest place to accomplish that. So use the shower as foreplay no harm in that!

Suds up and lather your lovers body. Wash your lovers back let them wash yours be ready for him to get your boobs extra clean. Maybe even try helping to “groom” each others private areas into a new shape or into a look that you might like. Relax and enjoy this time. One great thing about shower sex is that most bathrooms have locks and it is a great thing to do on vacation especially when you happen to share a hotel room with your kids or other people. We shower together all the time and probably only 10% or less do we have shower sex. Showering together is just a fun good routine and the kids think it is normal because we always have (but they know that it’s only a mom and dad thing to do.) Enjoy today’s challenge everyone. Please feel free to keep me posted on what you like and what your success are or any funny stories that may come from these Hump Day Challenges!

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