Hello everyone! Happy Wednesday and Happy Hump Day Challenge!

Do you Sext with your spouse? Today’s challenge is sexting! I think I may have done this for hump day challenge before but I believe it is worth doing again. Start by sending your spouse a text that is a little risqué. “Hey baby I love seeing you naked.” For some this is pretty mild in the risqué category and for other this is a stretch, but still pretty mild. You mate might blush or laugh or get excited to see what might come next. Hopefully they will respond with either “me too” or even a naked picture of him/herself.

The Hubs and I sext all the time. I am not too into dick pics. Sometimes it is nice to be reminded of the manness that we like feeling inside of us, however, dicks are not as pretty as boobs. Wait, I think that might be sexist oops… Sorry I don’t care. I love selfies of men with a smile and wearing sunglasses, especially the hubs. He does not take selfies as much as I do (most men do not) so I love a picture of his big smile when he sends me one. He hates it, I know, but he still does it for me. However, if you just did some manscaping and want to show off, by all means… send that picture! A pic of your junk in front of the urinal=not sexy! So for the men, send your woman what she likes, she likes you. If you have nice pecs your girl may like a photo featuring them. If she loves it when you wear a specific shirt wear that shirt in your picture. We ladies like to see our men at work in uniform, even if it is shitty blue shirt and safety glasses!

Ladies, most likely, your man wants to see your boobs and everything else that is you, but mostly your boobs, the more skin the better! Be careful over texting while he works and/or if he has a work phone or a shared phone there may be a no personal use policy but remember he may not be able to respond as often as you can text. Don’t give him shit for taking too long to respond. You don’t want him to get in trouble at work because of you.

If you can’t bring your self to take naked selfies tell a sexy story! Give him or her a taste of how you might meet him naked at the door. How you are going to be waiting at the door naked (if you have kids and can’t it is a dream scenario that you may need to replay after bedtime). Tell him you are going to rip his clothes off and take his dick in your mouth and suck it. You will kiss and lick all the way up his body and then, only then give him a welcome home kiss. Maybe your story should include keeping his tie on and dragging him back to you bedroom with his tie…

Get as detailed as you like. Make texts that are short and send a few in a row (if he won’t get in trouble for his phone going off 5 times in row).. Or write one long text and let him think about it the rest of the day. He will be so excited waiting for what it to come or even if it is dream fantasy scenario that you have to “reenact” later it will only feed the fantasy.

I try to make an effort to sext with the hubs regularly. I know it is a pick me up when he gets a naked photo of my boobs when he is at work. I am pretty sure he secretly thinks he is the cool kid because his wife does this. (At least I think it is secretly.) Men like to know they have something to look forward to. So do women. Women like for their coworkers to hear their phone go off and to be able to say oh that’s my husband, it’s like getting flowers, We prefer you to send them to work so we can show you off to our co-workers! Make sure if you are trying to excite her you make a story that gets her going. Sometimes men and women’s fantasies are not exactly the same. I have to stretch outside my romantic story box for the Hubs. He like dirty and raunchy. Which I am not opposed to I just know what he fantasizes and play with that. He knows I have the prince charming dream fantasy and goes from there.

Password protect you phone from your kids! You don’t want little Joe to pick up your phone and say “Look Daddy’s using the big boy potty!!” So again just like locking your doors when you are in the bedroom having sex, password protect your phone and don’t teach it to your kids! They can go without, try handing them a pencil and paper instead of your phone, it’s good for their fine motor skills development. Sexting your spouse will be good for your marriage and it will create an odd connection that you should not be underestimated!

Have fun and enjoy what your sexting will lead to! We are on our phones a lot, might as well make if benefit our marriages! Connect to your spouse! Don’t be afraid to think outside the box and don’t be afraid to show your tits to your husband and don’t be afraid to do some manscaping and show it off to your wife! And don’t be afraid to let texting overflow into your real life and reenact the fun stories you tell in your sexting!

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