Happy Hump Day! No school today because our teachers are rallying for better funding for schools! I support our teachers our schools need fixed now!!!

Ok, so here we go with you hump day challenge. This is mostly directed to the men today. I am calling it Five Finger Satisfaction. Boys, you have some prep work to do. Get a manicure, or cut and file your nails down nicely so there are no sharp edges get out the pumas stone (your woman probably has one laying around somewhere) scrub off the hard calluses on your hands and fingers. Then when you are your wife get intimate start by touching her caress her body. All of it! Massage her back, rub her belly and when it feels right, sneak your hands down her pants. Play with her vagina on the outside. Play with her lips and clitoris then slide your fingers inside her.

If you want to take the time put your wife on a pedestal be it on the bed or in the corner of the couch or a fancy chair. This is her night to be the center of attention and get pleasured by you. You will have your turn, take your time with your woman and give her some undivided attention. Open her legs get on your knees and feel free to play with her pussy with your hands and add a little tongue whenever you desire she will not turn the tongue down, I promise! When you have got her really dripping wet from your kissing and fingering place on finger, your pinky gently touch on her butt hole, this is the beginning of the shocker (that is a good thing). Be gentle the goal here is to give her pleasure. If she is squeemish about ass play talk to her first (before you start anything) so she is not startled out of the mood. Let her know you are going to try something new that will lead to her pleasure (I may take a few trial runs and a few times getting comfortable with it and practice, we love practice) and let her know you will be very gentle with her and she is in control if she doesn’t like what you are trying you will stop and she gets to say when. Ladies who are given the shocker properly are happy ladies, happy ladies make happy men…Take the time to do it right!

So as you explore her back door with your finger that has been moistened with her juices from you fingering her and licking her. As she relaxes and enjoys it sink your little finger in her ass, but don’t shove it wiggle it a little but don’t dig a hole! The double penetration sensation for a woman can be very erotic and very pleasurable not much movement is necessary. This is a good way to open the door for anal sex or just a good way to get her close to climax (Seahawks voice kind of climax) and even get her off. As she writhes on your fingers and soaks up the pleasure, go at her pace. Let her enjoy, go slow, slower than you think, the more tongue the better! This is the start of really good anal play. She may have never considered it feeling this good and never given it a chance, communication is key and the fact that you let her have a say check in with her “how does that feel baby” “is my finger wet enough?” “What can I do for you to like it more?” “can I try it with my cock?” Okay maybe hold off on that last question but you know your wife if now is the time go ahead and ask. If she is new to ass play be patient. Don’t talk about it in front of your friends she may not want to admit to it but she will love your shocker!

Sometimes the transition between fingering her ass and anal sex is too much of a jump. It is usually the size difference that is a shock. Practice and patience is the best method to make it comfortable and enjoyable. Ladies relax don’t tense up, relax even your jaw (there is a wierd connection to down there and clenching your jaw, good for child birth too). If I can use myself as an example, the more horny I am the easier it is and better it feels so take the time for foreplay! Also you can consider using a butt plug (Here it is from Monday’s post). You can find butt plugs in many sizes and shapes. I love the Njoy brand it contours down it helps get you relaxed back there and it tapers down so that you are not wide open for the whole time. It is a nice full feeling and leads to great DP orgasms! I am going to add a few plugs to my Amazon store so check the store link for some options to purchase. I love the use of butt plugs it took me a long time to try them and to find one I like but ever since I did I have not looked back. Now it is time to experiment with new stuff too like my new sparkly one I bought on the way back from Portland.

So Men, take care of your woman and guess what, there might just be something in it for you! I hope you all enjoy, as always, go at your own pace. Do not ever push your husband or wife to do something that they are not comfortable with. Also don’t be afraid to expand your horizons! Get rid of your prejudgment and you may find something feels much better than it sounds, even if you don’t want to talk about it with your friends or claim that you like it, ass play is fun feels good and is well worth the time spent to really give it a shot! Best place to start is with the Five Fingers of Satisfaction trick! Enjoy!

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