Monthly Archives: July 2015

If You Don’t Share It, Does It Still Happen?

30 Thursday Jul 2015

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We had a blissful 2-3 hours on the Beach flying kites, doing yoga, running and jumping in waves with no cell phones or cameras and no pictures taken to memorialize the moments! Sometimes I think I feel like these moments don’t mean anything if I can’t share them but really they meant the world and were more fulfilling than any other moments on vacation so far. And we didn’t have to “redo that to get a good photo”.

You see, I get so caught up with documenting our lives. Taking photos to look back on, only to, years later, have no idea what the heck was going on in that moment, but I bet it was good! I share so many of our precious moments in social media, take photos and many times retake so we all look cute! I sometimes forget to live in that moment. We think “imagine what so and so will think”. I bet he/she will be proud of me, or maybe jealous or just think it is great or jsut plain enjoy seeing us do well and have fun. They probably do and yes I enjoy seeing everyones shared moments. I love keeping in touch that way, but does it really matter. Let’s not lose the moment for the post.

Who really cares. Yes, people love seeing our fun and our accomplishments but if you are so worried about sharing it, then are you really living it? This is a struggle I have with EVERYTHING! (I am a blogger for goodness sake) Almost every second of every day, the struggle is real. Every great thing that happens in my life and my children’s lives and my husband’s life I want to shout from the mountain top, The struggle is real.

We have found love right where we are. So BE THERE! BE HERE!

I could go on and on with this subject, but I will out my phone down and get back to my vacation. I hope I captured what I wanted to here. I am going to go back to my family who are cleaning up lunch dishes (now that I am almost don’t editing they are finished and waiting for me.) I will be going out on the Beach again today without my phone and guess what, we will have an amazing time and you won’t be there… And it will still happen. And I can still tell stories from my memory and that will still be meaningful to all of you who hear it!

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XXX-Sex On The Beach-XXX

29 Wednesday Jul 2015

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Happy Hump Day!!! Since I am on vacation I am going to make this a pretty self serving and risky challenge. I am calling it Sex On The Beach! For me that will mean just that, sex out on the beach. For those of you not at the beach it will get a little more creative or just go outside after dark!

Grab your love and go outside, if you’re a girl wear a skirt and no panties for easy access, guys use underwear(boxers) that have the easy access hole in them so all you have to do is unzip. Try to make this happen under the cover of darkness or in a bush hidden away from passers by.

Enjoy the night sky and get up inside her. Try to have some skin to skin contact so, either disrobe or wear button up clothes that you can expose your chest to chest.

So this is similar to the public sex with a beach twist, since I am at the beach!

Go make love in a public place at night where there are no lights or people but it is still risky and exciting to be “in public”. Be careful on the beach, sand is not a lubricant and doesn’t feel good up inside… But it will come out and you will not die from it either! I just hope it’s not too cold. Guess we’ll be making our own heat 😉

Wimps way out is you make the drink Sex on the Beach (Vodka, Peach Snapps, OJ and Cranberry Juice), get drunk and fuck!

I’m going back to vacation!

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Heading Back to Vacation After Hard Work!

28 Tuesday Jul 2015

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On this time out of vacation day we spent the WHOLE day at the PeeWee’s clubhouse. Organizing and inventorying gear to go out on Saturday! And getting ready for Football season! Our club, aside from the messiness that hopefully the rest of the board will handle, is ready for football! Gear checkout day is the most stressful day of the year for me to get ready for! This year I don’t feel I am as ready as I usually am. But like I have said in past posts that I did not have help this year. But today I had three of the most beautiful helpers. The Hubs, The Girl and The Boy!

They were troopers today. Only a few complaints. I don’t know what I would do without their help. I love doing stuff with them anyway, even if it stupid annoying volunteer work that I raised my hand for, that they have to sacrifice a day of vacation to help me out with!

I am starting to get excited for the season but it is a bit stifled with all the work that has gone into it. This is my favorite time of year. Can’t wait to watch our boy play, the Hubs coach and then on Sundays, the Seahawks! So exciting.

We are driving back to the Ocean, aka vacation, tonight. The Girl danced and apparently the Boy tore it up on the field tonight at football camp, he started off the night by picking off the QB from the safety position!

Earlier, The Hubs and I had some not so special moments that erupted from stress and frustration of all the work needing to be done for gear handout. I hope he knows how much I appreciate his work and his help. I do know that when he hits his limit … He hits a limit and is just angry not at me just the situation. I am doing it all alone aside from his help. And I think that bothers him that no one else can step up and help. And that I haven’t done it earlier in the year. Things just kept coming up and I put it off and now there is no more time to put this off. But we are not lingering there in the negative, we are heading back to the beach and hoping the kids fall asleep way before us tonight. Luckily, We have mastered the art of quiet sex in the trailer and our kids play hard so they also sleep hard and they have a separate room and that they like keeping the door closed. I feel like we need some good sex tonight! Or at least I want some and I know the Hubs does!

Gonna enjoy the drive with the Hubs. Have a great night folks ….I am trying to think up some fun vacation/camping Hump Day Challenge to bring back at you tomorrow!

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Vacation Time Out

27 Monday Jul 2015

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This is how this bartender travels! Yes, I brought enough lemons and limes for three friends, but who knows how many drinks I will want…I probably have more lemons and limes than Vodka!

I will grab some more vodka at home since we will be taking a timeout from vacation to take the Boy to football camp back home. A 2.5 hour drive each way for a 1.5 hour camp. Yes we are a crazy football family. Is this really news to anyone?

While we were home the girl went to her Gym class at dance and landed 9 aerials in a row! She could have gone longer but we were all ready to go to dinner! She has been working on it for a while and landed one orntwo last week but couldn’t repeat it… Well today she got it! 9 in a row!

We were here long enough for camp and gym and the went to dinner at our favorite restaurants in our town. I may have had enough wine to make me a little tipsy (2 glasses), enough to make me want to send the Hubs to get me more wine! But I won’t. We are watching the M’s game now and will send the kids to bed and tomorrow do some PeeWee things then take the Boy to his second and final day of camp and then head back to vacation at the Ocean!

Today was a great day before we left the Beach I had some Yoga on the beach the kids flew kites and drove RC cars. I got sunburned, the Hubs broke his RC car and fixed it…even though we spent a lot of the day driving we had a good vacation day!

Hoping to see LoMo hit a game winner right now …walked!!!! What?! Wild pitch!

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This family is having fun even though we are at home and not in our trailer, I love vacation…even though we are at home we are all sitting together on the couch together, now waiting for Zunino to hit a walk off.  No one usually cares this much about baseball! It vacation back to the family! 

Zunino hits a base hit for the tie! Nice hit! We get extra innings!

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The Ocean..my happy calming place

26 Sunday Jul 2015

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Those are my toes in the sand! Yes, that’s right my vacation is at the Ocean! I love hearing the waves watching the water roll in and the waves crash as the tide is coming in (or going out). I love watching The Boy run and dig for clams (even though they are out of season and I told him not to) I love seeing The Girl checking out the shells and things she finds in the sand. I love watching The Hubs playing in the water and waves just like a kids he is like me, calm around the ocean we both love the water. It is our happy place. I love looking out on the horizon and seeing just water and waves. Even on a cloudy gray day it is so calming and relaxing. I feel so close to God and so spiritual at the beach.

Not to mention the time with the family! We are camping here in our trailer. We eat together and even clean up after meals together. We play cribbage or cards we don’t do this stuff at home, we could but don’t! I just love our Ocean camping trip vacations! Away from all the bullshit of work and house and bills and life in general (at least for a bit).

Everyone needs a vacation like this, even if just for a weekend, we only have 5 days…actually 4. A vacation to be close to your family at a place you can close your eyes and feel your mind and body relaxing with every breath that you breathe in!

Going back to my family!

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Sad Day Missing Grandma Great

25 Saturday Jul 2015

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Today we had a memorial to go to for The Hub’s ‘Grandma Great’ his Great Grandma, the Kid’s Great Great Grandma. The Hubs and his sister referred to her as Grandma Great. She was a sweet strong woman. She was 94, she recently moved rooms at the nursing home because she and her roommate would argue over the TV. She was feisty up to the end! She went to bed one night an did not wake up in the morning. The most peaceful way to go. She lived a long life.

I am sad for losing her. Today as anytime I go to a funeral or a memorial I also am missing my dad. There was a man there that reminded me of my dad. He looked like my dad with a belly. I was too shy to say anything to him. Even the wrinkles on his face reminded me of Dad. It probably would have blessed that man’s day to know that. Wish I would have said something.

Then I get sad for all the things my dad missed. The memories he never made in short life of 59 years. Grandma Great had 35 more years. My dad never met my kids, he never will meet his Great Grand kids or Great Great Grandkids. Never saw the Boy strap on pads or the girl lace up her first point shoes. Never saw me pregnant or rejoiced the day I gave birth or even walked down the aisle and said “I do”. Or did he? I want to believe we all have Immortal souls that live on with the living in spirit. My dad is there in my deepest moments and he is in the sun that kissed my face on my wedding day and in the sweat and tears that dripped from my face as I gave birth to my children. He has not been with me physically but I do believe he is with me to this day.

That is the faith that I have. When a dear friend lost her daughter I believe her daughter met my dad that day! Maybe this is a fairy tale or fantasy that helps me deal with death and loss. But I believe it is not a fantasy. I have felt the presence of many lost loves ones. Even The Hub’s Grandma who we lost years ago. She seems to be around the most, we connected on a level I never even understood until she passed away and I learned more about her from her husband who we had for a bit longer. I will forever hold this faith that I will never really lose my loved ones.

Over the years my faith has changed. My love for family and friends has not. We do, only have a limited time here on earth, we need to take the time to show our love and share our love with those we love while we can! It is sad to know someone young can pass away but it is no better when you lose someone who is old.

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I am going to love on my family a little closer for the moments that I have with them. Nothing is guaranteed only this moment. So take it in and share it with the people who you are with. Love with wreckless abandon.

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Happy National Tequila Day!

24 Friday Jul 2015

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vacation modeHappy National Tequila Day! What a great day to start my vacation! I am getting the family and our camping trailer ready to leave for vacation on Sunday, today! I am letting the PeeWee football equipment manage itself, later. I got all the gear shipment today that I needed (I think). And we will deliver it to the clubhouse later. I am totally on vacation mode! Pour me a shot sprinkle me some salt and pass me a lime please it is the start of my vacation!

We sadly have to delay officially starting and leaving until Sunday because Grandma Great passed away and tomorrow is her memorial. So we pull out of the driveway for camping Sunday morning. Headed for the Ocean!

I will have my yoga mat in tow, the kids and Hubs are bringing their RC Cars, and kites. I may (but probably not) take my jewelry making supplies. I just want to relax, we have been so busy and life has been crazy it is hard for me to even imagine what it is going to feel like to have no schedule and just be able to relax and not go go go. Not that I don’t like to go go go, but relaxation is definitely needed!

I am thinking first I will be employing Grandma one more night for tonight for the Hubs and I to go out. Since I don’t have to work I think we will spend some time on the customer side of the bar chilling and hanging out with some friends and kicking off the vacation!tequila-day

First things first, pack the trailer, make shopping list for food, eat some dinner (pizza cooking) and freshen up the house before we head west! Enjoy the weekend friends! Cheers to the freakin’ weekend and prefunk vacation!

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If Only I Could Write While I Think, Drive and or Take a Shower

23 Thursday Jul 2015

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I am tired! I have to get our camping trailer ready for our vacation. We leave on Sunday morning but have a memorial on Saturday and I have a shit ton of work to do at the PeeWees facility and massage work tomorrow AM. Luckily my bar job is training my sub for vacation tomorrow (a former bartender who normally lives in New Orleans who is in no way taking my job) during my Friday mid shift so I don’t have to work that. I’m sad, I’m going to miss my Friday shift this week, but as the Hubs said I could use the extra time to get stuff ready!

Not to mention the clubhouse is a disaster! We have gear checkout next Saturday and I am gone all week. Normally I spend that last week before gear check out organizing and cleaning. So someone needs to clean it up in there and we have started on some previous work party days but every time there has been stuff left unfinished and really we need basic sweeping the floors and stuff like that done! I am only one volunteer. When I took this position I didn’t have a job now I have two and the helpers I had in the past also have jobs now too!  We need new helpers to step it up! Their are some great people on the board that talk a great deal about how we are going to get stuff done and have a great year but a lot of detail balls have gotten dropped. And I am the Equipment Manager here saying…I asked about that months ago!

Anyway it is a labor of love! I love football and I love being involved with the sport and the Hubs and the Boy!
It is going to be a great year!

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Needless to say, maybe, I have not had a lot of extra time to write. If only I could think  and write at the same time while driving or taking a shower.  This everyday thing is tough but I have come this far and will continue! Just some days will be shorter than others!

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XXX-Photo Shoot Sex-XXX

22 Wednesday Jul 2015

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Happy Hump Day! Today’s hump day challenge was inspired by a moment I had last night. It is a Sexting challenge.
Take a photo of you and your lover in the act and send it to your lover tomorrow when you or they are at work. This is a good way to brighten your’s and your lover’s long day at work!

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Couldn’t resist this photo, this couple had an awesome sex selfie!

If you are shy, it can be simple up close of just your face so only you know what is going on if by chance a co-worker sees it. Or you can take a pic of your face all up in her pussy slurping her wet juices or with his cock in you mouth, your chin by his balls! There are some really pretty artistic ways you can do this too. The key is to experiment! It doesn’t have to be pretty though. You lover will be brought back to that moment of fun and the feeling of ecstasy that is your sex!

So in order to do this you have to have fun adventurous photo taking sex. Take some photos of your lover posed for you too, you can scroll through them on a long tedious day and send them to her/him with a caption that says “What gets me through long days without you”.

There you have it, short and sweet, your Hump Day Challenge. Photo Shoot Sex tonight, Sexting tomorrow and throughout the week!

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I Need A Gimick

21 Tuesday Jul 2015

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I am at work at the bar. It is slow. I want to figure out something for my Tuesday to get people in here. If the bar isn’t making money then I’m not making money. I have two customers right now. 

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A ladies night, or a game night, we have been trying Cards Against Humanity but only 2 people showed up for that. I wonder if we did line dancing or just dancing… Would people come out on a Tuesday. Tuesday is kind of a lull day and night anyway! There is a reason movie theatres do $5 movies… I wonder if we could do a movie date night and offer a special when they buy drinks and dinner we buy them a $5 movie ticket or what about some sort of date night special to bring people in… We need a niche! I believe if we have a niche we can get people…
Any Bartenders or potential customers have any ideas?! 

We need a Tuesday thing….to bring in new people a new crowd who want to hang out and buy two or three Cocktails and maybe food…

Think. Think. Think.

Suggestions greatly appreciated….

I am sure there is something I can go clean or reorganize behind the bar…

When I get home I need to wake the Hubs up and fuck him after this slow night it may be the only tip I get!!

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