Monthly Archives: August 2015

Coaching Puzzles

31 Monday Aug 2015

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How do you teach Self-denial and perseverance to 8-9 year olds? This quote is very accurate but how do you teach this to young football players? I helped coach the Hubs’ PeeWee team today. There are some great players and great kids then there are kids who don’t respect authority and don’t listen well or even know what “drive” is. It was somewhat painful dealing with some today as I helped coach in The Hubs’ absence. We had such a great driven team last year. (I know I should not compare teams.) I do believe these kids can be great, but THEY just have to decide to! How do you teach that?

If anyone can do it, my husband can. I am excited to see what they will look like next Saturday at the game! Sometimes all it takes is getting in the game for the light bulb to go off. He can do miracles and as long as the players decide to be great they will hold their own. Problem is some of these kids don’t know self discipline or respect so we’ll see if in he next two weeks they can learn it… I hope they can I want to see these boys do great against all the odds!!!

Regardless it is Wolfpack Football and we are under two weeks until kickoff!!!!!

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Quality Sunday

31 Monday Aug 2015

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OMG, so I forgot to post a blog today!!! It was a nice day. Got the kids clothes “inventoried” so we know what to purchase for school clothes this year. Then The Boy had a friend over and they all went to Grandma’s for a sleepover and she is taking them to a drive through zoo tomorrow! She has my kids plus the Boy’s friend and my sister’s two younger girls. Yes 5 kids and a roommate she will be taking to this drive through Zoo an hour away! I am sure they will all have fun, they may all drive her crazy but she will love every second of it. That’s what Grandma’s do!

The Hubs and I went out for dinner and a few drinks before bed. Then had some “quality time” together before we went to bed to sleep… that is when I realized I forgot to post today.

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Along with a few other things I forgot to do online. I.e. Fantasy Football Draft set up and PeeWee football Facebook update and maintenance stuff… Guess what I will be doing first thing in the AM after the Hubs goes to work?!

Anyway I feel like it was a productive Sunday and that it will be a good week. Starting it off with a productive, fun and relaxing Sunday that includes good sex (and the Hubs went shooting with his buddy so h had guy time and shooting time for some stress reliever) and quality time, we are set for a good week!

Happy End of Sunday folks!!

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Best Friends Hanging on a Saturday Night!

29 Saturday Aug 2015

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Happy Saturday!!! Seahawks won the preseason game! Which really means nothing but hey, a win is a win right? …Not really in the preseason!

We are hanging out at our friends house playing pool, watching the game, eating some dinner. I helped cook some dinner and I am pretty sure that one of our friends may have had an orgasm when he tasted my Mac and Cheese tonight. Tonight I made it with bacon. I cooked the bacon in small chunks and then added cheese and milk make it a cheese sauce and blend it with the pasta. Usually I add the cheese to the pasta and then add bacon bits after cooking them. It was pretty yummy! I do get excited when people that I cook for really like the food I cook!

We are hangingfriends know your stories with the Hubs’ friends who he has been friends with for years. The homeowner of the night was in our wedding and the boys here are all best friends. We are having a great time! We brought our kids (probably should have left them with a sitter they have been bored and exposed to a lot of language and inappropriate innuendo) they got to play pool too. They are being pretty good though.

It is a night with friends here, we are having fun. A friend just said that The Boy is “not short of character” he is a bit obnoxious to me but I am his mom and our friends think he is “not short on character” which is okay with me.

“Everybody here is a little shit talker” was the most recent quote of the night. (That one is going on the board on Twitter @goinondaboard a fun follow!) They are having fun just like they have done since they were in high school. So obviously my son has learned from the pros!

Going back to the group. Happy Saturday night folks I hope you all enjoy your family and hang with great friends!

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Best Thing About Bartending: Friends

28 Friday Aug 2015

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So I said it yesterday I waved the white flag and surrendered and hired back my house cleaner! I laid about an 8 hour shift of tips to get someone else to clean my house! It is so nice coming home to a clean and organized house! I would be sitting looking at a mess of I hadn’t it was worth the $90 for that today.

We are now sitting on the couch chilling. I had to work the midshift at the bar. It was a steady busy evening. I really would prefer the late shift because the tips are better, mostly.

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One of my favorite things about working at the bar is, that I have coworkers that are turning into really good friends! I don’t get that at my massage office. One of my bartending coworker friends came out to watch the Girl dance at the county fair the other day! It made me feel so special and so appreciative of our friendship!!! I am enjoying bartending. Sometimes I wish sometimes I could make more fancy Cocktails and more fun drinks and make more tips but even with what it is now, I really love it! The people and friendships and working together and having each other’s back is really rewarding! I love my job. It is really fun and makes me pretty good money.

I miss my family when I am at work, but if I have to work, I am happy that this is what I do, both of my jobs.

Go do what you love. Enjoy your life and enjoy your work. Do you, be you, love your life!

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Burning the candle at both ends

27 Thursday Aug 2015

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If my dad was still with us he would say “Stop burning the candle at both ends!” He used to get so mad at me for staying up late doing homework and then getting up early to finish it. He would be right, right now I am burning the candle at both ends. As they say it gives a lovely light however it might not last the night….

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I made a schedule for us tonight,home from football kids in bed 30 minutes after we get home then us in the hot tub and to bed by 10:00… It is 10:14 I just realized I hadn’t posted yet!  FUCK!!!!

We are both exhausted I waved a white flag today and called my friend who is a house cleaner and she is coming over tomorrow to help me get my house clean! I need a house keeper day! To come home and have the floors clean the dusting done and the tops of every surface is my house decluttered and cleaned up!

Before I pass out I am going tobgrav the Hubs maybe sit in the hot tub, but probably just go get him inside of me before we are yet again “too tired” (it has been a slow week in the sex arena of our life)! We need balance!! More sleep and more sex!!!

So try to keep that candle burning but not until it burns itself out!!!!

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XXX-Wedding Night Sex-XXX

26 Wednesday Aug 2015

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Today is my 15 year wedding anniversary! And as all of my days recently I have been very busy which is why this Hump Day Challenge is coming to you at almost 9 pm and will be very short…I think.

Today being my anniversary and all I was feeling nostalgic a bit which happens to me when milestones in my life happen. So I was trying to figure out a hump day challenge that would go along with my anniversary my wedding, or something nostalgic in my marriage. What I came up with is Wedding Night Sex. Your challenge is to recreate your wedding night. The setting the scene the ambiance everything. Unless it was uneventful and then create what you would want it to be if tonight was your wedding night!

caprice-wedding-night-sex-by-x-art-021What was your wedding night sex like? Mine was somewhat boring we were tired. We were the last to leave our wedding. The ceremony started at 3pm (we both started our day around 6am) and we finally left the venue around 9 or 10 after most of our guests. The only people left there were those who were helping to clean up. We kind of rolled over in bed and said well, I guess we better consummate our marriage.

So, let’s face it, basically the Hubs and I did not really have very good sex back then. We were boring and young and I was very much inexperienced and The Hubs was but his experience was having sex with teenagers since all of his other partners as well as himself were teenagers at the time they were having sex. The Hubs was my first. I never had day dreams about what my wedding night sex, was going to be like my daydreams were of my wedding the dress the party the ceremony ect, but looking back on it I wish it was epic! I have friends who had a camera set up in their wedding night hotel room and made a movie of their wedding night sex. Which is good since the Groom didn’t remember even having sex he was a bit drunk and had a good time at his wedding and reception. So, obviously some people put fore thought into what the wedding night sex may be like. If I was getting married again I totally would. So for your hump day challenge I challenge you to either set up and have your dream wedding night sex or repeat your epic wedding night sex. Now I know this may not be able to be accomplished tonight as so preplanning may be needed but really think about it and accomplish it sometime before next Hump Day.

I think my wedding night sex day dream would include (a clean room to start with and that is not the case in my life right now) White bedding, white fluffy pillows and a white feather boa! White lingerie for The Hubs to throw on the floor. A white whip even. Something magical and spectacular like soft make out before we take each others white under clothes off. My hair would be down and straight so the hubs could run his fingers through my hair. Soft white ambiance and a hard cock to go inside me. And a camera to film it all! Think about it, what did your wedding sex look like? Do it again if it was awesome if not recreate a mood and pretend you just became Mr and Mrs and for the first time as Mr and Mrs you are fucking.

That shift from non married to married is a big deal and feels different even the sex. It is great and should be celebrated and recreated and when recreating do it better, do it big, do it hard,  do it good! Whatever you do, just do it!

Enjoy, I will for the 15th year in a row on August 26 I will enjoy sex, one way or the other because “we probably should” and because we want to love to and crave each other! Go forth and have sex… A LOT guilt free!

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Crazy Emotional Tuesday

26 Wednesday Aug 2015

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So today was a busy day: Dr appointment the financial planner appointment the house work and homemaker stiff, had some emotional crankiness with the kids (is it time for school to start yet? They are going stir crazy!) With my emotional-ness today I saw this meme and decided it would fit for today’s (Tuesdays blog)

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You Do Not Have To Choose, You Just Have To Live

24 Monday Aug 2015

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Today may have been the first day, all summer, that I had a full shopping trip at Costco. So yeah I dropped almost 4 bills for groceries today. But now the fridge is stocked and we can eat every meal at home (however I probably should have bought more eggs, oops). When I got home from the store I had to weight for the garbage truck to move out of my driveway, but I then cleaned out and organized my freezer. I did not scrub the bottom but I picked up all the crumbs and random french fries that were there from some weird science type experiment that my kids did one day probably 2 years ago. I filled up a trash bag full of old food and things that needed to be thrown away from freezer burn or that I just neglected to toss out before, and of course this was right after the garbage truck left. That garbage can is going to be ripe next week!

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Today I also went back to my counselor for the first time since the end of April. Since before I got busy at the massage office and before I started bartending. I sort of reflected on the summer and updated him with my life and what has been going on. We talked about how in the time that I have been seeing him (over the past few years), I have gone back and forth about being a stay at home mom and being a working mom. Similar to how my blog has gone this year. It was a very eye opening visit. It gave me a lot of perspective. I think he was surprised I am still doing my blog. The way it has shifted and changed and evolved but also stayed the same is similar to my adult life. Very interesting insight today.

A friend of mine said to me the other day that I should pick what I want to do. Stay at home mom or work…I do go back and forth all the time with what is “right” and today in my visit I talked about this. I don’t think I have to, nor should I “pick one”. Once I pick one or the other that makes one the right way and the other the wrong way. I am so, sometimes too, focused on what I am supposed to do or what the right thing to do is and that makes what I do right and/or wrong, and I don’t want to be wrong, I want to be me. I need to do me!

In life there never really is a right or a wrong. So I think for me my focus needs to be to do me. Whatever that is in that moment some days it is one thing and others it is another. As always my life and everyone’s life is very dynamic. It is always evolving and changing. The one constant is change and I am working on living in the moment and loving every moment and accepting ME just where I am.

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Sunday~Friendday

23 Sunday Aug 2015

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It was so enjoyable staying in bed until 10:30 this morning! We had great sex last night, then slept until 10:30 right past the alarm at nine-ish. We ended today at our crazy friend’s house. The friends the kid watch movies with the “Friend Rule” if it’s something Friend would say, the kids are not allowed to repeat!

It is fun hanging with Crazy Friend! Crazy Friend was in our wedding, he has been at my house many nights sleeping on my couch and playing X-Box until 4 or so in the morning on occasion or more! I love Crazy Friend, not sure about the influence on my kids though!

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These are the types of friendships that last forever! Lots of fun and lot of laughs and lots of special moments! I love these moments, I am sure our kids will have lots of ” Crazy Friend” stories, which are always fun to share on late drunk and even non drink nights! I love our friends!!!!

I hope and wish you all to have a crazy friend like ours these moments don’t last forever and Crazy Friend types are the one’s there for you when you need them!!!

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Savor The Annoying Moments…every moment

22 Saturday Aug 2015

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Today as I write we are in the midst of what I am calling operation surprise a friend. They Boy has been asking for his buddy to spend the night all week. I kept forgetting to ask his mom and then I got a text inviting The Boy to his buddies Surprise birthday. Since the boy is horrible at keeping secrets I told her I wasn’t going to tell him until Saturday, that is when she got the idea to do this. So I am waiting on a phone call from Friends mom to let me know when to “come to pick the Friend’s bag” that he forgot….

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Tonight The Girl is at a friend’s house and the Boy is  obviously going to a friends house so The Hubs and I are going out on a real date. Our anniversary is this coming Wednesday so I told the restaurant we are celebrating our anniversary! We have been married almost 15 years we can celebrate an Anniversary Week/or two Anniversary Weekends!

This week, with our anniversary coming up and football starting and thinking of school starting soon (and working more hours at both jobs than I want to right now) I have been kind of nostalgic. As we get older and years go by you realize these moments don’t last forever! You realize that what I have been saying for so long “live in the moment and take it all in” really means something. Some times life seems hard and tedious and and annoying and just plain tough, but we need to realize that these moments are precious and deserve to be savored. Savor every moment and appreciate the milestones, don’t be sad! Enjoy it and live with no regrets. It is a reality that we have to miss some important moments in our kids and family members lives at sometimes but the moments we get to spend together we should make it worth every moment. Live laugh love, take it all in!

I plan to do just that tonight with The Hubs! (haha take it all in double meaning there)

Love your life don’t be sad in the tediousness or frustration in it. Be happy that you have it to live and happy you have those moments that make you crazy because one day you will wish you had more of them!

Love the life you live!!! ALL of it!

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