Monthly Archives: October 2015

Happy Halloween!

31 Saturday Oct 2015

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Happy Halloween!!! We just got back from Trick or Treating with the kids and their friends. They hauled in full buckets of candy tonight, we walked just a little over 2 miles, on the loop we live on. They had a good time! They are sorting their candy now. It’s funny how they sorted their candy. The Girl has three piles, actually 4, Fruity stuff, Chocolate stuff, Peanut and Penut butter stuff and Stuff she doesn’t like. The Boy however went a different route. He sorted everything in piles of the same he has an M&M pile, a Starburst pile, a Jawbreaker pile, Lollipop pile ect…

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He also has a “for daddy pile” which is everything that has peanut and peanut butter since he is allergic. It’s funny and curious the way they so differently sorted their candy. They are both different personalities and I bet there is some personality trait we could predict or determine with this observation. It’s just interesting to me.

Anyway hope you are all having a great day and enjoy the little gouls and goblins in you neighborhood! The Hubs and I are heading out to an 80’s party tonight! I have leg warmers, giant hair and blue eye shadow ready for this party!

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Live and enjoy Life

30 Friday Oct 2015

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It’s Friday I worked my day job, then bartending job and now it’s adult time! Thank goodness for Grandma who has the kids. The Hubs worked late and now we met up with some  friends. It’s been a rough go lately all around! I am having a fun time and not going to spend a long time blogging so here are some favorite photos that I found today in Facebook!

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And today I finally lost weight in my weight loss challenge so here is a fun one from that inspiration

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Have a great night! Live and Enjoy life, no matter what is going in always find the fun!!!

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Sleepy Thursday after a crazy week!

29 Thursday Oct 2015

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Today and this week have been long!!! I must say I am excited that tomorrow is Friday! Between working Tuesday night, being busy all day Wednesday, Date Night last night…I am just tired!!! I was falling asleep volunteering grading Math papers in The Boys class today! So here are a few quotes, to tide you over until tomorrow:

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Although, I may not be able to do anything except fall asleep. We are currently watching TV the Oregon Ducks game and more than once I have looked up and typed what I heard on the TV.

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Anyway, Go back to your night. I am going back to my Sour Apple Watermelon Martini and try to stay awake long enough for the Hubs to fuck me…
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XXX-Lost In You Day 301-XXX

28 Wednesday Oct 2015

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Happy Hump Day! If you read everyday you know I have had a bit of a stressful week. I have a hump day challenge for you, pick nits and comb bugs out of your off spring’s hair then ask you spouse to do the same to your hair and then get turned on and fuck like animals… Sounds sexy right? Yeah, that is similar to my day, I may have over dramatized that…  The Girl has “nits” that needed to be combed out of her hair, so I learned the literal meaning of the phrase “nit picking” today. Today, the school nurse found about 6 or so in my hair, which makes sense due to the fact that we only found one bug. Still none on the boy! Yay!

Anyway….back to the Hump Day Challenge. I am going to my trusty 365 Sex Moves book that you can purchase in my Amazon store on this page. Today is day 301 and the move today is super sensual, sultry and intimate! (I love it!) It’s called ‘Lost In You’ the man (or first partner) sits on the bed with his legs bent and slightly open. The female sits in between his legs and straddles him and makes herself

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comfortable. They are in perfect position to make eye contact make out, talk, have sexy dirty talk staring into each other’s eyes. I love this type of sexual position. I like the connection you feel with your partner!

Now go fuck and get lost in eachother! You don’t have to stay in this position the whole time but play with it. The speed and rhythm rocking forward and back with the hips vs bouncing or lifting up and down the shaft of the penis with your drippy wet pussy. Give eachother sloppy wet kisses, men this puts her nipples right there, suck on them and lick them. As always have fun with your partner! Grind on that ladies!

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28 Wednesday Oct 2015

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Happy Hump Day! If you read everyday you know I have had a but if a stressful week. I have a himo day challenge for you, pick nits and comb bugs out of your off spring’s hair then ask you spouse to do the same to your hair and then get turned on and fuck like animals… Sounds sexy right? Yeah, that is similar to my day, I may have over dramatized that.  The Girl has nits that needed to complete out of her hair, so learned the literal form of the phrase “nit picking” today. The school nurse found about 6 or so in my hair, which makes sense due to the fact that we only found one bug. Still none on the boy! Yay!

Anyway….back to Hump Day. I am going to my trusty 365 Sex Moves book that you can purchase in my Amazon store on this page. Today is day 301 and the move today is super sensual, sultry and intimate! It’s called ‘Lost In You’ the man (of first partner) sits on the bed with his lthis bent and slightly open. The female sits in between his legs and straddles him and makes herself

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comfortable. They are in perfect position to make eye contact make out, talk have sexy dirty talk staring into each others eyes. I love this type of sexual position. I like the connection you feel with your partner!

Now go down and get lost in eachother! You don’t have to stay in this position the whole time but play with it. The speed and rhythm rocking forward and back with the hips vs bouncing or lifting up and down the shaft of the penis with your drippy wet pussy. Give eachother sloppy wet kisses, men this puts her nipples right there, suck on them and lick them. As always have fun with your partner! Grind in that ladies!

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Trying to Hang In and Stay Motivated and Motivating

28 Wednesday Oct 2015

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I started this blog to inspire moms. To accept being themselves and to do their best for their husband and families and for themselves, but I am not sure that I even believe my bull shit anymore! I have been working so hard, trying so hard and doing so much and I still feel like I am waiting for approval from someone, mostly my husband. Why isn’t me knowing what I need and my family needs and providing that not enough? I am still looking for approval from my husband and/or others around me…
I just need someone to lift me up in life sometimes. It is a tough thing to be strong in the outside but feel weak on the inside and the people on the outside can’t see your inside..

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Just keep swimming. Chin up the sun will come out tomorrow!

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Sucky Day but the Bright Side is: It’s not Cancer!

26 Monday Oct 2015

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So the stress I Mentioned yesterday, I am ready to talk about. We found Lice in The Girl’s hair! Did the Chemical treatment, combed through her hair ect. The disease (is lice a disease?) has been going around the dance studio for a while I guess. We checked her hair back when the first outbreak occurred back in August and her head was clear. But a mom friend came up to me Saturday morning and said she thought she saw a little bug on the Girl’s face so I should check her hair. So I did and my greatest fear was realized! She had lice! So I treated her hair combed it out really well. When we got home I checked The Boy’s head and found some in his hair too. So I treated him and combed through his hair and then again combed through both heads this morning and will again before they go to bed. Then my mom came over and checked my hair…FUCK! I had it too. She only found one bug and no noticeable nits so maybe we caught it early enough to not have too much effort to manage it! So I treated myself had my mom comb through my hair and she found no other issues. We’ll see what it looks like tomorrow I guess.

I am told, “don’t worry, it has nothing to do with you, lice attacks everyone it does not discriminate clean or dirty…” Which sounds good and I have used that to comfort others in the past but…now that it happens to me I go “WHAT THE FUCK DID I DO?” I told the kids put your clothes in the wash everyday, take showers everyday wash with tea tree shampoo…the list goes on. When something like this happens to you (or at least to me) it mortified me! I am ashamed and want to crawl into a corner and cry and eat cake and feel sorry for myself. The Hubs just does not understand. I realize how irrational this sounds but it has crossed my mind to burn the house down would be easier than all the “quick tips” of putting everything in a plastic bag for two weeks or washing and drying pillows and everything just seems so tedious and so much and so stupid! It fucking sucks! I have probably spent 10-12 hours over the past two days just checking and combing and picking and flat ironing hair to kill the little fuckers! (Yes, it’s one of those days that it feels better to fucking cuss, so if my language is offense shut the fuck up and find something else to read because that’s how I am today. Sorry, I am not sorry!)

There are so many rumors are going around the dance studio related to who started it. Who is still itching and who has it now. I hope to god I don’t hear any shit being talked about me or my child if so, it will be time to find a new studio I can’t deal with shit like that. That (the gossip and drama) is one reason we left the last studio,Monkey Lice I can’t handle drama and bull shit or rumors and gossip! Why can’t everyone just work hard, get the awards they deserve, support each other, and not have to talk shit about someone else to make themselves feel better? Anyway, this is my stress today! I hate this day I am so angry if the rumors are true that there are families who are not being diligent about getting a handle on this disease in their own families and then they come and share it with my family! I will not be part of the problem which is why I have decided to stay home today and fess up to the fact that my child had it and I am doing everything in my power to control this horrible thing!

Being a silver lining type person I am going to acknowledge at least this disease as horrible as it is not life threatening. The world is not coming to an end and no one is going to die! Lice is not a health risk for anything (at least I don’t think so) they are just a bother. A very gross bother! There are many families dealing with cancer or deadly childhood diseases and here I am freaking out about a little gross ugly annoying non deadly bug! When I think about it like that I realize I should relax a little as life could be worse! But I am such a stressball!

I try to keep myself from losing it in front of my kids I want to scream and cry as I am pulling bugs out of my child’s hair but I keep a “professional” mom face on. Just like it’s no big deal. I tell the kids it happens to everyone. Secretly I am dying inside! Then I get the don’t worry it happens to everyone type of support from some people and that just makes me want to throat punch someone (is it throat punch Thursday? No it’s only Monday). The Hubs doesn’t really understand why I am so stressed when I know that it is no big deal. That still doesn’t take the feeling of failure that I have away. I have somehow let my kids down because I let them get this… Yes, I know that is unreasonable just like burning the house down is, but I can’t help that is the feeling that I have. I try to remind myself “Don’t believe everything you think!” But it’s easier said than done. All the more reason to remind myself of the kids with cancer or even broken bones. As much as it sucks today it could be worse. So I will be grateful that we have lice not cancer.

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Long Drive Home

25 Sunday Oct 2015

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We are driving home tonight from Great Wolf Lodge! It was the site of The Girl’s dance convention this weekend. Overall this weekend was fun. I got to watch the Girl dance and The Boy play football. The boys team won! It was a great game I am glad I got to go! At dance conventions they charge parents to watch, the observer fee is $40 for the weekend so I didn’t purchase that this year knowing that I was going to miss Saturday an have the Boy and The Hubs there it wasn’t worth it. But I did decide to purchase the observer pass for dance down, so I at least got to watch her dance on stage.

Dance Down is where they perform the routines, that they learned during classes all weekend, for the judges. Then the judges select their favorites. The Girl made it through the first round but did not make it to finals. She did awesome though! Best dance down performance I have seen her do!

The Boy and The Hubs and I played in the water park all day. We met up with the friends one kid was pulling us up on the slides one right after another! My legs are tired from those stairs! The Boy and The Hubs just got tired of the water park! I got break for an hour or so to watch Dance Down.

As I said we are driving back the Hubs has to drive the rest of us can chill so he usually wants to leave before us. Those kinds of weekends are not really his thing. He does try to have fun and support our kids like spirit. He knows when we should head home. He is good at thinking out how long the drive is, how much time it will take to unpack the car and what time it will be when we get home. Glad we left when we did because there was an accident on the way home so we are taking the back roads scenic route (in the dark).

All in all for me it was a good weekend. There was a little more stress and drama that I don’t want to talk about but overall was a good weekend. Any weekend I can watch the Boy play Football and The Girl Dance I am happy. Now to head home and offer up some butt sex for the Hubs so he can also count it as a good weekend! (Yes I said that. Yes mean it. Yes, I know what my husband likes and what makes him happy.) Enjoy the last few minutes of this weekend everyone!

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Final Game is a W!!!

24 Saturday Oct 2015

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So today was our Pee Wee Football team’s last game! Our season has been rough. We had a team with a lot of beginners and they really exceeded my expectations. They were a better team than the record showed.

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Today’s game we won 24-0. The Boy played out of his mind! He was amazing! I am so proud of him. He had 3 forced fumbles, recovered 2 of them, sacked the QB, multiple tackles for losses. The boy has done all of this all season but today it was a stand out day! A great way to end the season.

It was a team win. A lot of boys played well. They were doing well on all fronts! It is funny how the team starts playing really well at the end of the season (well not that funny, these are 8 & 9 year olds they take some time to gel together and learn new things)! This team made me proud. We may not have got a trophy this year, but we made a lot of football players better and that is what I am most proud of these coaches for!

I started my day this morning driving an hour plus from the dance convention the Girl is at for the game and now we are driving back down to dance convention where the Girl is! I hear she is doing great dancing. So the reports from other parents say. The day has been a long day for me but was so worth it, being able to watch the boy play, especially today as great as he played!

I am looking forward to some fun tonight at the water park and then tomorrow. The girl has more dance and is done at 4:00 so we will be staying late to get some more play time in the water! The kids should have fun sleeping in out theme hotel room with bunk beds! It’s going to be great!

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He Gets Me!!! I Knew It!!!

23 Friday Oct 2015

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The Hubs gets me, and yesterday was a moment I realized it! I don’t think he knows how much it meant to me! So yesterday I got to cook for friends who came over to watch football! We had friends over for the football game. If you read daily you already know this. This morning as I cleaned the kitchen I couldn’t have been more happy. I love having people over. I don’t mind the extra work I love feeding my friends and sharing time together and chatting. I don’t even mind the mess after ward. I just love to entertain. The Hubs however, does not exactly share those feelings. But he gave me quite a gift yesterday. He invited people over. Coaches from football and their kids. He does not usually do that. Usually I take the lead first I make sure he is okay with it (which he usually is) and then I invite the guests. He invited people over all on his own and he even told me “I know how you like having people over.” He does not. He would rather watch not fuss, just watch the game if people are their cool but he just as happy just the two of us, not that he does not like having people over he just couldn’t care less one way or the other. But he knows how much I like it. And that is why he organized a little gathering.

you get meYou see folks my husband will be there for me no matter what, he usually needs me to tell him what I need. But he will do what ever it is I ask. If I tell him “I want you to ______” he will do that, but usually not if I don’t ask. He knows that for football I go all out. Last night I made wings and pigs in a blanket. Had a spread of cookies, skittles, chips and dip. For like 5 people, but I got to do it and I loved that! It made my heart happy! He knows what makes me happy and usually he sits back and lets me have the parties and do the entertaining but this time he took the lead. It just really meant a lot to me. Moments like those I like to notice him and tell him I notice him noticing me and know what I like and needed to make my night!

So tonight friends, think about what makes your heart happy! Are you doing it? Does your spouse know what it is? Are they supporting you in it? Are they making arrangements for you to do it? If not communicate. No one knows if you don’t tell them. I told the Hubs this morning how much I appreciated him for that last night! You have got to speak up. Reward your spouse with lots of thank yous and acknowledgements when they do something for you that shows you they really “get you” We all need happy hearts! Some people take a lot more communications than just subtle or not so subtle hints. I can really see my husband breaking out and making an effort to really support me and letting me have those happy heart moments. I love him for it. I try to do the same for him. His happy heart moments are different.

Usually we do for the other what we would want them to do for us. Which is fine, but it might not mean as much for them as it does for us so step out of your comfort Zone and check out what your spouse wants. If you are having a hard time try to remember when they did something for you that they thought was really special and you kind of just were like “Eh, it’s cool but…” that may be something that you can try to turn the tables and do something similar for them and they will be like “Wow! You made my day!”

Here’s to happy hearting your lover, and better understand him or her. It means a lot to finally feel like they “get you”. Good luck! Have a great night folks!

I LOVE MY HUSBAND!!!! And I miss him I am at a dance convention with the girl he is at home to be ready for football tomorrow. We will reunite and join one another there tomorrow, it’s just one night, I can manage…

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