So I don’t know if you noticed but I have not blogged everyday this last week. This weekend partly out of the fact that I was busy but partly for lack of something to write about, partly lack of time to write and partly out of spite, I didn’t blog. I did post a picture yesterday about change. It’s time for a change.
So let me go back a bit. Since this year started I have kind of abandoned the whole everyday thing. I have been writing everyday but that is about it. I have not been making sex a priority in my relationship I have been busy! The Hubs and I have had a rough year. I don’t know if it is because we haven’t had sex everyday or for some other reason. I do remember noticing last year when we started this that he and I were much less stressed. My husband is calmed by having sex everyday. He tends to lack the ability to control his stress level and handle his stress. It seems one of the only ways he relieves stress is sex. I don’t know if this is bad or good but it is what it is. I know that sex with my husband is much better than fighting with him! So I am reviving the focus on having sex everyday.
Last year it did get to a point on occasion (often toward the end of the year which is why I went away from it the beginning of this year) it became a hassle. Everyday having to have sex it felt like a struggle to have connection. I am still fighting with that but I am really wanting to have a happy life with less fighting. I know there is more to a relationship than sex and problems and communication issues cannot be solved solely by having sex but having sex does create a connection that would not exist while abstaining. So it’s like I have said before, you can’t build a relationship on sex but you can keep yours together by having sex. We have some issues to get through. We do but for now, sex is needed, everyday! So once again we are going to be reconnecting to the routes of Sex Love and Washing Clothes and that is have sex everyday! So for now I need to get ready for the Hubs to get home.