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Dad’s Birthday 2016

28 Saturday May 2016

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Today is/was my dad’s birthday. He today would’ve been 76 years old. If you didn’t know my dad past away January 2000 from a brain tumor from Metastasized Lung Cancer. I miss my dad a lot. I’m sad for so many things I have done that he never got to see.

He did not get to see the Girl ever. She was so pretty when she was born. She is getting g ready to start Jr High in September. I have shed a few tears in the last few days after the last elementary assembly where she was awarded a Global Thinker and Caring award as well as a Presidential Award for Academic Excellence. How did she turn out so good? I am so proud. He never got to meet her or the Boy.

I know he would be proud and I know he was in a lot of pain from his illness when he died. However, I can’t help but be sad that I don’t have a Dad who can see what I have become and what my children have become and be proud and then he would tell me. I know, selfish.

I am going to do my best to not leave my family early, and do my best to take in every moment. I am never sad for passing moments and milestones with my kids, I am proud of them and I try to be there to take it a in. You can slow down or turn back time. You can only enjoy the moment while it is here. Right now, I am enjoying it all. Life is crazy and busy and sometimes turned upside down but I love every minute. Without passing of time you don’t have memories to sit back and be fond of. I love my family, I live my life. I am proud of my kids. As well as proud of my husband and and I for staying out of the way enough for them to have turned out pretty well!

I miss my dad, but I know everything about him even him dying when I was 21 has shaped me to be the person I am. I miss him I am sad my kids could never meet him, but I am happy I had him for 21 years and Thankful for him.

#Recomitt2016

XXX-Rump Day Challenge-XXX

25 Wednesday May 2016

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Happy Hump Day! I really need to write these challenges when I have more time and can think better. Almost 11pm is a little late for me to get creative and the Hubs always suggests a “Rump Day Challenge” so here goes…

Today’s Hump Day Challenge is lovingly called “Rump Day Challenge” today’s hump day challenge is an anal sex challenge. Grab the lube, I prefer the silicone lube best. Be sure to use condom safe lube if you need to use them.

anal sexThe trick to anal is to start off slow and gentle. If she is tight slowly apply pressure to her rose bud, make sure you have used enough lube to slide in. As you feel it open and slowly relax to let you in you must avoid the urge to force your way in, I know you may like it but she probably will not especially if she is new to this type of sex. Remember she has to relax too and she can’t relax if you are going ape wild on her ass! She trusts you enough to let her try anal on you so be patient and let it happen (if it doesn’t happen tonight just be cool and try again tomorrow or the next night.)

Once inside her go slow. Moving in and out isn’t always what she likes and/or what gets her close. It may be what you like but most women like is slow and gentle and add in a lot of foreplay and touching and licking and kissing. She is a lready hot for you, compliment her. Tell her she is beutriful! Don’t make her do it for longer than she wants that will make her not trust you and may jeopardize the opportunity your have in the future and the time frame for when she will let you in again.

Just be cool! Go SLOW and Love on you girl. The more tonge and foreplay the better the chance of her accepting anal!

BTW if you are keeping tabs the challenge of 4 days in a row of two-a -days is still in tacked!!

#Recomitt2016

Everybody’s Gotta Have Goals

24 Tuesday May 2016

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Get ready for a TMI raw sex sort of post! The Hubs and I are on day 3 of wake up morning sex. We had a bit of a crazy Saturday Night lots of laughs with friends and 90’s music. It’s funny when you have certain experiences that make you connect and want to be connected.

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We have had two, two a days in a row and are half way there for three…my goal is four, Fuck-it let’s go for it…Maybe we’ll say at least one two-a-day per week. But this week….four or more! A girl has got to set goals! (Having sex makes you want it more, having more sex makes you closer and want more sex…it is an endless cycle, so, have more sex)

Speaking of goals, I need to get back into shape! My birthday is a week from tomorrow. I have been working on getting my ass out of bed earlier, to workout, make the Hubs and kids lunch and breakfast and prep for dinner…all before work!

So here’s to a Goal setting, no a goal reaching mindset! More sex with the Hubs, workout time for me and home cooked meals for the fam! Life is so much better with those three things in place!

#Recomitt2016

Feeling “22”

22 Sunday May 2016

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Last night was 90’s night at our favorite bar. They did this last year as well and it was a blast. This year was fun too. I love hearing bands play songs from my teenage and young adult years! Brings back very fond memories. We met up with some friends and just let our hair down and relaxed. Our friends have a baby and they don’t get out much but we had a blast!

We acted and felt like we were “22” to quote TSwift. It was a bunch if fun I have a few bruises I don’t remember getting and I cut my foot in a broken bottle, but other than that no worse for the wear! I kind of need a Weekend to recover from this weekend, we went out Friday for just a reboot the two of us, the tonight we had a birthday celebration for another friend.

I so love these weekends. Fun times, no drama with great people…friends who are family. I needed this!

#Recomitt2016

XXX-Sex and Mirrors-XXX

18 Wednesday May 2016

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Hello, it is Hump Day! For today’s Hump Day Challenge I am bringing back Mirror Sex. I love mirrors! If the Hubs would let me and people wouldn’t judge me I would hang one on my ceiling! We used to have a closet with sliding mirror doors in a bedroom in an apartment we rented way back when. Then sometimes at random hotels there are mirrors next to beds, I love mirrors! Tonight I am challenging you to grab your full length mirror off the back or your bathroom door or where ever you have it or position yourselves in a spot that you can watch you and your lover’s body grind and rub against each other as you make love tonight. Some people like looking at him entering her and some people like watching the two bodies move together and seeing from the outside what it feels like from the inside.

mirror sexExplore and play with different angles, make sure your mirror is secure and won’t fall on you or break in the middle of your passionate actions. Sit in front of the mirror with her sucking your cock, if you are sitting right you can watch her body move and get a nice view of her lovely pussy and ass as she is pleasuring you. Then you can switch and she can watch herself get pleasured by your tongue then you can climb on top of her and grind on her and you guys can look at your bodies as they grind like a dance together that is filled with feelings of physical pleasure and ecstasy.

Watching your lover make love is so erotic as you see her move and feel it at the same time. You will enjoy and I bet you will, like me, be trying to figure out a way to conceal a mirror permanently over or around your bed to enjoy that view more often!

#Recomitt2016

 

Meditate on This

17 Tuesday May 2016

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I’m getting my hair done. Sitting in the salon chair “processing”. That’s a big word for letting the color solution change the color of my hair. I am also processing some events of the last few days and some future plans. As I “process” I sit here with hair dryers in the background, and an undertone of conversation there is definitely more to process than my hair!

I have a lot going on right now, between work, kids, husband, life in general. It would be nice to have a day, or just a few hours even, to “process” everything. In real life though you don’t get time to stop and process. But what if we did? Some cultures in Asia they, at least they used to, take time and plan time I to their day to meditate..aka process life.  I have done some meditation and honestky it is as needed in our “American Culture” as much as exercise. I process a lot of my emotions by exercising, chatting with girlfriends and eating chocolate cake but really nothing replaces just standing and breathing in where you are as just being…that’s what meditation really is.

So here is my charge to you: Meditate on where you are, what you are and/or who you are. Turn off the background noise and check in to you! What is not that you need? what is it that you need to know? about you? about how you feel? about who you are?

Basically, where do you stand? Not, where do you think you ‘should’ stand…”where do you stand?”

Once you answer that question, processing may be slightly easier….

#Recommit2016

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17 Tuesday May 2016

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I’m getting my hair done. Sitting in the salon chair “processing”. That’s a big word for letting the color solution change the color of my hair. I am also processing some events of the last few days and some future plans. As I “process” I sit here with hair dryers in the background, and an undertone of conversation there is definitely more to process than my hair!

I have a lot going on right now, between work, kids, husband, life in general. It would be nice to have a day, or just a few hours even, to “process” everything. In real life though you don’t get time to stop and process. But what if we did? Some cultures in Asia they, at least they used to, take time and plan time I to their day to meditate..aka process life.  I have done some meditation and honestky it is as needed in our “American Culture” as much as exercise. I process a lot of my emotions by exercising, chatting with girlfriends and eating chocolate cake but really nothing replaces just standing and breathing in where you are as just being…that’s what meditation really is.

So here is my charge to you: Meditate on where you are, what you are and/or who you are. Turn off the background noise and check in to you! What is not that you need? what is it that you need to know? about you? about how you feel? about who you are?

Basically, where do you stand? Not, where do you think you ‘should’ stand…”where do you stand?”

Once you answer that question, processing may be slightly easier….

#Recommit2016

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Don’t Be Afraid

16 Monday May 2016

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I have gotten away from posting and/or writing everyday. I miss it! I want to write more but I am so busy, and other things get in the way. I want to take care of myself better too and the same things get in the way! It is my time! I am Ruby, I am a Mom, I am a Wife, I am a Massage Therapist and many other things. I am a woman who deserves the best from herself and I have not been giving myself the best. It is scary to leave what works and go to the unknown. I know I am better than this, I know I deserve better. I even think I know how to get it. But I am scared and as with every part of my life so far I sabotage and make excuses! STOP IT RUBY! JUST, STOP IT!

Don't be afraidI am a dreamer I believe we all deserve the best and we all are worthy but for some reason I accept less, always. Especially when it is me that is responsible for making it happen. It is so easy to stay in the now especially when things are good enough and maybe even better than most. I still sit here wanting the best, wanting more am I really capable? How can I do it? Will it really work? If not then what? Will I lose everything I have worked for so far? Probably not, but possibly. That is always possible. Am I making the best effort all the time? am I always doing my best? Am I always expecting the best or am I always accepting less? I am always accepting less, for me, I can sacrifice. As long as everyone else is happy. My best happiness does not always matter to me. I want everyone else to be happy I want them to have it easy, I will do the harder work to make you happy and hope that you will do the same for me…guess what, they don’t!

So here is my charge to myself, it is time to make the best decision for me. It is time for me to go be great! I know what I have to do. I almost know how to do it. I don’t know how I am going to but I am going to do it! I will be great. My life will be great and I will get what I deserve. I will not shy away from work to get there!

Do you need to do the same? Let’s support each other!

#DoYou2016

Baseball by the River

13 Friday May 2016

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Hello Sex Love And Washing Clothes-ers! The Fam and I are heading south for a baseball tournament. Not sure the Boy can even play, but we are going g to support his team anyway! If he feels good enough and he can open his eye all the way the Urgent Care Doctor said he could play. We’ll see and we’ll play it very cautiously!

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Where we are camping at there is a river. I wonder if it will be warm enough to escape and have sex on the river bank? The Hubs and I have been busy and tired and not very adventurous with our sex sessions lately. Maybe at least we can get a walk in this evening and sneak away in the woods for a make out session or something! We just have to ditch the kids and all the other baseball Fams!

I am looking forward to building be relationships with the baseball team families. I really am. I love getting to know knew people and enjoy travelling and especially watch the Boy play! It will be a fun season, I hope!

However, I really would love a weekend away with the Hubs I think I will be looking for some plane tickets or at least a hotel room for the first non baseball or dance weekend that is schedule for mid July! Until then we will do our best to sex it up quietly I the trailer and runaway when we can hide from the kids to kiss make out and feel eachother up!

Here’s to a fun weekend!

#Recomitt2016