Monthly Archives: July 2016

XXX-Just Go Have Sex-XXX

28 Thursday Jul 2016

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women-should-be-obscene-and-not-heard-14Hello! Happy Hump Day!!! It is 11:45pm on this hump day! It has been a crazy busy week. I have been moving my massage practice and starting my own private practice so that entails a lot of paperwork, filings, fees, phone calls and faxes just a lot of work! Then this Saturday is gear check out for peewee football. It is my big day as the equipment manger and there is a lot to get ready and to make ready for that before Saturday. All in all I feel like I have done an okay job balancing all of my different tasks that I need to get done and things I need to do so far. But it has left little room for my write a hump day challenge!

So for todays hump day challenge I am going to just say go get you some! Just fuck and be happy! Girl on top, boy on top, oral, kissing making out heavy petting all of the fun stuff include that like you are back in college. Just get close get naked and let nature take over. Don’t push anything! I personally need a low pressure good sex high intensity orgasm type sexual experience. I am so in need of one of those kinds of attitude adjustments! It’s time to go!

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Breaking Free

25 Monday Jul 2016

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FutureSo it has been a long week. I haven’t wrote since last Tuesday! Last week I spoke of things that happened that I didn’t want to talk about yet. Well then more things happened and happened so fast that I didn’t have time to stop and write. I have been overwhelmed this last week. the weekend previous to last Tuesday (the last time I blogged) I had looked at a new office to rent for my massage office. I have been contemplating private practice for a long time. I heard about this space available and decided to talk to the owner and then looked at it two weekends ago. I decided by Tuesday that I would talk to my boss and tell him I found a place. If he made an offer for me to rent the space I was in I would consider it but I was pretty sure I was done dealing with scheduling issues, done paying too much for rent on uncapped commissions and ready to have my own office.

Well I put in notice on Wednessday. I had decided I could wait until August 10 or so to stay at the chiropractic office to help out since the other massage therapist in our office just gave notice that she was leaving end of July. The Dr however decided that he didn’t want me to stay and help out he wanted me to leave. He said “Friday will be you last day” he must have thought I was a threat or something and the other massage therapist was not! I was kind of insulted but ok I guess I have work to do! Since then it has been a crazy busy time full of crazy unpredictable and un-understandable emotions. I went from feeling sad for leaving to feeling relieved to feeling angry that I have let the disrespect last so long! I was feeling not good enough, held back and stuck where I was at. I knew I was going to a better place but was scared and overwhelmed with too much to do in too little time. That made me emotional and the Hubs and I got in two arguments because he was frustrated he couldn’t understand me, well, neither could I! He is a typical guy who likes to and thrives on fixing things and when he can’t be a fixer he doesn’t know what to do and gets frustrated.

I was overwhelmed, I didn’t know how to feel or what to think. I was caught up in my head and couldn’t get focused. Once I got focused on working on my new office which happened this weekend when we started painting the new space and getting it ready it was invigorating, and inspiring. Then I was mad I spent so much time fretting about leaving the old place.

Today was my first day in my new office. I had 3 appointments most of my clients have chosen to keep the already scheduled appointments at my new place. So I am officially in private practice! I am renting space from another massage therapist working in an office of 4 therapists. I got to paint my own office, change out electrical outlets and pick out curtains and  decorate. I need to buy a new table soon, I need a chair for clients to sit while they change, I need a mirror (I found one that matches my curtains and will work well but it is $70 and I am running low on funds considering that I have to pay rent! I am excited and feeling free! I have 7 more massages until I cover rent and massage related expenses! I am feeling hopeful and ready to take on this challenge and I am happy to be living my dream live and in person!

It was sad-ish to leave. It was emotional, hard, confusing because I wanted to go but I am looking forward to this new adventure. I was scared to break out of my comfort zone. I am still scared but I know it is good. Good things come from breaking free from fear and breaking out and being bold! I will not stop until I have gotten to where I want to be and I will be happy. I will provide for my family and live in abundance! I am happy to stretch my comfort zone, no, I am happy to leave my comfort zone! I want to, but it is hard and it will hurt but it will be worth it!

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Race Medal Fever

19 Tuesday Jul 2016

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It’s date night Tuesday! It feels like today has been a long day. It has been a pretty good day. I was productive! I finally got some groceries, notice how I didn’t say “went grocery shopping” but I got some groceries. Then I worked my on-site massage job at the time company, smoked a beer can chicken for dinner then went to PeeWee clubhouse to get some stuff situated. I sorted through some coaches gear today. I work tomorrow and it is gear fitting training day for this year’s football coaches.

I have a lot going on in my head and don’t want to write about it yet! So let me tell you about my weekend, I ran the Warrior Dash! It is an obstacle course race 3.15 miles. I did it with my workout partner. It was a blast! She is much shorter than me and I had to help give her a boost in the Mud Mound obstacle. Then we had to shower each other off which took forever and still didn’t get us completely rinsed off. It just wet my appetite for another race, I don’t care what, a run, a Triathlon, another mud run…I’m in, someone please hook me up with a good one to do! We have one dance moms doing a color run coming up… I have always avoided them because the Hub’s has asthma. Maybe I’ll go. It was a ton of fun to be back on a race course! That feeling of getting the medal put over your head around you neck! So Good!

It’s time for me to go back to chill with the Hub’s it is date night! Good might peeps!

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Busy Volunteering

18 Monday Jul 2016

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Hello readers, sorry I have been MIA this last week. July means it is time to get ready for football. This last year I have been working a lot and have been busy so, the Equipment Manager job at PeeWees has kind of taken a back burner. Football starts beginning of August so it’s time to get ramped up and get shit done at the PeeWee clubhouse. I was told that they were going to redo the shelving and be able to get new bins for pants and stuff which never happened. So the pants that I left for until the we got new bins are still in the same place that they were in when they got turned in in November. The club got new shoulder pads that took up most of my living room for about a month then I put about half of them on the racks at the last work party day that was on the same day as opening day of baseball. This weekend we had a work party scheduled and I had a race so I was again not there until the afternoon but still got a bunch done but there is still a lot to do!

love volunteeringVolunteering as Equipment Manager is a big task. I really enjoy it and have a passion for making sure the kids are equipped properly and safely. The job has not been getting enough attention and this year I kind of dropped the ball on a few things. Not that they won’t get done and nothing that is too late to do but working full time has really changed the amount of time I can dedicate to the Equipment Manager roll and needs to be more organized, which I will work on this year so that next year goes smoother than this off season. I will get through it there may be some late nights and long summer days spent in the equipment room instead of outside chilling but it is what it is.

So that is one reason I have not blogged I have been ordering and checking gear and scheduling check out day and sending details to the whole club (that I got wrong) but the info is getting out and we will make it though. I am hoping that we get through it without any more tears and can get our communication squared away so that we are all on the same page but there is always struggles like this as we get closer to the beginning of the season. I am trying really hard to keep it all together and get everything done right. I am bad at asking for help or giving things for others to do to help because I am not the most organized in my head. That is one thing I can work on to help as the season goes on and in the future in all areas not just football.

I am ready for the season to start football is my favorite time of the year, just this lead up to the season part sucks! I am going to try to be more committed to my blog as well as more organized in my whole life. This weekend has been packed and there is so much to write about but for now this is all you get folks. Keep reading this week for details lots went on with Ruby this weekend.

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xxx-Truth or Dare-xxx

13 Wednesday Jul 2016

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sexy-truth-dare-lHappy Hump Day! Today’s hump day challenged inspired by the Hubs’ (slightly annoying) game he likes to play to spice things up in bed every now and then, Truth or Dare! Today your challenge is to play Truth or Dare with your lover. If you want to get crazy and dirty do it in a group of adult friends who are also lovers. I am not a huge fan of Truth or Dare during sex because it takes way too much thinking. I enjoy the game and I enjoy to spice that it brings to our love life and our nights that we include truth or dare in our sex sessions and love making. I have a hard time thinking up fun spicy questions and dares so my goal for this post is to offer a couple suggestions to take out the thinking part. I am going to enlist the help of the Hubs also he is sitting next to me and usually drives the truth or dare sessions.

Truth:

What is your favorite sexual sensation to experience?

What is you favorite way to pleasure your partner?

What is your favorite body part to enjoy naked?

Describe your favorite time we had sex.

When is the last time you woke up and didn’t know if we had sex last night?

Dare:

Dare them to perform their favorite way they like to pleasure you.

Dare them to give you their favorite sexual sensation or your favorite.

Dare to try a new position

Dare them to not use hands for 5 minutes.

Dare them to fuck you like and animal!

(Also you can use that little electronic tool Google or Bing to research some Truth or Dare Questions and Dares.) A fun way to do it is to have some pre written Truth questions and Dares on individual slips of paper, put in two hats and draw from the Truth or Dare hat(whichever your partner chooses). This will also take out that thinking phase of it.

Ok, there you have a few suggestions take and run with them on your own. You know your partner get specific. Please, though, respect your partners boundaries and don’t push them further just for the sake of a game or Hump Day Challenge. Never push your partner further than they are willing to go. With that said relax, it’s just sex try to put the predetermined issues of weirdness or taboo aside as much as possible. Enjoy this day and enjoy stretching your sexual experiences and enjoy the time and enjoy the new and different or rarely experienced sexual sensations that you will get to experience. Remind yourself of the things you don’t do for your partner very often.

Enjoy tonight and be confident in your bed tonight and dare to have fun!

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All You Need Is a List And a Deck Of Cards

07 Thursday Jul 2016

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Happy Hump Day from vacationing at the beach! Today’s Hump Day Challenge is inspired by playing cards with the fam tonight! It is a sex card game! You could be vanilla and play strip poker but who wants to be vanilla?! If you have a sex card deck grab it out and follow the rules of play. Since we do not have a sex deck here I had to think up (aka Google) ideas or this. 

So, make a list of 10-13 sex acts that you both are up for (or down for however you like to say it). You can both come together with a list of 7-8 each then eliminate 1-2 from each list to end with 13 or so. Each card Ace-10, Jack, Queen and King will have a designated foreplay act, sexual position or sex act. I suggest making he higher card values harder core acts and the lower card values the warm ups. You could even expand you list to inc if you lack ideas make face cards the same. Of you have a long list of sexual ideas or if you want it to be more difficult or play poker or another game with your lover tonight make your list include pairs, straights, flushes and/or other winning hands for various card games.

Ideas can include: places to kiss for example, kiss partners neck. Positions to fuck or make out in, clothing to take off, anything that ranges from foreplay and leads to orgasm.

Have fun and be loose with it. Don’t be a prude and put some edge a little danger in there tonight. Love on your partner and if he or she is going out of their normal comfort zone, acknowledge it, appreciate it and take it slow. Remember they always have  say if they change their.mind don’t ever force yourself in your partner. If you do that particular sex act may be off the table for good or they may never stretch out of their comfort zone again. It will set you back a long ways in being adventurous with your lover! Have fun take it slow but have fun and get a little kinky tonight! All you need is a list of a deck of cards!

Another simple idea is draw a card and pleasure your lover however they choose for the face value of that card for that amount of time! (This is for you lazy folks who won’t get creative and write a list!

Go fuck, it’s Hump Day!!!

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We Made It To The Beach

05 Tuesday Jul 2016

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Well we made it to the beach! We got off to a late start leaving the house (surprise surprise) then as we stopped for lunch and for cash at the bank The Hubs heard air coming from the tires. Earlier this season he had flat tires one morning when him and The Boy were on a trip for baseball. So we knew it had to be addressed. We did not want to have a blow out or flat on the side of the road so we stopped by Les Schwab and took care of he tires. Nothing $600 wouldn’t fix! 
Luckily we were close to a Wetlands area that has hiking trails and board walks that we took advantage of and went for a 3.5 mile walk around the wetlands. Then we were on our way a couple hours later it only took is about 7 hours to get here and usually takes 1.5-2.

We were met by our neighbor camper who was on his second ‘Margameeta’ he liked watching us set up because we were a young couple and young couples always have cool gadgets! I think it will be a fun week of camping. I love the waves and the sound of the ocean. Can’t wait for our typical yoga and kite flying sessions out on the beach tomorrow!

I love vacation!

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It’s Supposed to be Fun

03 Sunday Jul 2016

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Today was day two of a baseball tournament. It was a rough tournament. We didn’t win a game! The Boy’s team lacks kids who are leaders and who have work ethic. No one wants to work hard. They go through motions like major leaguers. You know how they hit a routine base hit and jog to the base, 10 year olds have not earned that right to jog into a single, or to not run when they hit a ball straight to the pitcher. 10 year olds should be running o first base every time they hit the ball. They need to cover their bases and back up from the outfield. It was a hard game to watch and an even harder car ride home.

I struggle with the balance of trying to encourage and support my son and lift his spirits versus trying to call him out on all the stuff that needs to be fixed. They need to focus, they need to play their position cover the base when you’re playing second base. Make a good throw, know the game! 

I just hope the boy knows I love watching him out there. I hate seeing them not put effort in. I hate seeing them give up when things go wrong. They get off track so easily as a team. The boy hit a grounder to short stop with runners on 1st and 2nd at the ens if the game yesterday. He got thrown out for the 2nd out but advanced both runners, the next kid got out no runners scored to end the game. He was so convinced that he lost he game for the team. He was crying and upset, unconsolable, and they had another game right away to play! He was so lost in the negativity in his head In just didn’t know what to do. Confession: I did yell at him after trying o be positive and help encouraging to lift him up, which probably didn’t help! But it as so frustrating to see him all down for absolutely no reason. His team lost but they played alright. The rest of the tournament went the same way. The boy was not as heady and negative. But the team was just ehhh!

Anyway, I want to know how to help here I feel like all I am doing is making it worse. I want them to try at least out effort in cover their bases and run out to start play. Not go out on the field like they are being punished. It supposed to be fun!!!

Vacation Starts Now!

01 Friday Jul 2016

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We have baseball this weekend and don’t actually leave u til Tuesday but we are officially on vacation!!! Heading to the ocean in a couple days! There is just something about that “vacation” feeling! First thing I did when I got home is crack open a Mike’s Hard Lime last thing I’m going to do tonight is The Hub’s hard cock.

Ruby out!

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