Hello readers! It’s been a long time since I have wrote a Hump Day Challenge. It has been a long year. I have had a rough last year! I wrote a blog last week about where my life has been and the struggles but it was too personal and too painful to share, it stirred up a lot of old emotions that I want to get past and it sits in my drafts page. I just am not in the mood to put that negativity out and want to get past it! I have always worked best to distract and move on in my life. The Hubs and I have had struggles that I have wrote about and alluded to. That as always and is probably true in your relationships will be there. Life is a road full up bumps and hills to climb but there is also smooth areas and fun times. I choose to focus on the fun times!

So to focus on the fun times today I am bringing back the Hump Day Challenge! I am starting soft…sort of get ready all you readers it’s about to get raunchy and detailed. We are all adults here and anything goes. Good sex fixes a lot of things, moods, decreases stress puts a smile on your face! I am starting with an oral sex challenge today! When the Hubs and I first met I was a very prudish “good girl” sex was not talked about except for the fact that is was not to be had until married and to me it meant that it was bad! Now that I am married and an adult I think talking about sex (among adults) is healthy and natural and normal! and more than that it helps with the sex life! Even more importantly a good sex life is an anchor point of a good marriage!

With all that said adventuring into new sexy things was a rough start but when our sex life got good it was oral sex that took us there. I don’t know what changed or how it happened but at some point the Hubs just got good at Oral Sex. I remember lying back one night and going OMG this feels so good what happened? I didn’t ask too many questions I just enjoyed it. Over the years the taboo of oral sex has decreased (maybe this is just me because of my prudish upbringing or real world getting more in your face.

Today’s challenge is to pleasure your lover with you mouth. Use your tongue suck and lick until they come or until they push you back and return the favor. Use it for a little foreplay for the real deal or take turns pleasuring each other. Don’t be afraid to hum or grunt the vibration of your voice adds a soothing sensation. Feel free to talk about it before hand especially if this is new for you. (Some women may be skittish about you actually cumming in their mouth so have a hand signal or something to change to however you decide to finish him off, be patient she may get there someday) Take some extra time in the shower “cleaning up” your “area” your partner will thank you, especially if there is a little aversion to oral. Smooth skin feels good to the tongue (and keeps away any residual sweaty smell, yuck).

Use your tongue to play in your partners sex! He/she will thank you and you will get yours in return! Pleasure your mate not to get something in return but for the purpose of giving them pleasure and then take pride in your work as you feel his/her body rock and rub against your mouth and lips. Feel free to add hands and/or fingers to help with the pleasure. Ladies if you gag easy wrap one (or two) hands around his cock and work it with your mouth men slip a finger or two in her pussy and rub her g-spot. You will for sure have a great time!

Go forth and do it with your mouth tonight! Lick suck and kiss to pleasure!

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It all happens in a moment all at once in that moment just like a flash of lightning, it happens so fast you don’t realize what it is until you hear the crash in what seems like minutes later but it’s not and then you may smell the smoke. Right then and there the world changes.

Not really, the world still turns for normal people, life goes on as normal but that’s not how you feel. This event envelopes your soul you realize the perfection in front of you is not without imperfection.

WHAT DO YOU DO NOW? You relive that very moment over and over and over again. Trying to decide what you did wrong and what you can change or what YOU could have done different. But there is nothing, you were not in control. But you relive that moment and tell yourself you were wrong.

…but you were not wrong. This does not have to paralize you… But how? I do not know…