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XXX-Day after Hump Day Sexting

30 Thursday Mar 2017

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Fuck!!! After Mondays post I wanted to write more. Well, here it is, Thursday, and I haven’t I even forgot a Hump Day Challenge!!! So here’s a quick list on a Challenge.

Since it is early and even if you are reading this later you can still do it starting tomorrow if you want. All day today text your lover sexy things. Make it a sexting day. The Hubs and I did this yesterday, it does get a little awkward when in the middle you have to ask real-life things, like t”he cable guy said _____ what should I do” right after a sexy picture and captioned it “what would you do with this?” But that also makes y I treating and fun and exciting.

Women, men love naked photos! It’s going to your husband so sneak your phone I to the bathroom and take a shot of you pussy and send it to him. He doesn’t care if there is. Toilet in the background! 

Men, women love smiling faces some like dick pics but not all of them. My advice is to know your woman. She may like getting a picture of your mini me but most women prefer your cute smile or a shirtless pose. Women love stories, tell me what your going to do to me tonight endulge in the details or foreplay and excitement. Like your going g to press me against the was kiss my neck and pull my hair while you caress my breast and play with my nipples!

I’m a romance sweep me off of my feet kind of girl, but the Hubs is more raunchy in what he like for Sexting excitement…Try to ba e balance and honor what your partner likes and play to that! I’m sure they will return the favor.

So go take naked pictures send sexy words and details about what you want to sexually do to your lover and then to ight when you go home actually do it!

Go get you some!

Happy day after Hump Day!

#Sexting2017

40 Days to A Better Connection

07 Tuesday Mar 2017

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40-day-challengeSo this post was supposed to happen Wednessday! This previous Wedness was Ash Wednessday. Every year Catholics and some others of Christian faith participate in giving something up for Lent. Lent is the time that Jesus spent away praying before he was crucified. (I never “celebrated” Lent my family did not participate so this is all I gather from the outsiders point of view.) So now in the time of Facebook and social media I see posts every year of friends who are giving up social media or chocolate or French fries or some who vow to do something good for themselves. Every year for the last few years I have toyed with the idea to do “Lent” but have never followed through. So this year since I remembered it on a Wednessday I am making it a bit of a hump day challenge! Lent is 40 days Jesus spent 40 days and 40 night praying. It’s about 6 weeks until Easter. 6 weeks is a very biblical time frame if you haven’t figured it out there is more than science around why so many programs to better yourself are 6 weeks long.

So here goes let’s do Lent Sex Love and Washing Clothes style! We are going to break it down here:

Sex: Fuck as much as you can. Everyday if possible but realisticly most of us won’t. So, Do every Hump Day Challenge and have sex as much on the off days as you can! But EVERY DAY sext your lover! Especially if you can’t fuck! Send a dirty picture, maybe it’s your boobs maybe it’s a sexy story you tell or a full on play by play text/sext story! It can be a shot of your naked boobs, your naked pussy or a sexy shot of your cleavage. You go to the bathroom how many times a day? Take your phone at least once and grab an opportunity to take a naked or partially naked picture.

Love: Say “I love you” EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. Kiss goodnight, go to bed at the same time, go on dates and/or write love notes! Love notes via text or hand written…BOTH! For some of you this is easy, if it’s not easy I bet you can remember a time when it was. Do you know what will make it easier again? PRACTICE!!! So get to showing love ladies and gents!!! This should be easy it just takes effort and time it really is not hard to say I love you or to write a love note! Take time and write a few when you have a little time and use them under your partners pillow or in their lunch box. When you don’t have time to write on paper…write a text telling them you favorite thing about them!!

Washing Clothes:  This is the tough one! Make a commitment to wash clothes everyday. If this is easy but you and the spouse fight about dishes then make a commitment to do the dishes. Remember when I started this I said “washing clothes” is a metaphor for all the house work and homemaking tasks that need done. If you really need to vacuum everyday do that but make it the same thing everyday! My kids do the dishes and The Hubs really wants the laundry to not get out of control and yes two years after starting Sex Love and Washing Clothes I still need to work on the actual washing of the clothes, so that is my task. I will be starting a load of laundry in the morning (FUCK I already forgot today) then in the afternoon transferring it to the dryer and in the evening the kids will be able to fold and then I will put my clothes away… Or some way or another I will wash clothes and get them put away. No more laundry piles regardless of clean or dirty until after Easter…

So there your have it for Lent you are doing Sex Love and Washing Clothes! …We are doing Sex Love and Washing Clothes! I need a boost in my relationship I think this will help. It is a focus on eachother what better way to reconnect than to Sex Love and Washing Clothes. Everyone in the relationship is working at bettering it! It a relationship focus not a me or you focus! Let’s do this and by Easter let’s check in and see how it helped!

Good luck Challengers here we go!

#Lent2017

XXX-it is Hump Day!-XXX

01 Thursday Dec 2016

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Hello Hump Day Challengers! Something occurred to me today and I don’t know what to think about it. Since I became a more busy working mom my prudishneas has came out more. When I started this blog I was more forward and unafraid to speak (blog) how I feel and just out it out there in thebficking world to see. Using foul language and coming up with sex challenges just flowed out of my brain and onto the page through my keyboard. Have I exhausted my sexual creativity? Am I destined to be a prude the way I was raised? Or am I a busy tired mom that I created this blog for to combat the tiredness and staleness in a relationship that tends to happen with busy couples? I might be thatast mom but I will not give in and I will note let that business win and ruin my relationship or blog. 

So here is my h ump day challenge. I received the above meme from a friend of mine. She captioned it with tonight is not THAT night for me. I responded with well, it is Hump Day!! 

With all of that in mind, here is my challenge to you. Fight that urge to be tired and stale. Turn off you device that you are reading this, turn off the TV go to bed. Or turn on a sexy movie or pull up some porn for inspiration with your lover and get it on. My plan is to publish this blog, take my clothes off and climb o top of my husband. You could cuddle next to you lover play with yourself under the blanket you are covered up with and put your fingers under his nose he will smell your pussy juices and probably suck your fingers for a taste. Or whisper sweet nothing’s like “let’s get away from the kids and fuck!” However you do it please turn down the noise of busy lives, kids, housework that needs to be done, and go fuck! Fuck untik you both come maybe one or both of you will twice! 

Stop letting”LIFE” get in the way of your sex life! Use today to fick each other! Happy Hump Day!

#Hump2016

Productive Weekend

06 Tuesday Sep 2016

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Happy Monday, wait, it’s Tuesday! Happy Tuesday! This was Labor Day Weekend. Did you get in some end of summer R&R? Or were you uber productive and finished cleaning out the closets before the kids go back to school? We had a very chill weekend. The kids went to Gma’s one last time before they leave for AZ for a few weeks and the Hubs and I just relaxed. He had worked Thursday night all night. He went back to work Thursday evening at 10pm and then came home at 11:45 Friday morning. We had originally planned to go away one last weekend camping at the ocean but being up all night working has a way of altering those kind of weekend plans.

dream hungry demonsSo instead, Gma and Gpa came to get the kids so they could “steal” them for the weekend. I was quite thankful because  I needed an adult only weekend kind of a break. Gma and Gpa picked up the kids around 11am then the Hubs and I went back to bed when they left. We slept, fucked, watched football, fucked some more, then got out of bed had dinner and did it all again. We met up with friends we haven’t seen in a while Sunday evening and then Monday we went shooting.

We had a very productive weekend. Not in a sense of getting things accomplished but we made some really good connection, with each other. No doors to lock, didn’t have to be quiet and didn’t have to be anywhere! It was a relaxing chill weekend. No washing clothes, no schedule, no demands except the way we felt about each other. We had lots of sex this weekend. I did get a few ideas for Hump Day Challenges but do you think I wrote them down or remember my ideas at all? Not currently, I will get better at writing things down one day! We had a great reboot this weekend.

The Hubs and I really needed a reboot kind of weekend. Not really because things have been bad (although it has not been smooth sailing) but because we are busy. It’s hard to stay connected when you are going in so many different directions and have schedules and other people that take priority just because of the demands of the schedule of life. When this happens we all need to get grounded and focus on priorities and give each other a little grace. The Hubs and I talked this morning about not letting the busy-ness and demands of kids, school, work, jobs, coaching duties get in the way of knowing that we love each other and staying connected. We all get tired but we all need to take the time to nourish our relationships.

One day there will be no kids to take to practice and work will slow down and we may even retire, we need to make sure that we still know and love our partner, when life slows down, that’s when life will get really good. I am not saying mine is a model relationship, we have our problems and struggles. We still have more good than bad and nurturing our relationship is important to us. We do that by taking weekends like this one. I would love to do it once a month but that is just not realistic, but when I start to see and feel that lack of connection, arguing over washing clothes and just that bluh feeling about my relationship that is the time to look at the calendar, contact one of the Grandparents or some really great friends to take the kids so we can have adult time. Sometimes we go away and sometimes we send the kids with Gma but we get alone time!

We also take a date night, every week. Right now we are on Tuesday, it is our weeknight date night. We usually also do get in a Weekend date night as well. I know there are many people who judge us and how much we go out and take date nights and weekends sans kids. But, I really think it is important for every marriage or partnership to have that time. When the kids are grown and gone we need to still know and love the one we met and had those said kids with.

It is important to take the time to nourish the relationship with your lover and almost as important to teach your children how to do that. Children see us fighting, I know studies show we shouldn’t fight around our kids, we try not to, but let’s be honest they see it, they need to see us make up and they need to see us loving each other as well. It is important to take care of ourselves individually as well. I want to inspire you to take the time to take care of your relationship with your lover. One of the easiest ways to do that is to have more sex! If you can’t get away or have no one to take care of the kids, lock your bedroom door turn up some music and enjoy the naked physical love of your partner. I promise it is well worth it even when you are tired!

Go make connection with your mate, have more sex! Of course being nice, helping each other cook and clean and keep up with the tedious tasks of a busy life helps too, but there is nothing like having a great relationship with you spouse and having great sex with them as well!

#Havesex2016

XXX-Ride Him-XXX

10 Wednesday Aug 2016

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So today’s Hump Day Challenge is brought to you by what I want to do but can’t do to a sleepover. I don’t know where it came from but knowing that I have an extra kid in the house is like having a sprained ankle and wanting to go for a run. How many days did you sleep in and say you will go later and when you get an injury all you want to do is go for that run.

Reverse CowgirlI would love to feel my husband’s dick inside my pussy as I am on his lap in reverse cowgirl position. We have this chaise as part of our sectional sofa and he is sitting there now. I keep imagining myself on his lap, we could even continue watching T.V. You see I have been super distracted with my business move and getting the football season started and have spent many evenings falling asleep before anything sexy happens. Some nights the Hubs has been able to arouse me and get me going and some nights he is just too tired to put in the effort, and now, tonight the boy has a buddy over and all I want to do is jump his bones and ride him reverse cowgirl! Why the fuck do things happen like that.

So today’s Hump Day Challenge is to take a ride ladies! Ride him reverse cowgirl. Let him hold your hips and rock them up and down and back and forth. Then turn and let him see your boobies bouncing as you ride him cowgirl and face him. Let him touch you, let him twiddle you nipples and enjoy the attention! I must say I love nipple play when we fuck!

So today may have been another on of those TMI posts but I needed some inspirational juices to get flowing and riding my husband reverse cowgirl was what was inspiring me! So go ride your man ladies!

#SEX2016

It Takes Effort and Hard Work

06 Saturday Aug 2016

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This week was a busy week. Between trying to get settled in my new office and first week of football, it was crazy. A little bit too much going on but really in all honesty I thrive on that! My ADD brain loves to be busy and live in chaos! I am going to try to get better at writing everyday even if it’s short. To just write a lesson learned, or a fun exciting thing that happened, or something inspirational. That’s my challenge for myself to you, my readers.

Today we are going to the Mariners game. We are going to the game. The game that is going to honor the best, if not one of the best, baseball players ever. Ken Griffey Jr. His number will be retired today! I have always loved this guy. His drive, his focus, his determination is or was phenomenal. I only hope that a small percentage of all of “that” that he has my kids will have one day. He is also very humble about his career. He will tell you he was that good because of the work he put in, it was a huge sacrifice he made, with huge pay off. He made it look easy because of his hard work. I am sure it was far from easy. Success in any venue takes dedication, work, perseverance, sacrifice and most of all desire to be better, or even desire to be the best, along with, at least a shred of, talent. You cannot be that successfull or that good without all of those things then add to it an amazing support team, great teammates and some luck and you have a Hall of Fame career. I am pretty sure Hall of Famers don’t try to be in the Hall of Fame. They try to be the best they can be everyday. Every. Single. Day! It takes all of “that” and maybe even more. 

So I say to you, moms, dads, workers, husbands, wives, and athletes, what are you doing today to be great? It takes 100% everyday, even your off days. Even when you don’t feel good, or your wife is being a bitch, in order for you to be a Hall of fame husband, you have to be good even then. That’s what makes most of us not Hall of Famers, we make excuses of circumstances and blame others for our actions. But that is what we can do to change the outcome. Put in the work, everyday! Even when your team sucks, even when you hate your coach or hate your boss or the client you are working with is doing everything he can to torpedo your efforts. DO YOUR BEST. ALL. THE. TIME. 

Will you be voted in the Hall of Fame. Maybe not, there are 3 people who didn’t vote for Griffey Jr and he is the best ever! HOF is court of public  opinion, but are your efforts everyday getting you closer? You are in control of just that, your effort! Put in Hall of Fame effort it, may look easy but making things look easy…is the opposite of easy!

#Effort2016

Race Medal Fever

19 Tuesday Jul 2016

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It’s date night Tuesday! It feels like today has been a long day. It has been a pretty good day. I was productive! I finally got some groceries, notice how I didn’t say “went grocery shopping” but I got some groceries. Then I worked my on-site massage job at the time company, smoked a beer can chicken for dinner then went to PeeWee clubhouse to get some stuff situated. I sorted through some coaches gear today. I work tomorrow and it is gear fitting training day for this year’s football coaches.

I have a lot going on in my head and don’t want to write about it yet! So let me tell you about my weekend, I ran the Warrior Dash! It is an obstacle course race 3.15 miles. I did it with my workout partner. It was a blast! She is much shorter than me and I had to help give her a boost in the Mud Mound obstacle. Then we had to shower each other off which took forever and still didn’t get us completely rinsed off. It just wet my appetite for another race, I don’t care what, a run, a Triathlon, another mud run…I’m in, someone please hook me up with a good one to do! We have one dance moms doing a color run coming up… I have always avoided them because the Hub’s has asthma. Maybe I’ll go. It was a ton of fun to be back on a race course! That feeling of getting the medal put over your head around you neck! So Good!

It’s time for me to go back to chill with the Hub’s it is date night! Good might peeps!

#Recommit2016

All You Need Is a List And a Deck Of Cards

07 Thursday Jul 2016

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Happy Hump Day from vacationing at the beach! Today’s Hump Day Challenge is inspired by playing cards with the fam tonight! It is a sex card game! You could be vanilla and play strip poker but who wants to be vanilla?! If you have a sex card deck grab it out and follow the rules of play. Since we do not have a sex deck here I had to think up (aka Google) ideas or this. 

So, make a list of 10-13 sex acts that you both are up for (or down for however you like to say it). You can both come together with a list of 7-8 each then eliminate 1-2 from each list to end with 13 or so. Each card Ace-10, Jack, Queen and King will have a designated foreplay act, sexual position or sex act. I suggest making he higher card values harder core acts and the lower card values the warm ups. You could even expand you list to inc if you lack ideas make face cards the same. Of you have a long list of sexual ideas or if you want it to be more difficult or play poker or another game with your lover tonight make your list include pairs, straights, flushes and/or other winning hands for various card games.

Ideas can include: places to kiss for example, kiss partners neck. Positions to fuck or make out in, clothing to take off, anything that ranges from foreplay and leads to orgasm.

Have fun and be loose with it. Don’t be a prude and put some edge a little danger in there tonight. Love on your partner and if he or she is going out of their normal comfort zone, acknowledge it, appreciate it and take it slow. Remember they always have  say if they change their.mind don’t ever force yourself in your partner. If you do that particular sex act may be off the table for good or they may never stretch out of their comfort zone again. It will set you back a long ways in being adventurous with your lover! Have fun take it slow but have fun and get a little kinky tonight! All you need is a list of a deck of cards!

Another simple idea is draw a card and pleasure your lover however they choose for the face value of that card for that amount of time! (This is for you lazy folks who won’t get creative and write a list!

Go fuck, it’s Hump Day!!!

#Recommit2016

XXX-Eat His Man Meat-XXX

29 Wednesday Jun 2016

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Happy Hump Day Friends. With the risk being repetitive to last week, kind of, today’s post is inspired by the fact that the Hubs made dinner tonight. He smoked a flank steak! (It was beautiful and yummy, just like his man meat.) He posted a photo of it on social media and his buddy started a thread of comments about how everyone loves the Hub’s meat in their mouth. It was hilarious BTW


Okay so today’s Challenge is to put his meat in your mouth! Massage  and stretch out that jaw muscle and open your mouth and put his cock in your mouth. Enjoy it. The smooth hardness of it. Work your tongue around the shaft of his cock. Do you love the way his cock feels on your tongue? I am a big fan. My jaw however does needs breaks. Lick his cock like a popsicle. A meat popsicle 😉 then suck the tip of it and play with it with your tongue! Keep.going and work it.into whatever else you like. Enjoy that meat muscle until it melts in your mouth! 

#Recommit2016

Weekend Getaway Sex!

26 Sunday Jun 2016

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It’s Sunday! The Hubs and I went away for the weekend. I stayed home sick with oain from a bladder infection Friday so we even got out a little earlier than planned. We headed south to Portland. It was a fun time and a nice escape. We started the mini 7 day sex challenge Thursday (which was a struggle with a bladder infection) so actually we started it Friday.

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We had a great sex-e-scape thus weekend. We did it when we woke up Friday morning at home, before we went out to dinner Friday night, then  in the morning Saturday, before we went out Saturday Night and then when we came home Saturday night after hanging at the clubs, as well as before we left this morning! We went to bed early Friday (weird for vacation but the Hubs worked all night Thursday git home at 4:15am) and I was not feeling well still and had to pee every 5 minutes slept in and got up around 10:30 Saturday. We had a really relaxing weekend! Not super touristy it adventurous but filled with sleep and sex which for us is somehow what we needed!

So now we are heading home north on I-5 we have a baseball party tonight, so I have a dish to make and some shopping to do on the way home for drinks and plates and napkins etc for the party. We are chilling contemplating our life quietly as we drive. Sometimes recently we get to over thinking our life and over analyzing and causing stress. Hopefully we will stop doing that because that is a sorce of stress we don’t need in our life right now.

The Hubs and I are as always working out some kinks in life that cause stress. Since it is summertime we have got to organize life so house cleaning gets done, laundry gets done etc. I have been working so much and have so much other commitments it has been rough around the house lately! Probably way past time to schedule a house cleaner to help out! And to out together a chore chart!

But for now I am going to sit back enjoy the tunes and the ride in the car just relaxing before I have to get home and cook and unpack and get ready for a baseball party! How is everyone doing on the Mini 7 day challenge? I think the Hubs and I have completed it with the amount if times we fucked this weekend but we will continue and today is set up to be another two-a-day!

#Recommit2016