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XXX-Sext Up Some Interest-XXX

31 Wednesday Jan 2018

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if you never did you shouldHappy Hump Day! Today the Hump Day Challenge is to get out of your comfort level. Well for some of you, anyway. Since it’s the beginning of the year I want to ease into things sort of and get you communicating differently. The Hubs and I struggle hard core on communication. Believe it or not he is more sexually driven than me. He likes to have dirty talk and like sexual innuendo and most of the time I am stuck and confused about how to answer. Many times I respond with LOL or send back and emoji but he really wants is for me to get involved with the conversation. So, the best advice I can give you is PRACTICE and just do it. Write something back until if feels normal. The hump day challenge this week is, we are going to sext each other.

Start off by sending a text that says something like “I can’t wait to see your naked body” or some partners may want (or even need) more. Point is: Know your audience. If your man likes the details of how long and where you will put his member when you get home by all means go for it. However, if your wife is a stay at home mom who sometimes lets your kids play with her phone while she is shopping give her a warning first. “Hey, babe. Little man is not looking right?” she responds with “no” Then go ahead  with “when he goes to bed tonight I’m going to lick your luscious pussy until you beg for my cock” then she can respond back with a pic of her pussy (after she escapes from Little Man of course)

Sexting is a fine art. You have to be careful what and when you send texts and if your partner has a work phone probably don’t want to send it there…or maybe you do for some extra danger (but don’t say I didn’t warn you if negative backlash comes). I love the idea of sexting my spouse. He loves it. There’s not a whole lot of anything that can’t be cheered up with a nice shot of my tits… Get my smile in there too then he is set for the day!

If sending photos don’t worry about how you look there are not too many sexual positions you are in that you will think are attractive, but he will. I know it’s usually the girls who have that self consciousness. Men, some ladies love a good dick pic, however many of us can live without. My preference is to not get them. However, I love a good six pack paired with  boxer briefs… I love my husbands smile and I love a guy in sunglasses. My point is that we women are a little harder to understand and please, so do your homework and find out what your gal likes before sending the dick pic.

Your hump day challenge today is to sext up your lover! Give them a story or just a short tease what ever you feel like and make sure you know it is something they are into. The point is to start a playful conversation that leads to foreplay that leads to sex that leads to two orgasms!

#SLWC2018

Save What We Love

15 Monday Jan 2018

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Speak out against what is wrong speak up for what is right! Stop the hate! Put more energy into saving what we love than fighting what we hate! I’m not saying don’t fight against what’s wrong, not in any way. I am just saying in order to encourage love and all that is good let’s focus our energy there!

So much negativity is going around right now. Some is for good reason fighting for what is right and just but what I want to see and hear is people saying what is good amd right not only what is wrong! I want more attention put on people doing good things and less on those doing bad, even if their reasoning may be in the right place. A right platform, in my opinion, does not justify bad behavior.

Like Dr King, I believe we should be judged by the content of our character, not by the color of our skin, where we live, where we were born, how much money we have or can make, who we love, where or even if we worship, what sex we are or claim, what kind of car we drive, how fast we are going or by how many mistakes vs good we have done.

What I am saying is that in this moment you are the content of your character not any of those other things but at the same time all of those other things decisions you’ve made mistakes and accomplishments as a whole. One word, one phrase is not what defines you, it is the body of work. What kind of body of work are you putting out there? All of it, all the time even when no one is looking.

Today Dr King’s family asked for us to in remembrance of him that we serve one another. Many communities hosted programs to serve less fortunate in their community. I served my family, which is one thing I am focusing on this year in Sex Love and Washing Clothes. I have been feeling depressed lately. Everything everyday has been a bit of a struggle, not so much that it has consumed me but enough to make everyday a struggle. I worked through today by just doing one project at a time. I felt very unproductive however made a pretty good dent in my work. My family thanked me for it. Especially the hubs when he got some sexy pictures from me. It made me happy to make him smile, then he brought me flowers

Sometimes we think we have to do something great big, like March on Washington, but the small efforts in your family and community and towns and cities make a huge dent.

If we spend more time defending and saving what we love and less time fighting about what we hate what would our world look like? Think on that.

#SLWC2018

XXX-Day after Hump Day Sexting

30 Thursday Mar 2017

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Fuck!!! After Mondays post I wanted to write more. Well, here it is, Thursday, and I haven’t I even forgot a Hump Day Challenge!!! So here’s a quick list on a Challenge.

Since it is early and even if you are reading this later you can still do it starting tomorrow if you want. All day today text your lover sexy things. Make it a sexting day. The Hubs and I did this yesterday, it does get a little awkward when in the middle you have to ask real-life things, like t”he cable guy said _____ what should I do” right after a sexy picture and captioned it “what would you do with this?” But that also makes y I treating and fun and exciting.

Women, men love naked photos! It’s going to your husband so sneak your phone I to the bathroom and take a shot of you pussy and send it to him. He doesn’t care if there is. Toilet in the background! 

Men, women love smiling faces some like dick pics but not all of them. My advice is to know your woman. She may like getting a picture of your mini me but most women prefer your cute smile or a shirtless pose. Women love stories, tell me what your going to do to me tonight endulge in the details or foreplay and excitement. Like your going g to press me against the was kiss my neck and pull my hair while you caress my breast and play with my nipples!

I’m a romance sweep me off of my feet kind of girl, but the Hubs is more raunchy in what he like for Sexting excitement…Try to ba e balance and honor what your partner likes and play to that! I’m sure they will return the favor.

So go take naked pictures send sexy words and details about what you want to sexually do to your lover and then to ight when you go home actually do it!

Go get you some!

Happy day after Hump Day!

#Sexting2017

XXX-Sexting 2017-xxx

02 Thursday Feb 2017

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Shit! It’s Hump Day at 11:57 and I haven’t posted yet! I have e been thinking about the Hump Day Challenge all day and I think I settled with sexting! Last week we talked about con ection and (for me anyway) I feel connected and not so alone when I receive text messages from the hu a letting me know is what he is up to where he’s going etc. It makeses me feel like part of his life when I’m not with him. I like sending the random boob shot or a quick pussy shot after I get waxed. He likes that too, buy Sexting is not limited to dirty pictures, but who doesn’t like the boobie pics? Sexting can be story taking or forecasting what’s to come to tonight or just fantasy. 

So for this challenge start by sending your lover a flirty wordy text. Something like “I’m gonna lick your dick like a lollipop tonight.” Then add details, in the corner of the couch after the kids are sleeping or when you finishing up your work at you home office etc… Get as graphic as you like. Then after a couple “I’m going to ______” texts send a sexy picture. Then talk more about your sexy plans. Even if your lover can’t respond he/she will get to their phone at the end of the day and be pretty excited to see you. That wait from the time they get the texts to when the kids are finally in bed will be electric and filled with excitement and anticipation. 

It’s also fun to send sexy messages across the living room with the Disney channel on too (as long as the kids don’t intercept the messages).

Take time today to stop once an hour or so and sext your lover. He may want to get detailed and respond back with what he’s going to do to you. I like the texts that say how he’s going to “come in the door press me up against the wall kissing and making out with me, unbuttoning my shirt and tearing my clothes off while pulling my hair” then we go back and forth for a while and it’s exciting. Then we realize we have to play that out in real life after kids go to bed or when they are at Grandmas but it’s so sexy and exhilarating in the moment.

So spice up your lovers work day with sexting. You will encounter and encourage anticipation, foreplay, role play and some sexy selfies! Enjoy!

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XXX-Sexting

16 Wednesday Mar 2016

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Happy Hump Day! Let’s break out the sexting for today’s Challenge! So text your lover what you want them to do. If you like passionate kisses at front door as he gets home from work, tell him, in detail! Where do you want them to touch you, how do you want them to kiss you.

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Here is what I sent the Hub’s “I want to fuck your big hard cock! And make you smile,  When you walk in the door I want you to kiss me romantically and madly just enough to be firmly pressed against the wall, rub my body and gently yet firm pull my hair and take off my clothes without taking your lips off me…”

You don’t have to copy mine but you can! Feel free to include any naked photos you’d like or your lover would like!!! Naked pics are always a plus (unless the person you are sending them to does not like naked photos, yes some do not, weird I know!). Be detailed and think of what the person you are sexting would like, but don’t say something you won’t back up in real life! That makes them frustrated… But dream and fantasize a bit and enjoy!

#Recommit2016

XXX-Hey Baby You Got Plans Tonight?-XXX

12 Wednesday Aug 2015

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So if you read my blog daily I am sure you saw this coming! Today’s Hump Day Challenge is Sexting! Send him or her a dirty photo or just a one liner that will spice up the night. Tell him what you want him to do to you behind a locked door! Tell her how badly you want to caress her breasts. Ladies be a freak Better yet show him! Men be romantic!

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A study was released this week that says in monogamous relationships Sexting helps increase sexual interest and satisfaction. Anything to add a little fun and excitement goes a long way. And that text telling you, you get ‘some’ tonight is good enough to get you through that mid-day slump! Better yet a sexy picture to help you get through the mid-day slump.

I love the excitement of having to hide my phone when the Hubs sends me a sexy text and I know he enjoys my naked pics he gets from me. So spread your legs and send a really dirty one or just start out by saying “Hey Baby, Do you have plans tonight!” Or “I want to go sleep with you naked and by naked I mean part of you inside of me”…

#Everyday2015

Love it When I Feel Vindicated

10 Monday Aug 2015

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when-a-plan-comes-together_o_2467537I saw a story on the news today that Sexting is good for relationships! Woohoo, that’s what I am talking about! I feel vindicated and excited that my hump day challenges are helping change marriages and improve lives. In this study more than 80% of people do and/or have sexted in the last year. And in committed relationships sexting increases sexual satisfaction and helps relationships stay fresh and exciting! How about Sex Love and Washing Clothes helping increase your sexual satisfaction with some of our hump day challenges and getting you to sext your spouse and/or lover! This made my day!

Then the next thing that happened today was I got an email from the Seahawks telling me that they had set up an NFL Heads Up Football Ambassador to come out to our event tomorrow. A former Seahawk player to come our event that I have planned and envisioned for a while now! Talk about vindication! I am so excited that I have put together an event that our players and families get to experience and learn from a passionate man who was once a player on the stage our Pee-Wees look up to! He called me this morning I was in the middle of writing this very wordy email trying to explain what was going on, then my phone rang! I am so excited I just hope he doesn’t get stuck in traffic and miss our event!

I have been working so hard and been so busy getting ready for tomorrow. We will be picking jersey numbers, throwing balls at the dunk tank soaking our head coaches, singing and dancing to some fun music provided by our DJ and get questions answered by a Former pro Football player! I am so excited but so nervous something is going to blow up in my face and have a big mess to put back together! I am not thinking of that right now. I am so happy when a plan comes together!

I have some emails to send to coordinate this even tomorrow and get families informed! What fun we have in our Pee Wee organization!

#Everyday2015