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Volunteerism is Dead and I am out of cares…

02 Tuesday Oct 2018

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Parenting, Planning, Schedule, Self Care, Volunteering

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Care about more than you, HELP OUT!

The world needs dreamers who doI miss having time! When my kids were young I had all the time in the world and rushed everything. Now they are teenagers the Girl is a Freshman, just had her first Homecoming the Boy is 12 in Middle School and is going from School baseball to football practice 3 days a week. The days we don’t have a schedule we are running around filling in the stuff we don’t have time for and still don’t have time to get groceries or cook real food.

The organizations my kids are involved in are all volunteer and it seems the spirit of volunteerism is gone. It seems I am the one who sees that and the one who will do what needs to be done. It’s frustrating to be the only one who care about the organization and then more than that the only one who will actually do the work that needs done. At the sacrifice of my family. I am working for the organization to succeed and thrive and while I am doing that my family struggles. Why? Because I refuse to do a bad job at the work that is done but I feel like the work that is getting done isn’t really the best and get judged by those around (who aren’t doing as much work) that it is disorganized and incomplete. I can’t do it all. Why doesn’t anyone want to help? Why am I the one who has to stay late every night finishing. Why am I the only one who cares? It is so frustrating. Why am I putting this much effort into something my son will only be involved in for one more year? What do I get out of it?

Nothing the answer is nothing. The others in the organization that are not focused on the big picture all they want to do it what is fun and here I am grinding out the hard stuff. I said I would never do this job. It’s too labor intensive it takes me away from my family. The Hubs helps but complains all the way and then we end up exhausted at the end of Saturday instead of celebrating a win and a great game for our son we colapse at 11pm once we finally get home! I am frustrated.

I miss time for me. I miss jumping up in the morning ready to go to the gym. Now I wake up thinking, I should wash the dishes and do laundry before I go. Then I secretly want he grocery store open at 5 am so I can do groceries then and have food in the house and not have to interrupt my schedule of work, volunteering, work and more volunteering. I have cleaning and organizing to do for volunteering job today that didn’t get done at 10:30 pm Saturday when we finished up. My plan was to put a plan in place and have helpers be able to do it without me there. But there is no one willing to do that work. My gut is about to quit and say obviously no one cares so why should I?

It’s about the kids but is it really? I am going to have to do some sole searching on this right now. With the lack of help from the others in the organization to do the tough stuff not just the sit behind a keyboard or text message thread making decisions of who get that kid or the other… All I want is to make sure the kids are safe with gear and  supplies I don’t want to loose my family running the business for the club and that is about how I feel this is going to end. Why is the spirit of volunteerism dead? And why do people pick and choose what they want to do and leave the hard stuff to people like me who actually care about it and will do the work….

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Productive Not Busy

20 Saturday Jan 2018

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Everyday, Family, Organization, Volunteering

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Birthday Present, Enjoy family time, movie night, Saturday night, Xbox

Busy day today! Cleaning and purging and reorganizing is a busy job! We worked at the clubhouse where we volunteer, it made me want to come home and do more. It is a goal of mine to purge my clutter in my house. Upstairs we have over 1000 square feet that is filled with 17 years of over flow and empty boxes from items we thought we should save etc. I just need to start taking the extra afternoons here and there and go through stuff.

We also, today, gave the boy his birthday present, he got an Xbox. Well, we got a new XboxOne S for the family room and the boy got to have the one we had. It goes in our living room so he can play when everyone else might be watching TV. But that is also the space that is shared with my office so he doesn’t have 100% free range all the time, but he’s super excited to have his own! He and Daddy can play games against each other and have the whole screen to themselves.

All in all, it was a good Saturday. The Girl got to go to a Birthday party and I got started on a project in my office on the dividers I am customizing. It has not gone super smoothly but progress is just that, right?

Since the Hubs got to set up the new XboxOne S he reset the TV and Surround Sound to work “cooler” so we have to check out a BlueRay, what do we pick? Star Wars: Empire Strikes Back.

Movie time friends enjoy your weekend

#SLWC2018

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XXX-Just Go Have Sex-XXX

28 Thursday Jul 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be You, Hump Day Challenge, Sex, Sex Love and Washing Clothes, Volunteering, Working Mom, XXX

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Busy Mom, Hump Day Challenge, just go have sex, no creativity, No time to blog, quick blog, relax and have sex!

women-should-be-obscene-and-not-heard-14Hello! Happy Hump Day!!! It is 11:45pm on this hump day! It has been a crazy busy week. I have been moving my massage practice and starting my own private practice so that entails a lot of paperwork, filings, fees, phone calls and faxes just a lot of work! Then this Saturday is gear check out for peewee football. It is my big day as the equipment manger and there is a lot to get ready and to make ready for that before Saturday. All in all I feel like I have done an okay job balancing all of my different tasks that I need to get done and things I need to do so far. But it has left little room for my write a hump day challenge!

So for todays hump day challenge I am going to just say go get you some! Just fuck and be happy! Girl on top, boy on top, oral, kissing making out heavy petting all of the fun stuff include that like you are back in college. Just get close get naked and let nature take over. Don’t push anything! I personally need a low pressure good sex high intensity orgasm type sexual experience. I am so in need of one of those kinds of attitude adjustments! It’s time to go!

#Recommit2016

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Race Medal Fever

19 Tuesday Jul 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Be You, Just Do It, Running, Volunteering

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Date Night, Football has almost started, Race Days are the best days


It’s date night Tuesday! It feels like today has been a long day. It has been a pretty good day. I was productive! I finally got some groceries, notice how I didn’t say “went grocery shopping” but I got some groceries. Then I worked my on-site massage job at the time company, smoked a beer can chicken for dinner then went to PeeWee clubhouse to get some stuff situated. I sorted through some coaches gear today. I work tomorrow and it is gear fitting training day for this year’s football coaches.

I have a lot going on in my head and don’t want to write about it yet! So let me tell you about my weekend, I ran the Warrior Dash! It is an obstacle course race 3.15 miles. I did it with my workout partner. It was a blast! She is much shorter than me and I had to help give her a boost in the Mud Mound obstacle. Then we had to shower each other off which took forever and still didn’t get us completely rinsed off. It just wet my appetite for another race, I don’t care what, a run, a Triathlon, another mud run…I’m in, someone please hook me up with a good one to do! We have one dance moms doing a color run coming up… I have always avoided them because the Hub’s has asthma. Maybe I’ll go. It was a ton of fun to be back on a race course! That feeling of getting the medal put over your head around you neck! So Good!

It’s time for me to go back to chill with the Hub’s it is date night! Good might peeps!

#Recommit2016

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Busy Volunteering

18 Monday Jul 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Football, Volunteering

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I do it for the kids, I love it, I wish I could do better, Volunteering is hard when busy

Hello readers, sorry I have been MIA this last week. July means it is time to get ready for football. This last year I have been working a lot and have been busy so, the Equipment Manager job at PeeWees has kind of taken a back burner. Football starts beginning of August so it’s time to get ramped up and get shit done at the PeeWee clubhouse. I was told that they were going to redo the shelving and be able to get new bins for pants and stuff which never happened. So the pants that I left for until the we got new bins are still in the same place that they were in when they got turned in in November. The club got new shoulder pads that took up most of my living room for about a month then I put about half of them on the racks at the last work party day that was on the same day as opening day of baseball. This weekend we had a work party scheduled and I had a race so I was again not there until the afternoon but still got a bunch done but there is still a lot to do!

love volunteeringVolunteering as Equipment Manager is a big task. I really enjoy it and have a passion for making sure the kids are equipped properly and safely. The job has not been getting enough attention and this year I kind of dropped the ball on a few things. Not that they won’t get done and nothing that is too late to do but working full time has really changed the amount of time I can dedicate to the Equipment Manager roll and needs to be more organized, which I will work on this year so that next year goes smoother than this off season. I will get through it there may be some late nights and long summer days spent in the equipment room instead of outside chilling but it is what it is.

So that is one reason I have not blogged I have been ordering and checking gear and scheduling check out day and sending details to the whole club (that I got wrong) but the info is getting out and we will make it though. I am hoping that we get through it without any more tears and can get our communication squared away so that we are all on the same page but there is always struggles like this as we get closer to the beginning of the season. I am trying really hard to keep it all together and get everything done right. I am bad at asking for help or giving things for others to do to help because I am not the most organized in my head. That is one thing I can work on to help as the season goes on and in the future in all areas not just football.

I am ready for the season to start football is my favorite time of the year, just this lead up to the season part sucks! I am going to try to be more committed to my blog as well as more organized in my whole life. This weekend has been packed and there is so much to write about but for now this is all you get folks. Keep reading this week for details lots went on with Ruby this weekend.

#Recomitt2016

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Moving On Up

17 Friday Jun 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Family, Kids, Mom Stuff, Parenting, Raising Kids, Volunteering, Working Mom

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I got this, I have no idea what I am doing, I love my kids, I still don't want to break them, Jr High, Two different schools

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Well, this week has been an emotional week! It was the last week of school. The Girl finished her 6th grade year. Here, 6th grade is the mast year of elementary school. Next year they are shifting to a middle school system so I will be doing the whole move up process next year with the boy. I am not sad but I have ahead tears this week. I am happy for her she has done an amazing job so far in school, socially and academically. She has made it through a bad teachers friends and acquaintances being mean and rude to her, tough standardized testing, dance in the side increasing requirements leaving less time for free time and homework but has finished receiving a Presidential Award and straight As!

I have been super involved moat her school career. I was a stay at home mom for a lot of it and got to volunteer in the classroom so much that the teachers always gave me the “tough kids” in field trip groups because they k e w they could trust me and I could handle it. Some even left me in charge of their classrooms when they had to get stuff done. I have created a very close relationship with the copy machine for the teachers math assignments, one year I got to teach Art once a week because the teacher was so not artistic and they want art, I have read essays and helped correct math assignments. Also I got to read with so many when they were younger in a program called Dynamite Reading. When I was helping in Kindergarten I had to learn how to decipher the writing g that looked similar to a foreign language to figure out who’s paper was who. Now they are all moving up to Jr High. So much change and growth.

Luckily the Girl ended up with some very special friends and they are really graet kids. Low drama, loyal, loving and responsible kids they all are. I hope they stay that way! I hope the Girl continues to find friends like she has now.

I plan to sit down with her this summer and prepare her brain for all things Jr High. All things my mother never did for me. Talk about periods, boys, friend drama, the fact that teenage girls are the meanest thing in the planet and that teenage boys are the horniest and all they probably want is sex…(nit that that ever changes). I want her to be prepared for what is going to happen. I want her to be prepared to come to me as I will always be her friend and confidant when she needs one even when her BFF is unavailable and even though I make her do chores and hold her accountable.i want her to know I am there for her. But that won’t mean that I won’t expect her to be responsible and make good choices. I just want the communication lines open. I am still her parents I will protect her and parent her. Too many parents try to hard to be friends with their kids. I will be there like a friend but she will still get grounded for not doing homework!

This is a big step for our family. I am a very proud momma today. The boy will be in 5th grade next year and will be the first 5th grade class to move up to the Jr High. I can’t believe how fast this time has gone. I know I have a lot to learn as a parent but I would say I am doing pretty good. Both the Girl and the Boy are good kids and I feel like I know what I’m doing. OH SHIT, what did I just say?! Shit is about to hit the fan. Everytime I think I know what I’m doing something changes and throws a hitch in my plan and flow. But oh well, I will be on my toes and I will be ready! The only thing I would change is to take more of it in and not worry so much. So from here in our I am going to try to do just that. Take it all in, it won’t last forever! Teaching moments will happen. I just hope we can get through the rest of these parenting years without ruining our children’s spirit!

I just want them to be happy!
Class of 2022 and 2024!!

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Don’t Be Afraid

16 Monday May 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be You, Business, Do You, Don't judge me, Live in the Moment, Live life, Marriage is work, Mom Stuff, Raising Kids, Running, Schedule, Self Care, Take the time to take care of yourself, Volunteering, Working Mom

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don't accept good...go get great, Don't be afraid, expect the best, Go get the best you can, Love yourself, Standards, Take Care of Yourself, work it

I have gotten away from posting and/or writing everyday. I miss it! I want to write more but I am so busy, and other things get in the way. I want to take care of myself better too and the same things get in the way! It is my time! I am Ruby, I am a Mom, I am a Wife, I am a Massage Therapist and many other things. I am a woman who deserves the best from herself and I have not been giving myself the best. It is scary to leave what works and go to the unknown. I know I am better than this, I know I deserve better. I even think I know how to get it. But I am scared and as with every part of my life so far I sabotage and make excuses! STOP IT RUBY! JUST, STOP IT!

Don't be afraidI am a dreamer I believe we all deserve the best and we all are worthy but for some reason I accept less, always. Especially when it is me that is responsible for making it happen. It is so easy to stay in the now especially when things are good enough and maybe even better than most. I still sit here wanting the best, wanting more am I really capable? How can I do it? Will it really work? If not then what? Will I lose everything I have worked for so far? Probably not, but possibly. That is always possible. Am I making the best effort all the time? am I always doing my best? Am I always expecting the best or am I always accepting less? I am always accepting less, for me, I can sacrifice. As long as everyone else is happy. My best happiness does not always matter to me. I want everyone else to be happy I want them to have it easy, I will do the harder work to make you happy and hope that you will do the same for me…guess what, they don’t!

So here is my charge to myself, it is time to make the best decision for me. It is time for me to go be great! I know what I have to do. I almost know how to do it. I don’t know how I am going to but I am going to do it! I will be great. My life will be great and I will get what I deserve. I will not shy away from work to get there!

Do you need to do the same? Let’s support each other!

#DoYou2016

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Stretch Your Mind and Dream

08 Tuesday Mar 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Planning, Relax, Volunteering, Working Mom

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A dreamer needs a realist to balance, Be Creative, Dream, have balance, Think outside the box

planningToday has been a busy day. Between work, school, kids activities, dinner making and Pee Wee volunteerism I have been on the go! I have a lot of things in the works. Takes a lot of time and it is hard for me to keep everything straight! Lots of notes and details that I keep hoping not to forget.

After work this afternoon I called about getting some new PeeWee gear bids and hopefully by this Thursday at the meeting I will have samples to present to the rest of the board. Then I met the new Chiropractor in my office for a massage and some business chatting and planning some marketing strategies. Then came home to meet a friend with the Hubs about FINALLY doing our bathroom upgrade! There are so many exciting things happening here in the Earl household.

We are finishing the bathroom then going to either refinance or decide to sell the house and purchase our dream house or dream property. We are in a state of planning. The Hubs HATES planning. There are so many unpredictable things that may come up that you can’t control. I love planning!!! I love thinking of new things happening. I love the idea of change and things going better and being great. I love the idea of adventure! I can dream up so many different things in the planning stage anything is possible!! You don’t have to consider what is possible or what is reasonable I love the brainstorming and the “wouldn’t it be great if…..” conversations. The Hubs hates the “wouldn’t it be cool if….” conversations because he is a realist and he sees dollar signs and physics. I am a dreamer and somewhere in my head I think that just maybe there will be a possibility that it can happen…gravity? Eh, we can overcome that!!!

So I am stoked after our meeting I am excited to look at tiles and pick out shower heads and dream of colors and counter tops! I am loving the idea of maybe a date night out to look at these things and pick out colors and plan what floor we will stand on to take showers from now on. I really enjoy these moments when we get to the stage that the Hubs will have these conversations with me because once it becomes a reality then he is all in and really enjoyable to chat about it with! Lots of planning in the near future I am excited for this little journey. I hope the Hubs can handle my little outbursts of “WHAT ABOUT _________, THAT WOULD BE SO COOL.” I know most of my outbursts are just crazy dreams only possible on unlimited budgets but I have a hard time containing them they just come out sometimes! I get so excited!

I just suggest we all dream a little more and let the mind expand. Sometimes it is fun to just dream and somewhere in those unrealistic dreams comes some things that are good ideas and creative answers for problems that one day will not be indulgences but convenience and common…maybe someday! Stretch you mind and dream…. (SMILE)

#Recommit2016

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It’s Show Day!

05 Saturday Dec 2015

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Happy Show Day!!! I worked a full day at the massage office, then had our dance show, then Volunteer Banquet for Pee Wee Football!

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We are now heading for an after party! Apologies for not writing more but my Dance show and dancing at the banquet with biddies has rescued my Fucked day at the office!

Have a good night folks, I will have wisdom and detail tomorrow!

#Everyday2015

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Yay Me!

23 Monday Nov 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Football, Heads Up Football, Kids, Planning, Usa football, Volunteering

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Experience Matters!, Pee Wee Football, Volunteering

Most of you know I am the equipment manager for the pee wee league. This last weekend was gear check in. This is my third year doing gear check out and check in! I met up with families today that didn’t make it to turn in their gear on Saturday. The last two years I have had to follow up with families well into December to get the stragglers. I don’t know if I am just earning the respect of the families in the league and they are getting everything turned in or if the fact that I publish the gear check in day on gear check out day or if they just don’t want me to cash their deposit checks or what! Whatever it is…I don’t care it is working!

Experience pays offIt has been a rough season. I have spent a lot of hours trying to get everyone all that they need in regards for gear and it has been a struggle since I took on two jobs this year vs no jobs last year. I am so happy and cannot express how excited and accomplished I feel. I know it is just gear but it is shoulder pads, helmets, practice pants, game pants, knee pads, belts girdles….. for 250 or so players! It is not exactly and easy task! Yay me! Great job SKPW! Also, the equipment is more organized than ever! I am so thankful for my husband’s help. I tell him, I want this organized or this year I want you on helmets. We had some coaches, some parents, not too many people but very quality people and I was so happy that they were all there! (I am pretty sure none of them read my blog but I want to give them credit, they were awesome!)

I had amazing help, great organization and the last few years have tweaked with a few things and that really made the difference! So for a second I am going to again just say “Yay Me”! Was a great way to end it (not that the work is done inventory needs to happen and I have to track down a few coaches to get their gear) but really Monday after gear check out I can say I have it all! Yay Me! Now to enjoy the volunteer banquet this year!

Now time to get ready in the house for Thanksgiving… Got a lot of work to do if only it could be so easy as Gear Check In was this weekend!

#Everyday2015

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