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13 Wednesday May 2020

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Hello SLWC-ers!

What day is it? It’s Wednesday, hump day challenge day! Happy Hump Day Challenge Day!!! So today’s Hump Day Challenge comes to you via inspiration I got when I was driving to see our friends the other day. They live about an hour away and on the way the Hubs were listening to Vivid radio on the SiriusXM radio. They were talking about an article in Cosmo about multiple orgasms! She referred to it as “More-gasms” not sure how to spell that! Anyway, tonight’s hump day challenge is to have Moregasmsn! Never had it? Well prepare to be amazed! You see women’s bodies are primed and prepped to be able to have multiples, we don’t need time to regenerate and get ready to go again we can just keep going and going. Did you not know that? Well, yes, it is a thing!

So tonight, you will need to know the 5 things cosmo says I’m going to list them here and you can read the whole article here. I’m going to try to make this post short so you can get to your moregasms! You will also need a man who is patient and loves to see you in ecstasy!

Multiple Os

Here are the 5 tips summarized and Ruby-ized

1. Be open minded to having multiples. If you leave the option open and don’t expect the orgasm to be the finale it will open you up for the possibility. It is important to relax and accept more. Just be you, relax and enjoy! Make sure you man knows what his task is, multiple orgasms for you and don’t worry, he will get his reward at the end.

2.  Kegals. Strong kegal muscles help lead to not only pleasurable sexual experiences in general but to the possibility of multiple orgasms. Do some keglas right now to help prep yourself to be ready! (Your lover will enjoy them when you do them during sex too.) Training your kegals regularly will help you strengthen your pelvic floor muscles and increase enjoyment of your man while inside you when you squeeze down on him too. The key is not only strong muscles but blood flow as well, keep it flowing!

3. Foreplay, especially oral sex. Have him make out with your pussy. Focus on that clitoris  but take breaks by licking around your vagina in all directions, lick around and suck on the labia and change directions to give that clit a break as you get closer to climax and then dive back in on that beautiful clit and then break again. This will be training your body to get used to getting intense and close and giving a mini break and hit it strong again. Have him add in some fingers in your pussy too and even playing with some back door fingering or licking and then back to that clit with some added double penetration sometimes.

4. Take a break. When it gets intense and you get close and even after you cum take a short timeout, we all like to pull away and relax and cuddle after the big o but instead of pulling completely, just take a break. Give him a kiss and make out with him. If he knows you are working to have multiples he will enjoy getting some attention go down on him practice your oral on him when you have had enough of a break (just take a short one) lay him on his back keep sucking him off and put your vagina in his face to lick and kiss and make out with that pussy some more. Now you are on top and you have control. Rub your clit on his face(they love that). Remember, men don’t really have multiples so be careful not to take him too far with your mouth, before you come again and again. Keep him right on the edge and hard and you will be dripping wet and he will be lapping you up and loving every  single one of your O’s almost as much as you. This brings us right to  our last tip.

5. Pick your position wisely.  Being on top or maybe in doggy lets you have control to move away or closer. Also gives you access to that clit. Stimulating your clit is a great way to orgasm and for some women the only way to actually have an orgasm. Clitoral stimulation either by him or by yourself (don’t be shy guys like it when we touch ourselves) is a great way to achieve orgasm be it the first orgasm or the fifth! Ride the wave and keep it going as long as you want and/or as long as you can keep him hard and stimulated and hold him off from cumming.

When your ready to finish him off and give him his reward for loving you in such a way and letting you climax and cum so many times choose your favorite position and make sure it’s one he likes too, to give him an orgasm that will also get you off one last time. My preference is to end in missionary with the hubs on top driving his cock deep in my pussy while I play with my clit and we both come together at the same time. His cock is pulsing and I am squeezing my pussy kegal style on his cock when I get the biggest O of them all. 

So have Moregasms today. Be open minded to it! Relax and don’t force it but be ready and prepare for it! Head over to Cosmo and read that article for more details and enjoy some multiple orgasms and another night of #QuarantineSex

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02 Wednesday Oct 2019

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So, it’s been a while since I have been here writing regularly. Life has gotten in the way! It is my hopes I can come back at least once a week from here out but I’m making no promises. Thank you to those readers who are still reading and looking for new stuff from me! I appreciate you!

However, you know what today is right? It’s Wednesday which means Hump Day Challenge Day! I haven’t written in a long time and I feel like I may have lost my groove of being sexy and putting myself out there so I am going to try but please judge me with the eyes that I am a recovering prude (from childhood and it’s resurfacing since 2015) and little girl afraid to be judged! If you are here to judge this prudish scared girl, fuck you and please leave this site, only non judgmental people are allowed. Otherwise if you’re here for fun and excitement free from judgement, read on this will be fun.

The Hubs hasGlass butt plug been wanting me to try something for a while and I have resisted. He has been requesting that I get a glass butt plug. Yes this Ruby Earl is a recovering prude couldn’t get past her old prudish self, “Miss Just Do It and Don’t Judge” “the preacher of just enjoy and have fun, no holding back for fear. Everyone struggles with those thoughts and fears. Ok, maybe it’s just me, we are all adults here, sex is legal and it’s okay to express yourself and love who you love and play with them in a way that makes you and them feel good. I have been trying to break out of that head space for a while and finally after a day of watching football and spending time friends and a few heavily poured drinks the Hubs and I ventured out to the sex store to check out glass toys. As we drove there my mind wondered to glass blown art then I thought and said out loud, “I want a dildo with raised ribs spiraling around it” The Hubs slyly smiled and said “I’m sure they make those” He was proud of me embracing the idea of this. Long story short (shocking) we bought both! Then played when we got home. The temperature, the weight and the spirally ribbing as well as the smooth feeling of the gspiral dildolass were the highlights for me. We played with both, and I have an idea for another challenge for another day but let’s stick to one thing at a time.

What’s nice about glass is that it’s dishwasher safe so you can just pop it in the dishwasher when your done and it will be clean and sanitized for your next use. (Or just use soap and hot water) For real, Glass sex toys don’t shatter if dropped (this was my biggest fear, the material is similar to Pyrex) and they all have a hypoallergenic, non-porous surface; the most hygienic of any material. They have more weight than a standard sex toy boosting sexual pleasure. Glass is really nice there are many options for extra stimulation like the spirally ribbing around the shaft, some even have bumps or dots that also help give a different sensation when inserted. Go ahead give them a try it will not disappoint you.

So the challenge today is to play with a glass toy go out and pick one with your lover or if you know what they would like surprise them with a new one when you come home from work. If you don’t have access to a new glass toy, is to try something new, a new location, a new position or try role playing and talk about what you would do with a glass toy with you partner while you have you nightly sex session. Think of something your partner has been requesting for a while or something you have been curious about. Don’t let you inner prude hold you back and be respectful of theirs. Let go of the previous conceived notions you have, maybe you have been judged in the past or heard a friend or family member talk trash about it or have your own pre-judgements on it. I can tell you from experience it’s worth a try. Give it the old college try, wink wink. Just relax and have sex! That’s what this is about!

#HumpDayChallenge

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14 Wednesday Mar 2018

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steak and bj dayToday is the perfect day to get back here to start Hump Day Challenges again. Maybe tomorrow I will post a life update so you all can know where I’ve been and what I am thinking. But today is National Steak and Blow Job Day. Which basically was a male joke gone viral but hey, this is Sex Love and Washing clothes and it’s Wednesday and my sexual creativity lately has been lacking so here we go! Apparently some guys are all bitter over spending money for Valentines Day a month ago so they created this cute ‘holiday’. Ok, I’m down, I’ll play!

Today’s Hump Day Challenge is a Blow Job or Cunnilingus for the ladies. There is no slang for Cunnilingus for the ladies when I hear Blow Job however I think of Cunnilingus as the a blow job too, it is a female version. However I don’t think of cunnilingus as as much of a job as Fellatio… anyway digression! Women can get Blow Jobs too!

Give your lover oral sex! For the sake of this hump day challenge Steak is optional but who wants to miss out on a reason to have steak? Lick, suck and slobber your way to your partners orgasm! Then lay back and allow him to return the favor! Some like raunchy loud and slurpy the louder the dirtier the better. Yet others like to be quiet and pretty but I don’t care just do it and enjoy it! Relax and have fun giving your lover pleasure. Remember this is not just to the Male aspect of Blow Jobs it is to both partners. I am already excited for this one! Go get you some!

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31 Wednesday Jan 2018

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if you never did you shouldHappy Hump Day! Today the Hump Day Challenge is to get out of your comfort level. Well for some of you, anyway. Since it’s the beginning of the year I want to ease into things sort of and get you communicating differently. The Hubs and I struggle hard core on communication. Believe it or not he is more sexually driven than me. He likes to have dirty talk and like sexual innuendo and most of the time I am stuck and confused about how to answer. Many times I respond with LOL or send back and emoji but he really wants is for me to get involved with the conversation. So, the best advice I can give you is PRACTICE and just do it. Write something back until if feels normal. The hump day challenge this week is, we are going to sext each other.

Start off by sending a text that says something like “I can’t wait to see your naked body” or some partners may want (or even need) more. Point is: Know your audience. If your man likes the details of how long and where you will put his member when you get home by all means go for it. However, if your wife is a stay at home mom who sometimes lets your kids play with her phone while she is shopping give her a warning first. “Hey, babe. Little man is not looking right?” she responds with “no” Then go ahead  with “when he goes to bed tonight I’m going to lick your luscious pussy until you beg for my cock” then she can respond back with a pic of her pussy (after she escapes from Little Man of course)

Sexting is a fine art. You have to be careful what and when you send texts and if your partner has a work phone probably don’t want to send it there…or maybe you do for some extra danger (but don’t say I didn’t warn you if negative backlash comes). I love the idea of sexting my spouse. He loves it. There’s not a whole lot of anything that can’t be cheered up with a nice shot of my tits… Get my smile in there too then he is set for the day!

If sending photos don’t worry about how you look there are not too many sexual positions you are in that you will think are attractive, but he will. I know it’s usually the girls who have that self consciousness. Men, some ladies love a good dick pic, however many of us can live without. My preference is to not get them. However, I love a good six pack paired with  boxer briefs… I love my husbands smile and I love a guy in sunglasses. My point is that we women are a little harder to understand and please, so do your homework and find out what your gal likes before sending the dick pic.

Your hump day challenge today is to sext up your lover! Give them a story or just a short tease what ever you feel like and make sure you know it is something they are into. The point is to start a playful conversation that leads to foreplay that leads to sex that leads to two orgasms!

#SLWC2018

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24 Wednesday Jan 2018

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oral sexHappy Hump Day! Today’s Hump Day Challenge kind of pairs with last week. Last week it was all about the boys, this week it is all about the girls. Lets start with getting a manicure. Go to the nail shop, there they will not only file and trim your nails but soak your hands and soften the skin on your hands to be smooth as silk. When your lady gets ready you are going to give her the lick of her life.

When you go down on her as your face closes in on her pussy, consciously breathe out while approaching her luscious lips to lick. That will draw her brain’s attention down there and she will just notice that something amazing is about to happen. Softly start kissing and licking her outer labia, work your tongue in between her luscious lips and find her clit. Play with that for a bit, you will feel it firm up, if it hasn’t already. Feel free to add some humming or moaning as you go along. The vibration will add yet another level of stimulation. As she is getting going and to add even more sexual stimulation, use your hands to touch her body. Touch her everywhere, but some maybe even most, women really like their nipples stimulated when they get oral, but don’t ignore the whole boob. Caress it, her whole boob, in your hand and then with two fingers roll the nipple around and rock your finger back and forth on her nipple, alternating this will be best. You will feel her body writhe with pleasure under you and she may even start grinding on your face.

If you are worried that you don’t know what to do, pretend you are making out with her, just like you would kiss her. Suckle, lick, suck and then when you are ready to take it to the next level, insert a finger (or two) in her pussy. Keep licking and keep your other hand caressing her breasts and stimulating her nipple. As she gets even more into it you keep your tongue going, she may even be grabbing your head and pressing it into her, insert another finger into her pussy. Feel her G-spot it is a bumpy area inside of her vaginal canal, on the front side of her body. Now, walk yourself up her body and kiss and make out with her, insert your cock inside of her and fuck her for a little while, but do not let her come yet, unless you plan on giving her multiple orgasms.

Before she climaxes, go back down on her finger her while you lick her and stimulate her sexual region. Make sure your fingers are super wet with saliva or even  considering grabbing some lube for the next step; gently insert a finger in her ass. (If anal play is new to her start with your pinky because it is small,  this is where the manicure comes in handy the anal canal is super sensitive don’t want to scratch her that will really turn her off to anal play and maybe all together.) Don’t need to worry about moving that finger much maybe a little back and forth or gently with the whole movement of her body and your whole hand. Keep your tongue going and keep a finger in her pussy as you add the anal play. Check in with her or at least make sure she is enjoying it. The Double penetration is sure to send her over the edge! The key is to go slow and make sure she knows what you are doing especially if it’s new. If you do it right she will be grinding on your face and you will have the taste of pussy juices on your upper lip for the rest of the night. And hey, maybe you will get a returned favor (but please don’t ask her for it, let her enjoy her “O” the same way she let you last week, let her offer it to you).

The combination of fingering her and oral is sure to get her going even if she is not that into sex! She will go from stressed to impressed by you in just a few licks and finger strokes. I prefer to finish with my man in my pussy and he knows that so that is how we do foreplay, but you are free to explore with your lover and decide how to go about this. Don’t hesitate to make oral a regular occurrence in your sex sessions. It is a great way to get your partners body going. My body, like many other women, tends to need a little more assistance getting horny than the Hubs, like most men you just say sex and they are standing at attention, and this is a go to for him and I top be on the same page. Honestly it is one reason we have such great sex. I remember when he got good at it and it is when our sex life hit the next level! I hope you enjoy it as much as we do!

#SLWC2018

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17 Wednesday Jan 2018

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Happy Hump Day! Did you know Red Lipstick in the red light community means you give blow jobs? Today this is your challenge!

Greet you man with a huge smile with bright or dark red lipstick on. Put his cock in your mouth and then take it out and admire it with your color around it. Look at him and smile then go back down on that. Feel it fill your mouth and lick it all over. Feel every bump and indentation with your tongue. Every once in a while look up with a mischievous smile and maybe a wink. Let him sit back and just watch you work.

If you can’t go start to finish with your mouth it’s okay. He likes it when you ride him and when you go back and forth with your mouth. You can give yourself breaks with your hand as well, let him touch you. Grab his ass, if he is standing, and pull him in closer to you! Lick the top of his cock play and tease it with your tongue and with your lips suck and even blow on it for extra stimulation. Wrap your hand around the base of his cock and put your mouth on top of your hand with him in your mouth, he will like the full contact on his dick! Do all of these things until he comes!

Have fun with it! Guys, you’re welcome! Be proud of what you did for your man and maybe if he wants, and if you want, you can let him return the favor.

#SLWC2018

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10 Wednesday Jan 2018

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Give her an orgasmHappy Hump Day! I am still working on getting writing in my schedule before the end of the night! Once again today here I am at 10:03. Anyway update from yesterday it was a bit of a downer but later in the day after the couch sucked me in for the morning in the evening I went for a 3 mile run and felt much better. I didn’t want to stop and I wanted to go again today however schedule did not allow it! I went running in the evening and it was dark and I survived. We have a nice well lit running/walking trail along the water downtown so I felt pretty safe down there! So there I know I go in the dark and be safe. There is nothing like a runners high!

Well actually yes there is the feeling you get from an Orgasm that leads me to the Hump Day Challenge for today the first of 2018 (since we started SLCW Monday). Todays challenge is to get to the big “O” this may sound strange if you and your partner are always on the same page and orgasm together every time and are both as satisfied as the other. I love sex with The Hubs. He is great at taking time on me to make sure I get off and enjoy what we are doing. However as we get older and busier and life happens my mind gets side tracked and my body doesn’t always respond the way it should. I am pretty sure I am not the only one. So sometimes we either fake it, or just let our partner know the body is not working so go ahead and finish so we can get to sleep or because the longer you are taking the more stressed you are about it and just want to satisfy your lover and give him what he deserves for all the effort he is putting in.

So today you must fuck your partner until you both come! Remember it is not a rule that you come at the same time or even the same way. Some women cannot orgasm with intercourse. Some need your tongue to get the wetness flowing and a little G-spot stimulation to finishe the deed. While others need to self stimulate or many other combinations of those and many other methods. Remember for women the biggest sex organ is her brain, the one that won’t shut down counting chores that she needs to do and trying to remember what she needed at the grocery store. Give her permission to stop thinking.

Men are usually the easier sex to SEX. Some men however need a little more as well. Oral goes a long way, so does dirty talk. Tell him how hard and how big he is and how great he feels inside you. Let him see you! Visual stimulation is huge for men much more than women so if he needs help leave the light on! Feel free to move around positions places to allow him to fuck you, positions and even if he needs to give some self stimulation today’s hump day goal is for both to have orgasm while you’re fucking each other but that may not mean there is no self stimulation. Remember there are no rules! Anything goes as long as you both Get Off!

Cheers to your “O”!

#SLWC2018

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09 Thursday Nov 2017

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FUCK!!! It’s Wednesday and it’s almost over and I forgot to post a hump day challenge!

Quickly, today challenge brought to you by sitting in a car dealership all day! Fuck in a car! This is harder than it sounds especially since cars of today are not like those in the 50’s. The back seat of that ’57 Chevy was much more conducive to fucking than that of today’s BMW 5 series…but minivans, that’s another story… You go soccer mom!

But get creative, go in the back seat, ride him on the passenger seat, fold down the back seats and don’t in the trunk. Get the gear shifter out of the way and pull out his big stick!

Find a place that is secluded to park with a view of the city take a moment to enjoy the view but even if it’s right when you pull in the driveway before you go inside…it’s hot to have sex in a car! Especially with the idea or the risk of getting caught…just don’t get caught!

No driving while giving it getting head, it’s dangerous! But you are adults now you can fuck him wherever it feels good! Enjoy the view and get it on in the car!

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25 Wednesday Oct 2017

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Happy Hump Day!! I don’t know about you but I have had a long day! Not in a bad way but just long. I got to have lunch with the Hubs and watch the Girl perform. At some point today I had a feeling come over me, one that I have experienced for a while off and on, and that is that I have no idea if I am doing ok or not. I have been a bit cranky this afternoon and feeling a bit inadequate…which is making it tough to write this blog today!

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Today is Hump Day and last week I made the decision to writing and to start it would be a Hump Day Challenge at least once a week. So, here I am trying to write a hump day challenge be inspiring and sexy. So here goes…

Just FUCK! Tonight go to bed and have sex with your lover. If you have to do it just because I said so. It is Hump Day after all! Sometimes the best feelings come from just having sex. First the power of being naked is overwhelming. Skin to skin contact affects the brain and your hormone levels. Just rub his back as he lays there. Feel with your hands the curves and bumps and crevices. Cup his ass in your hand feel her breasts as your rub from her shoulder down her chest to her smooth belly. As the skin to skin contact arouses you, move in closer. Wrap your arms around each other and feel your whole bodies touch every inch of your body touch.

Use your fingers, your hands, even your feet to feel your partners body. Then climb on him and ride his big cock, men hold her hips and watch her as she rocks back and forth. Then lean down on him and let your breasts rub against his chest. Feel how his chest hair tickles your nipples just right. Allow your sense of touch to open up and feel. Stop thinking and just feel!

Don’t wait for your partner to tell your they want to have sex, don’t expect them to ask if you want to or even tell you to. Just touch him. Touch her softly move in for the kiss as you feel how good it feels to touch, do more! Until you are fucking!

Enjoy your touch let it lead to sex! Go soft, slow and accept what happens. Don’t expect your lover to do anything in return give them pleasure and take pleasure in that. (I bet she will enjoy returning the pleasure, but do not expect it! Love on her as she loves on you and then you both will have a great love experience!

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05 Wednesday Apr 2017

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It is hard to fuck when sharing a room with your kids!! The Hubs had work meetings in Texas this week and it’s Spring Break, so the kids and I flew down with him to enjoy some sunshine and warm weather. We needed to escape the Gray PNW! So I’m laying here in bed thinking of a Hump Day Challenge while the kids are still sleeping. It’s kind of hard to even do that just to think about it. But I will try for those of you who have doors between you and your children!


The Hubs and I will probably end up taking a shower together to get our “alone time” and lock the door behind us! But I am really trying to add different types of Hump Day Changes here so this week is Doggie Style! 

She bends over on her hands and knees and he enters her from behind. There are plenty of options here! Men you can grab a hold of her hips and rub her ass as you fuck her. You will be able to look at and admire her sexy womanly shape her curves and waist and hips. Look at how sexy her shape is. If you have long arms play with her titties or reach around and play with her clit as well. 

If you two are adventurous you can even try anal from here. Just go slow make sure she is ready for it and use really good lube! This can be a really intense position so make sure you communicate and respect with each other.

Enjoy the ride tonight folks. Lock you door and do it! Hey, and you can even watch TV while your fucking! Gotta love doggie style!! Go get you some!

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