Happy Hump Day! Today I had The Boy home sick from school. So I got very little work done today but it would have been perfect for me to write my blog but of course I didn’t think about it while we were snuggling on the couch watching Pitch Perfect. So here goes while I sit here watching football. It is a nice crisp fall night I am loving the quiet down time just watching the boys. I am struggling with my mommy muscles to go rescue the boy from getting yelled at when he makes a mistake. I just want to say give him a break he’s sick. But in the real world, it doesn’t slow down because you’re sick. They boy has to learn to be tough and to put in the work and tough it out if he wants to be there and be great. As I sit back and watch I just smile watching The Hubs and all the other coaches putting their passion and their love for the game and these boys out there. All of these men could be at home in a warm living room with their feet up but they are here with our boys making them better players, better students of the game and eventually, better men.

I digress though. Today’s Hump Day Challenge is about feeling confident in your skin. Today I want you to seductively strip for your partner. As you may know The Hubs and I have sex a lot. We try for every day but don’t always make it. We always go to bed at the same time. Sometimes, many times especially as we get busier and life gets crazier we sort of just go through the motions of sex. We get in bed naked usually one of us in in bed and covered up before the other. We snuggle close and get on with it. We enjoy each other and sex even on these normal go through the motion kind of nights. Tonight I want you to make it different. Tonight as I always suggest go to bed together and seductively take your clothes off for your lover. If you are like me add some music.

As you set the stage think about what you like about your body and how your will showcase it for your lover. Think about what your lover has told you he/she loves about your body. How would they love to see it showcased? Throw out your insecurities about your body. Yes, you may have a bit of a muffin top or you don’t like your stretch marks, but I guarantee your lover does. Show your body off to him be sexy be romantic, be playful. Lap Dance or grind on him when you get completely naked take her clothes off in a seductively sultry way. Kiss each other’s body lick her pussy, suck his cock. Be slow and feel your body touching theirs. Sit back for a second and check out your lover can you believe you get to fuck that? How amazing is that? Treat your lover’s body with the ultimate sensual sexual energy and attention.

A few notes to those who may struggle with this whole confidence thing. When you are stripping look at the part of your body you are trying to showcase, this takes his eyes there too. If there is a part of your body that you are less confident about, just let it go. Stop worrying about it! You are beautiful! You are sexy! Your lover wants that body show it to him!  She chose you for a reason you are sexy!

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