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Sex for Stress

13 Tuesday Sep 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be You, Dance, Do You, Do Your Thing, Family, Uncategorized

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Busy, growing supportive women, miss blogging everyday, Sex reduces stress, sexforstress, women support women

Hello friends. I have missed you. I miss blogging everyday! I miss sharing my stories with you. I was on the way to a Seahawks game yesterday and looked at my phone and thought of blogging but, I knew my hands would really act up and be painful if I blogged from my phone. The kids have started school. The girl said her first day was “terrible”. The boy’s first Pee Wee game was this weekend. He played amazing but the team still lost. There are so many things I want to share about every single one of these adventures but time is not on my side. Blogging is almost like a full time job or at least should be. I makes me think that maybe I need to plan my posts out better. I miss having time to blog. I also miss having sex with the hubs everyday! I miss Sex Love and Washing Clothes!!!

I love everything I am doing in my life. I love my life. The Hubs and I have had a few struggles a few weeks ago, but have got past it. Starting a new business has created a lot of stress in this household as it would in any household. Stress like that tends to cause the Hubs and I to argue a little more. More sex helps us in the arguing department so we have really (or at least I have) focused on having more sex. I know it sounds like avoiding problems but really it is coping with stress. So that has been a lot of what we do in our spare time. Which is what makes it tough right now for the Hubs to be gone for a week, he is at training for work! Boo!!!!

One more adventure that I have been working on is I am the new Drill Team Advisor at my daughter’s junior high. She has never been much interested in Drill Team but I was in Drill Team as a Jr High and High school student. It made a big impact in my life and would not want these girls to miss the opportunity and the chance to influence women of our future to get a better start being better women than we have before. Women need to be taught at a young age how to support each other and not compete with each other. We as a Drill Team are sisters and what we need to focus on is to lift up and support each other! I hope I can help the girls start a good solid life of good lady support for each other!

I need to go choreograph a tryout routine, wash dishes, do laundry and maybe even sleep. (No fucking the Hubs in gone, sadface)

#Sexforstress2016

 

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Put Energy In Things That Move You Closer To Your Goals

21 Sunday Aug 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be You, Business, Do Your Thing, Live in the Moment, Live life, Planning, Working Mom

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Busy, craziness planned, Have sex as much as possible, I love my life, Love, Plan to have balance

Stress-management-photoI really miss blogging everyday. I really hope to get back to it. However, I really want my blog to be quality. To be inspirational, educational, funny and have less typos. However, when I write many times I am distracted and have a lot going on. That’s what happens as a working mom. I lack good boundaries to set strict rules for myself and my family about when they can get my attention and when I put my attention into different things than just my blog. I have started a business and that has taken a lot more energy and effort and my time than I originally had planned for. I know it is going to be great but it needs a lot of energy and I have to make it a priority. I should make a priority to set a better schedule and get all of my tasks in. Sometimes, I just sit and do nothing or watch mindless TV shows to just relax. Everyone needs that, yes, everyone does!

I am working to help you my readers to be better at being present in your life. That is a goal I have to inspire you and encourage you and myself to be present. Whatever it is that you are trying to do do it big, do it well and do it with love! I am not the best example of how to do that, but I know you can do it. Do your best, love with all your heart. Have perspective and put your energy in the areas of your life that you want to flourish! A good place to start with that is to have a schedule, make lists, prioritize well and get help!

One big thing you need, this deserves it’s own paragraph is self awareness. Know what you want. Have a vision and be clear. Write it down if you need to. When you are feeling overwhelmed take a minute to step back and evaluate where you are and where you want to be. Are you on a path that is getting you closer to where you want to be or are you putting too much energy into things or places that don’t matter! Really be intentional in everything you do and you will get closer to where you want to go. Eliminate things that don’t help you get there. Those moments you say “yes” when you know you should say “no” take a minute and think, will this help me in the areas of my life I need to keep moving forward? Will this help accomplish my goals? If not then respectfully say “no”. There are sometimes we do have to sacrifice for our children or our spouse or family and do those things  but make it meaningful. If you cannot do it full out and with a good spirit say no anyway! Always do everything with your best energy and intention. You will be rewarded for that, in some way shape or form. I believe that to be so.

I will work on this as I muddle through this first month of owning my own business. I will work through getting myself organized, scheduling things in my life so I can not be buried in my business but also not make my business a charity and make money and pay myself with it. I will work on all of this. I will make lists, schedule groceries and cleaning. I already have put on my schedule my “business accounting/billing/office work” time for Tuesday mornings. Grocery shopping is after that and cleaning will need a time too. I will be working Monday and Friday evenings and probably Tuesdays as well, I haven’t got that nailed down as I have an onsite job that I do and I need to make sure that day is nailed down first. I will commit to continuing to write a Hump Day Challenge every week and I will try to include at least two more posts every week. So you should see at least three blog posts a week from me, sometimes more when I have a moment.

So there you have it. There is the start to my list and my commitment to you readers. I love this blog, I love writing. I love my family and husband and kids and my business. I have to give myself some realistic expectations of how to accomplish happiness and balance. Keep reading and feel free to comment and interact with me if you like. Continue to be positive and open minded and keep having sex as much as you can! Go forth and Sex, Love and Washing Clothes with me!

#Plan2016

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TGIF!!!!

27 Saturday Feb 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Do Your Thing, Everyday, Family, Live in the Moment, Massage Therapy, Mom Stuff, Parenting, Raising Kids, Working Mom, wrestling

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Busy, Family Life, Life, Mom Life, Working Mom

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Today is Friday! I had 18 massage appointments this week plus 2 Wrestling matches, a PeeWee football equipment meeting and a baseball team mom meeting and Dentist appointments for the kids, oh and had my Dance class (but only made one class this week) I also hand washed my car and fed my family everyday and only had Pizza once! It has been a crazy busy week! The girl hurt her knee at dance and I keep forgetting to call the orthopedic Dr about it! I do t thinknitnisnmore that bad but of it is I am going to feel so bad for ignoring it!

Bottom line is I am tired today. I had a headache from last night until today at 2 or so I finally gave in and took Alieve. I tried my EOs, got an adjustment and drank water and nothing helped. I think it may have been my body telling me I was tired and doing a lot more than normal this week. But this is what “normal” is going to be soon (or right now obviously). I am striving for 20 massages a week which is considered a full time schedule for an LMP. Our family is busy and we are involved parents! I am going to have to hire a house cleaner (and maybe even a house nanny to/do laundry and cook dinner do they have those?) I am busy but honestly the house is not too disastrous surprisingly enough!Especially considering I am the only one who does laundry and dishes unless my mom babysits early enough that she is not too tired to fold laundry ( I love that about her) this week she had time to fold my clothes when we were on Date Night!

I really am enjoying my job and my life lately. I feel good about myself. Work is going well the kids are doing awesome (The Girl just got two awards today at school and The Boy took two reading tests to meet his monthly reading goal!) Blogging is going well-ish too! I am writing this one in bed while the Hubs snores next to me. We are sexing inthe morning because tongiht as we went to bed I was working on his knee and started rubbing his back too and he got that sleepy look so I asked him and he said yes let’s do that, the alarm is set for early, it’s Wrestling End of Season Tournament Day! But we are going to get up even earlier do “It” (lol I said “do It”)

Things are going well in the Earl household here! Loving life enjoying family and making it all work! Good night folks!

#Recommit2016

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Busy #Bartenderlife

14 Wednesday Oct 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present

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Bartending, Busy, Enjoy life, Working Mom

Today was so busy at the bar. I cooked so much more food than normal and made lots of drinks and pull tabs! No big winners 😦 anyway, I had a busy massage day and had no time to blog! #Bartenderlife right? Maybe #Momlife or better here’s one #Workingmomlife

Goodnight folks, the Hubs “green lighted” me so I am headed home and you know yep we’re gonna have sex before I go to sleep! Enjoy!

#Everyday2015

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Need: Create Boundaries, Schedules, Plan and Menus Focus on My Why

28 Monday Sep 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Do Your Thing, Homemaker, Mom Stuff, Working Mom

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Balance, Busy, Crazy Mom Head, Massage, Meaningful work, PTSD

So I don’t know about this whole working mom thing. Going from a Stay at Home role to a working mom role has been tough. There are a lot of differences between being a Stay at Home Mom and being A Working Mom. I really don’t feel like I do much less at home now, being a working mom vs when I was not working. I just have more to do. I have to be more organized and I don’t have the time. For example, I used to wait until the down times to go to Costco, you would not catch me there on the weekend. But now that I have a day time job, but now, I have to go when I can go (and sometimes that is the weekend when it is busy). It is things like this that I was not prepared for when I chose to go back to work. I plan to to schedule my life better.

I My family is my everythinghave talked about this thought about it but it is time to actually do it. I found a few minutes of extra time tomorrow I will use that to sit down and plan life. I want to plan when to cook, when to shop, when to clean, when to work. I want to continue to do it all, I don’t want to have to sacrifice anything (but I do). I want to continue to volunteer at school (which is getting a bit less as the kids get older there is not as much that the teachers need, at least not this year). I want to keep the house clean and organized (not that I was very good at that even before I worked). I want to still have time for date nights with the hubs and of course have time to actually work and work on growing my business.

So here is the plan: Compress my working days and times, schedule a laundry and house work day and schedule a day to work on business and volunteer at school. Consider what amount of money I need to make each month and how to better utilize it. Figure out work logistics and make sure I set very good boundaries and am satisfied with work and don’t get resentful about my work.

I had a great massage this morning. My client was very appreciative and gave me great feedback. I felt trusted and like I knew what I was doing. Sometimes it feels like I am working so hard and the client doesn’t like what I am doing or I don’t know, and sometimes, they don’t get better or they don’t like what I do and blame me for it, or at least I feel like they do. Then I question myself like “do I really know what I am doing” Today I felt like I knew what I was doing. I have been doing this for almost 17 years and I have taught massage therapy and I really do know what I am doing! I like doing massage but burn out has been kind of setting in and I need to get back to loving what I do and that comes from having a better plan and better boundaries and more realistic expectations at work. In my work, I want to do more work with PTSD patients and more work with folks who are healthy but in pain or stressed and need my help to feel righted, like my client this morning! I would like to figure out where I can get a grant to do work with Military Vets who struggle with PTSD and re-entering the real world after being in or being trained to be in a war. I think massage is a valid and important piece of whole health and wellness!

I just want to do good work and I want to make impact on people who need me and want me. I want to be happy with my life and by my life what I mean “my life” includes providing support emotionally, physically, and now financially to my family! I also want to be able to take care of myself, my family’s mom and wife so that I can do the best that I can for them and for my clients! My family is my why. Why I do what I do is for them!

#Everyday2015

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Finishing a Long Tuesday the Right Way

19 Wednesday Aug 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Marriage is hard, Marriage is work, Sex, Sex Love and Washing Clothes

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Busy, Long Day, not too tired for sex, Sex, Sex Love and Washing Clothes

Fuck me!! It is still Tuesday for me!!! Took the kids to the fountain park then went to work at the bar for my Tuesday night shift!
I’ve had a busy packed day so I haven’t got a chance to blog yet. My shift was steady at the bar so I didn’t get a chance to sit down and take a break and blog. I did talk about writing and my blog to another bartender at the end of my shift. I started Sex Love and Washing Clothes as a stay at home mom to help encourage stay-at-home moms to be happy and content with themselves and life in general. To encourage couples to have good sex and enjoy life together. And now here I sit at the end of a shift of my ‘second job’ …oh how this year has evolved me and this blog.
I’m going home now and I’m going to fuck my husband. I will wake him up if I need to, I’m pretty sure he won’t get mad at me for that, but he might get mad at me if I decide to continue blogging instead of fucking him good night Readers.

#Everyday2015

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8/7/15

08 Saturday Aug 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Bartending, Everyday

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#Everyday2015, Blog, Busy, Love, Sex

Today is still Friday! I did a couple massages, cooked for the family and pre prepped a dish for a baseball potluck that is tomorrow, fitted gear on football players, participated in opening ceremonies for football, then met our new team and rushed to work at the bar and just got home was a busy day and night. I am about to fuck my husband and that is all!

There it is, a blog for today (8/7/15) since I have not been to bed yet, I work again at the bar at 8am! Good night!

#Everyday2015

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July 3 still, for reals!

04 Saturday Jul 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Do You, Everyday, Family, Love

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Busy, Everyday July, Unorganized, Working on it

Awe FUCK!!! I didn’t make it on before yesterday turn into today and tomorrow is now today…what…. to do this post. Have I told you I have been busy! I need to get my life situated and plan ahead and schedule so I get everything done!!! I am so frustrated and feel like a failure everyday because one thing or another is not done the way I wanted or the way it was “suppose” to be!

Anyway, today was July 3. I stupidly forgot or didn’t realize that the Hubs had the day off so of course I had a full massage day scheduled! I hate working when everyone else in the fam is holiday-ing! Oh well it was a good day.

We are in a camping trailer at the in-laws and as I frantically try to post, before I go to sleep and “today” is officially over, the Hubs is molesting me while I try to type! It is July everyday challenge!! It is tough to do anything because the kids are here too we have to wait for them to fall asleep so they don’t notice the trailer rocking! 😉 they are almost there!

Happy End of Friday (some would call Saturday) but I am on the “this day doesn’t end until I go to sleep” mode. So my #Everyday2015 is still in tack!

Have a great night sleep good!

I was originally going to post Fuck this shit I give up but I wanted to not be so negative, however I came across this photo quote! I like it for today

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#Everyday2015

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Long Day Tired

26 Friday Jun 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Nothing Meaningful

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Busy, Miss My Family, Tired, Working hard

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Long working day started at 9:00am ended when I drove into the driveway at 9:47pm. Then bedtime for the kids. I need to put my feet up and be fed grapes by a handsome man… Oh wait, I just need to put my feet up. 4 massages, then 5+ hours working behind the bar today after 5 hours of sleep last night, it is now 10:16 I am tired have no energy or wisdom for writing. I have a lot to say but no energy. I haven’t seen my family all day I am going to be ‘present’ with them! Good night my peeps tomorrow I will be more inspiring or have more….

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#Everday2015

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