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02 Wednesday Oct 2019

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Adults only, Don't Quit, Hump Day, Hump Day Challenge, No judging

So, it’s been a while since I have been here writing regularly. Life has gotten in the way! It is my hopes I can come back at least once a week from here out but I’m making no promises. Thank you to those readers who are still reading and looking for new stuff from me! I appreciate you!

However, you know what today is right? It’s Wednesday which means Hump Day Challenge Day! I haven’t written in a long time and I feel like I may have lost my groove of being sexy and putting myself out there so I am going to try but please judge me with the eyes that I am a recovering prude (from childhood and it’s resurfacing since 2015) and little girl afraid to be judged! If you are here to judge this prudish scared girl, fuck you and please leave this site, only non judgmental people are allowed. Otherwise if you’re here for fun and excitement free from judgement, read on this will be fun.

The Hubs hasGlass butt plug been wanting me to try something for a while and I have resisted. He has been requesting that I get a glass butt plug. Yes this Ruby Earl is a recovering prude couldn’t get past her old prudish self, “Miss Just Do It and Don’t Judge” “the preacher of just enjoy and have fun, no holding back for fear. Everyone struggles with those thoughts and fears. Ok, maybe it’s just me, we are all adults here, sex is legal and it’s okay to express yourself and love who you love and play with them in a way that makes you and them feel good. I have been trying to break out of that head space for a while and finally after a day of watching football and spending time friends and a few heavily poured drinks the Hubs and I ventured out to the sex store to check out glass toys. As we drove there my mind wondered to glass blown art then I thought and said out loud, “I want a dildo with raised ribs spiraling around it” The Hubs slyly smiled and said “I’m sure they make those” He was proud of me embracing the idea of this. Long story short (shocking) we bought both! Then played when we got home. The temperature, the weight and the spirally ribbing as well as the smooth feeling of the gspiral dildolass were the highlights for me. We played with both, and I have an idea for another challenge for another day but let’s stick to one thing at a time.

What’s nice about glass is that it’s dishwasher safe so you can just pop it in the dishwasher when your done and it will be clean and sanitized for your next use. (Or just use soap and hot water) For real, Glass sex toys don’t shatter if dropped (this was my biggest fear, the material is similar to Pyrex) and they all have a hypoallergenic, non-porous surface; the most hygienic of any material. They have more weight than a standard sex toy boosting sexual pleasure. Glass is really nice there are many options for extra stimulation like the spirally ribbing around the shaft, some even have bumps or dots that also help give a different sensation when inserted. Go ahead give them a try it will not disappoint you.

So the challenge today is to play with a glass toy go out and pick one with your lover or if you know what they would like surprise them with a new one when you come home from work. If you don’t have access to a new glass toy, is to try something new, a new location, a new position or try role playing and talk about what you would do with a glass toy with you partner while you have you nightly sex session. Think of something your partner has been requesting for a while or something you have been curious about. Don’t let you inner prude hold you back and be respectful of theirs. Let go of the previous conceived notions you have, maybe you have been judged in the past or heard a friend or family member talk trash about it or have your own pre-judgements on it. I can tell you from experience it’s worth a try. Give it the old college try, wink wink. Just relax and have sex! That’s what this is about!

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Porn vs Plot

12 Thursday Apr 2018

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Hump Day Challenge, Just Do It, Sex, Sex Love and Washing Clothes

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Hump Day, Hump Day Challenge, Porn, porn and poking, Relax, Sex

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It’s late but we need a Hump Day Challenge. It’s tough because the Hubs is gone right now. I have struggled with Hump Day Challenges lately. Our lives have been busy and the relationship is tough when you feel overwhelmed and stressed and that makes sex tough. When I started this blog it was to capitalize on our great sex to ground our marriage in. But lately the great sex is not coming as easy, our kids are getting older, staying up later (our bedrooms are in a line) they are more interested in what we are doing and they are busy multiple sports competitions and involved in school projects etc. Makes a sex life tricky! So many excuses! So here we go Ruby it’s time to get help. I pulled out my drawer in my night stand and saw my superhotsex deck by Tracey Cox. It’s a deck of cards (flash card size) that have suggestions of sexual session topics. Very interesting and detailed! Use tools like this to spice up your sex life! Don’t be shy get open minded and let down those walls of judgement!

Today I drew randomly and pulled a “lust lessons and fantasies” card titled Porn Versus Plot. I have written a few Porn and Poking Hump Day Challenges so this is the direction we are going to go again. If you have your own pull those out and put them in the DVD or Blue Ray player or whatever device you use. Some people have a subscription to a magazine or website or others use free sites such as Worldsex.com. Pick one a motion picture version. Male fantasies tends to be more direct up close and getting it on very visual focused on the act of sex and the physicalness they usually don’t care what the people look like as long as they see dick and pussy or even up close girl on girl. Women on the other hand usually prefer at least a little bit of plot and romance and pretty people. They want to see a hot guy come up and be romantic watch him licking her pussy and other tantalizing pleasurable fore play actions, where as the men typically gravitate right to the sex.

My challenge to you is to grab your laptop or pull up your videos on the big screen if you prefer, and find your favorite scene. Scrolling through a website works well for this because you have the thumbnails to preview what your clicking on. Watch a few scenes feel free to click away if you land on one that you don’t like. (If your new to porn it will be when you both get warmed up and stop feeling weirded out by this exercise) Choose what you like. If the site you are on has a section for categories it may be easy to pick out one. Each of you pick your favorite category and possibly your favorite video. Note to the opposite partner the videos she/he chooses are what turns her/him on, so take notes on what you see and what you hear for future reference.

My suggestion is you both choose a video once you get enough of each others decide on one, maybe one of the same you chose or pick a new clip to watch and copy what you see or at least start to copy what you see. Maybe he starts going down on her and he goes down on you then you take off on your own sexcapade! The sexual energy you will feel from the movie and each other should be enough to take you through your whole sex session into a very fulfilling orgasm. You may not make it that far you might want to watch a few less warm up videos, use your judgement.

Remember to relax. If something comes up that makes you or your partner uncomfortable, turn it off because it’s not for you. Don’t ever pressure your partner to do or see things that make them uncomfortable! If you like it and your partner is cringing…still, turn it off! Talk about it later but tonight is for you and your partner to have fun and use the fantasy aspect of watching porn and figure out what you like. Maybe you will learn a new technique. Don’t be judgmental, if people in the movie are doing things you don’t like, don’t judge your partner for liking that, maybe they can teach you how to like it so be a little open minded but be honest with each other. Communication is important. Don’t get pissed at your man for getting turned on by two hot girls with one man. Just because he enjoys the fantasy on the screen does not me he is going to to act it out later, nor is she fellas! Trust is important porn can be used as a very good foreplay tool if you let it.

So go have some fun take your time and enjoy each other as you play voyeur and see what you like and play out some of those fantasies in real life!

Go fuck and be merry!

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XXX-Steak and BJ Day!

14 Wednesday Mar 2018

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steak and bj dayToday is the perfect day to get back here to start Hump Day Challenges again. Maybe tomorrow I will post a life update so you all can know where I’ve been and what I am thinking. But today is National Steak and Blow Job Day. Which basically was a male joke gone viral but hey, this is Sex Love and Washing clothes and it’s Wednesday and my sexual creativity lately has been lacking so here we go! Apparently some guys are all bitter over spending money for Valentines Day a month ago so they created this cute ‘holiday’. Ok, I’m down, I’ll play!

Today’s Hump Day Challenge is a Blow Job or Cunnilingus for the ladies. There is no slang for Cunnilingus for the ladies when I hear Blow Job however I think of Cunnilingus as the a blow job too, it is a female version. However I don’t think of cunnilingus as as much of a job as Fellatio… anyway digression! Women can get Blow Jobs too!

Give your lover oral sex! For the sake of this hump day challenge Steak is optional but who wants to miss out on a reason to have steak? Lick, suck and slobber your way to your partners orgasm! Then lay back and allow him to return the favor! Some like raunchy loud and slurpy the louder the dirtier the better. Yet others like to be quiet and pretty but I don’t care just do it and enjoy it! Relax and have fun giving your lover pleasure. Remember this is not just to the Male aspect of Blow Jobs it is to both partners. I am already excited for this one! Go get you some!

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XXX-Shower Sex Detox

18 Wednesday Jan 2017

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balance is good too, Be careful, Hump Day, sex in the shower, Shower Sex, Shower sex is detoxing, takes some agility

shower-hump-dayHello readers! Happy Hump Day. Better late than never right?! Especially since it has been a little bit since I wrote! I am not gone just busy and working on organization! I will get this whole working mom, business owner, wife and blogger thing down if it kills me!

Today’s Hump Day Challenge is inspired by our weather here! It has been pouring down rain! something like 2-3 inches in the last 24-48 hours. We here in the Seattle area get really annoyed and tired of the rain but there is something really detoxifying and cleansing about  water running down your face and flushing the soul. So today’s Hump Day Challenge is to have sex not in the rain (that would be weird but pretty hot so if you want go for it!) but to have sex in the shower. Turn on the water stand close to your lover and feel each others skin on skin. Rub your bodies together like your spouse shoulders then neck and kiss with the water coming down over you. As you make out with your lover under the shower head think of that water as cleansing your relationship flushing out the doldrums of every day life and filling it with fresh love and excitement!

There are steps and cool apparatuses you can buy for foot supports and hand holds go for it check out our A-store link on this page where you can purchase some. I have found that lifting a leg on the side of the tub (if you have a tub in your shower) helps open your pussy up to your lover. He can grab you leg and enter you as he wishes. Make sure you have somewhere to balance and are grounded it is slippery on the shower floor be careful. Keep towels handy so that when it gets hot and heavy you can towel eachother off and climb into bed to finish off. You will love licking the water off your lovers body and you will feel refreshed loved and inspired by your cleansing hot and sexy experience with your lover in the shower!

Be safe and sexy relax and lock the door because you will get clean, refreshed detoxed and filled with love and more with this challenge! Now go take your shower!!

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XXX-Corner of The Couch

05 Thursday Jan 2017

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Break out of your comfort zone, first hump day of 2017, Hump Day, Let Go, relax it's just sex, Sex in your favorite spot, Sexy fun in your favorite spot

Happy First Hump Day of 2017! For today’s Hump Day challenge I want it to be epic for you. Today, pick your favorite spot to fuck your lover. Mine is the corner of the couch. Sometimes we go out and come home the Hubs turns on something sexy on the big screen and then we have great corner of the couch sex. Corner of the couch sex includes amazing oral. He can get to my pussy without having to wrench his neck like he does when we are laying in bed. He can stand up and I can suck his cock without wrenching my neck. Anyway it is our favorite spot to fuck, because it is the best spot to fuck!

If you don’t have a favorite spot to fuck try the corner of your couch. Trade spots have her sitting/reclining in the corner for a bit while you lick her pussy, then trade places he can sit or recline and she can suck your cock, slide forward and she can even get in some ass play on you… the key is to relax and enjoy.

hot_girl_on_couch-t2Good sex is defined as sex that you and your lover (sometimes only one or the other) truly enjoys. And yes I believe if you are freely giving yourself to your lover even if you do not “enjoy” it that it can be considered good sex. You are giving yourself freely to your lover on your own for him or her to have or experience pleasure. That is a kind and generous thing to do. It is not something that can be forced. However, i is your choice don’t ever let anyone be it your lover or not force you to do something you don’t want to. My challenges are intended for free and consenting adults. Please do not use these to guilt your partner into doing something they don’t want to do. That would be rape! Consider yourself very blessed if your partner let’s their guard down enough to break out of their comfort zone and try something new. Please respect your lover, be thankful if it’s one and done enjoy that one time and thank your partner. Return the favor. Let go and enjoy and respect each other!

I still believe good sex can save and rescue relationships go get you some in your favorite spot today!

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All You Need Is a List And a Deck Of Cards

07 Thursday Jul 2016

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Be Bold, Be Creative, Be respectful, Challenge Yourself, Have Fun, Hump Day, Write your list!


Happy Hump Day from vacationing at the beach! Today’s Hump Day Challenge is inspired by playing cards with the fam tonight! It is a sex card game! You could be vanilla and play strip poker but who wants to be vanilla?! If you have a sex card deck grab it out and follow the rules of play. Since we do not have a sex deck here I had to think up (aka Google) ideas or this. 

So, make a list of 10-13 sex acts that you both are up for (or down for however you like to say it). You can both come together with a list of 7-8 each then eliminate 1-2 from each list to end with 13 or so. Each card Ace-10, Jack, Queen and King will have a designated foreplay act, sexual position or sex act. I suggest making he higher card values harder core acts and the lower card values the warm ups. You could even expand you list to inc if you lack ideas make face cards the same. Of you have a long list of sexual ideas or if you want it to be more difficult or play poker or another game with your lover tonight make your list include pairs, straights, flushes and/or other winning hands for various card games.

Ideas can include: places to kiss for example, kiss partners neck. Positions to fuck or make out in, clothing to take off, anything that ranges from foreplay and leads to orgasm.

Have fun and be loose with it. Don’t be a prude and put some edge a little danger in there tonight. Love on your partner and if he or she is going out of their normal comfort zone, acknowledge it, appreciate it and take it slow. Remember they always have  say if they change their.mind don’t ever force yourself in your partner. If you do that particular sex act may be off the table for good or they may never stretch out of their comfort zone again. It will set you back a long ways in being adventurous with your lover! Have fun take it slow but have fun and get a little kinky tonight! All you need is a list of a deck of cards!

Another simple idea is draw a card and pleasure your lover however they choose for the face value of that card for that amount of time! (This is for you lazy folks who won’t get creative and write a list!

Go fuck, it’s Hump Day!!!

#Recommit2016

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XXX-Eat His Man Meat-XXX

29 Wednesday Jun 2016

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Blow Jobs, Hump Day, Man Meat, Sex Days

Happy Hump Day Friends. With the risk being repetitive to last week, kind of, today’s post is inspired by the fact that the Hubs made dinner tonight. He smoked a flank steak! (It was beautiful and yummy, just like his man meat.) He posted a photo of it on social media and his buddy started a thread of comments about how everyone loves the Hub’s meat in their mouth. It was hilarious BTW


Okay so today’s Challenge is to put his meat in your mouth! Massage  and stretch out that jaw muscle and open your mouth and put his cock in your mouth. Enjoy it. The smooth hardness of it. Work your tongue around the shaft of his cock. Do you love the way his cock feels on your tongue? I am a big fan. My jaw however does needs breaks. Lick his cock like a popsicle. A meat popsicle 😉 then suck the tip of it and play with it with your tongue! Keep.going and work it.into whatever else you like. Enjoy that meat muscle until it melts in your mouth! 

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XXX-Toy Time

13 Wednesday Apr 2016

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What’s your favorite toy? No, not that kind of you, this is Hump Day! What did you think I was talking about? The reason I ask is, well, it’s Hump Day and a Challenge is necessary!  Today’s Challenge is a toy challenge. So, what is your favorite toy?

Is it a vibrator? A cock ring? or a remote control vibrating bullet? Where do you keep it? Mine is in the top drawer of my night stand (I am going to need to find a new place for that as the kids get bigger and more freedom and such, but I digress). Get your favorite toy out and put it on your partner’s pillow. Try to take him/her to bed earlier than normal and let the toy on the pillow be a subtle/bit so subtle hint that you want to play with toys tonight.

Chime in with your favorite toy… Mine is my Sparkly butt plug and then my Vibrator that had rotating pearls and and swiveling shaft runs a close second maybe I will grab out both! Anyway. Play with your toy for you partner in yourself or pleasure your partner with said toy or give it to him to pleasure you with it… Maybe try some DP with it. If it vibrates vibrate it up on his balls too. How does it feel on your nipples? Guys like watching you put a big dildo in your mouth… Just sayin’

So get the toys out and play like frat boys on pledge week!!!

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