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Porn vs Plot

12 Thursday Apr 2018

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Hump Day, Hump Day Challenge, Porn, porn and poking, Relax, Sex

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It’s late but we need a Hump Day Challenge. It’s tough because the Hubs is gone right now. I have struggled with Hump Day Challenges lately. Our lives have been busy and the relationship is tough when you feel overwhelmed and stressed and that makes sex tough. When I started this blog it was to capitalize on our great sex to ground our marriage in. But lately the great sex is not coming as easy, our kids are getting older, staying up later (our bedrooms are in a line) they are more interested in what we are doing and they are busy multiple sports competitions and involved in school projects etc. Makes a sex life tricky! So many excuses! So here we go Ruby it’s time to get help. I pulled out my drawer in my night stand and saw my superhotsex deck by Tracey Cox. It’s a deck of cards (flash card size) that have suggestions of sexual session topics. Very interesting and detailed! Use tools like this to spice up your sex life! Don’t be shy get open minded and let down those walls of judgement!

Today I drew randomly and pulled a “lust lessons and fantasies” card titled Porn Versus Plot. I have written a few Porn and Poking Hump Day Challenges so this is the direction we are going to go again. If you have your own pull those out and put them in the DVD or Blue Ray player or whatever device you use. Some people have a subscription to a magazine or website or others use free sites such as Worldsex.com. Pick one a motion picture version. Male fantasies tends to be more direct up close and getting it on very visual focused on the act of sex and the physicalness they usually don’t care what the people look like as long as they see dick and pussy or even up close girl on girl. Women on the other hand usually prefer at least a little bit of plot and romance and pretty people. They want to see a hot guy come up and be romantic watch him licking her pussy and other tantalizing pleasurable fore play actions, where as the men typically gravitate right to the sex.

My challenge to you is to grab your laptop or pull up your videos on the big screen if you prefer, and find your favorite scene. Scrolling through a website works well for this because you have the thumbnails to preview what your clicking on. Watch a few scenes feel free to click away if you land on one that you don’t like. (If your new to porn it will be when you both get warmed up and stop feeling weirded out by this exercise) Choose what you like. If the site you are on has a section for categories it may be easy to pick out one. Each of you pick your favorite category and possibly your favorite video. Note to the opposite partner the videos she/he chooses are what turns her/him on, so take notes on what you see and what you hear for future reference.

My suggestion is you both choose a video once you get enough of each others decide on one, maybe one of the same you chose or pick a new clip to watch and copy what you see or at least start to copy what you see. Maybe he starts going down on her and he goes down on you then you take off on your own sexcapade! The sexual energy you will feel from the movie and each other should be enough to take you through your whole sex session into a very fulfilling orgasm. You may not make it that far you might want to watch a few less warm up videos, use your judgement.

Remember to relax. If something comes up that makes you or your partner uncomfortable, turn it off because it’s not for you. Don’t ever pressure your partner to do or see things that make them uncomfortable! If you like it and your partner is cringing…still, turn it off! Talk about it later but tonight is for you and your partner to have fun and use the fantasy aspect of watching porn and figure out what you like. Maybe you will learn a new technique. Don’t be judgmental, if people in the movie are doing things you don’t like, don’t judge your partner for liking that, maybe they can teach you how to like it so be a little open minded but be honest with each other. Communication is important. Don’t get pissed at your man for getting turned on by two hot girls with one man. Just because he enjoys the fantasy on the screen does not me he is going to to act it out later, nor is she fellas! Trust is important porn can be used as a very good foreplay tool if you let it.

So go have some fun take your time and enjoy each other as you play voyeur and see what you like and play out some of those fantasies in real life!

Go fuck and be merry!

#HumpDayChallenge2018

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28 Wednesday Sep 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Do Your Thing, Hump Day Challenge, Lock your door!, Relax, Sex, XXX

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Explore Sex, Flexible, Have more sex, Relax, Sex Keeps Relationships Together, Vampire Kiss

Happy Hump Day! Today’s Hump Day Challenge follows the number of today. Today’s number is 273 and our Hump Day Challenge is coming from the book 365 Sex Moves (There is a link to purchase this book in the Sex Love and Washing Clothes Amazon store link on this page) by Randi Foxx. Day 273 is Dracula’s Kiss and it requires some props (how fun!) So grab some cuffs they will be for her feet and then grab your feathered riding crop (or something similar maybe a scarf to tie up her feet and a ruler if you don’t have a riding crop) and get ready. Have I mentioned how amazing these photos are in this book?
With the woman stretched out on her stomach with her feet cuffed or tied together the man straddles her upper thighs and enters her from behind. He gently uses his riding crop to coax her throat upward so he can kiss and nible on her neck and throat like a vampire.

Feel free to use your imagination add in some whipping if she is naughty. Ladies arch your back it’s all sexy for him and accentuates your curves. Then reach back to caress the back of his neck while he kisses you. Remember your feet will be cuffed not your hands so explore what you can do…maybe you can grab the riding crop and use it on him. Bend your knees up to hold his hips in place or press them in deeper as he penetrates you. As you flow through this sex session explore the fun and teasing as well as the different positions you can try and interesting things you can do and maybe not do as your feet are cuffed.

As always be creative, be patient and go at your lovers pace. Don’t push them into something they are not comfortable with. Being tied up, spankings and/or entering from behind can always give some a little anxiety. Encourage her she is in control. Tell him what your limits are and respect each other. See if this is something you will continue to include to keep things interesting or if it’s just a one night thing. Either way be brave love with you everything and relax and explore sex tonight.

#Exploresex2016

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13 Wednesday Jul 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Hump Day Challenge, Sex, XXX

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Dare him to do your favorite, Dare to have fun, Enjoy, Love, Relax, Respect, Sex

sexy-truth-dare-lHappy Hump Day! Today’s hump day challenged inspired by the Hubs’ (slightly annoying) game he likes to play to spice things up in bed every now and then, Truth or Dare! Today your challenge is to play Truth or Dare with your lover. If you want to get crazy and dirty do it in a group of adult friends who are also lovers. I am not a huge fan of Truth or Dare during sex because it takes way too much thinking. I enjoy the game and I enjoy to spice that it brings to our love life and our nights that we include truth or dare in our sex sessions and love making. I have a hard time thinking up fun spicy questions and dares so my goal for this post is to offer a couple suggestions to take out the thinking part. I am going to enlist the help of the Hubs also he is sitting next to me and usually drives the truth or dare sessions.

Truth:

What is your favorite sexual sensation to experience?

What is you favorite way to pleasure your partner?

What is your favorite body part to enjoy naked?

Describe your favorite time we had sex.

When is the last time you woke up and didn’t know if we had sex last night?

Dare:

Dare them to perform their favorite way they like to pleasure you.

Dare them to give you their favorite sexual sensation or your favorite.

Dare to try a new position

Dare them to not use hands for 5 minutes.

Dare them to fuck you like and animal!

(Also you can use that little electronic tool Google or Bing to research some Truth or Dare Questions and Dares.) A fun way to do it is to have some pre written Truth questions and Dares on individual slips of paper, put in two hats and draw from the Truth or Dare hat(whichever your partner chooses). This will also take out that thinking phase of it.

Ok, there you have a few suggestions take and run with them on your own. You know your partner get specific. Please, though, respect your partners boundaries and don’t push them further just for the sake of a game or Hump Day Challenge. Never push your partner further than they are willing to go. With that said relax, it’s just sex try to put the predetermined issues of weirdness or taboo aside as much as possible. Enjoy this day and enjoy stretching your sexual experiences and enjoy the time and enjoy the new and different or rarely experienced sexual sensations that you will get to experience. Remind yourself of the things you don’t do for your partner very often.

Enjoy tonight and be confident in your bed tonight and dare to have fun!

#Recommit2016

 

 

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06 Wednesday Apr 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Be You, Hump Day Challenge, Lock your door!, Sex, XXX

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Anything Goes, Have Fun, Lock your door!, loud sex, Relax, Sex with no kids home, wild sex

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Today’s Hump Day Challenge is brought to you by mynkids being on Spring Break and heading to Grandma’s tonight! I have to admit the Hubs and I have been tired and both falling asleep while watching TV so that leaves not a whole lot of fun fantasies going on in the bedroom! But tonight is going to start rituals of loud crazy College Spring Break-ess type sex!

Here are a few ideas…if your kids don’t go away to Grandma’s for multiple days, here are a few tips: 1) Lock your door, if it doesn’t have a lock figure something out like a doorstop on the inside that will hold it closed of one little footed human tries to open it. 2) Be quiet or try turning the TV on to cover the noises you may be making. And 3) put them to bed extra early, try doing some sort of adventure that will tire them out or just make an early bedtime rule for one day! Or 4) Find a friend that they can sleepover with. Maybe talk with the parents and see if you can trade one night at your house for one night at theirs!
So here is the challenge, be crazy sex crazed kids! Remember in High school when you thought you man’s ass was cuter than everyone else and you told every one of your girlfriend’s? Do that again. Even with the kids (if they are old enough to understand and not be inappropriate about it), embarrass them a bit. It will rile those sexual flirty feelings with your hubby. When she washes dishes come behind her and grab her ass! Basically flirt like you’ve been at the beach all day with a fruity umbrella drink. Playfulness and flirtation makes the hormones come to the surface and flourish into great sexual energy comes from that!

When you are ready to go the next level from flirting to fore play smile and interact talk about how fun it is to be sexual with eachother. Laugh makes jokes sneak around like you are avoiding getting caught…go to a lookout location that you can make out in the car and then maybe even go further.

Be loud when he is licking you! “Oh baby I love it when you lick my pussy like that” grab his head and grind in his face. Fellas, sorry but ladies don’t usually like itbwhen you grab their head while she is going down but be verbal. Use your words!!! Be loud and appreciative!  Wake the neighbors! Let loose with wreck less abandon! Fuck like you are 21 again!

Spring break is for crazy sexual fun, because the kids go to Grandma’s (well, in my family anyway) When the kids are away be sexy and crazy and get loud walk around naked and have sex in every room!!!

Fuck like you are a college kid on spring break!

#Recommit2016

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30 Wednesday Dec 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Hump Day Challenge, Uncategorized, XXX

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don't be scared, Enjoy, Hump Day Challenge, Njoy, Play with his butt, Relax, Sex, XXX

Ok, so I teased it yesterday! Today’s Hump Day Challenge is to give your man a prostate orgasm. I have little knowledge on the subject and although I have participated in a bit of anal play on the Hubs I still don’t do it often but he likes it when I do and he wants to try more. He might be more into than me. I have a bit of a weirdness feeling around it. Nothing homophobic but a little just gross-ish. Boy’s butts are hairy (I get mine waxed so maybe girls are normally too) but I am willing to try on this last week of 2015 Hump Day Challenge.

man buttWhat I want to try most is to get a strap on but we don’t have time for that tonight though. So I will chat with the hubs and see what he is up for… I have tackled anal you would think I would be more ready for this. Any way I have researched a bit (today was a bit of a BS day with lots of crappy things that distratcted me from writing until right now (20 minutes before we are supposed to head out for date night. Here is a link to an article with 5 tips.  That I think are good info to get us started.

 http://www.alternet.org/sex-amp-relationships/5-steps-achieving-amazing-prostate-assisted-orgasm

The bottom line is communicate. Use lots of lube Joe premium is our fave (you can get it in The Sex Love and Washing Clothes Amazon store link above) for Anal when he is penetrating me so I am guessing that is the choice he would make for him. My problem is I have small fingers I don’t know if they can get in far enough, I wonder if my Njoy butt plug (also available in the A-store) be nice for him and stimulate the way it needs to. I would love to give him multiple orgasms! I am kind of excited in an experimental way not really erotic or turned on yet. But searching for a photo to place with this post helped with that.

Go have fun with your man ladies. They probably will like us taking charge and when we accomplish this on him, he will get that glimps of what it’s like to be us when we have those long drawn out G-spot orgasms! And when they give us multiples. Favorite thing I learned in this article:

Apart from the intensity, the most appreciated aspect of prostate-assisted orgasms has to be that they allow for multiple orgasms (no more female envy!). With prostate-assisted orgasms, many men will experience “dry orgasm” meaning they don’t ejaculate. Ejaculation needs a refractory period; orgasm does not.

There you have it your last Hump Day Challenge of 2015. Something completely new and adventurous! Go get you some. Leave your worries and judgements behind and enjoy this kind of sex!

#Everyday2015

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09 Wednesday Dec 2015

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Fuck Slowly, Fuck Softly, Hard and Fast, Lovers Only, Relax, Relax her, Sexual Massage

It’s Hump Day and you know what that means Hump Day Challenge Day! Now, today, I I have a headache so this is a bit selfishly motivated. Today’s challenge is Sensual Massage.

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Get some sort of lubrication, it can her favorite Bath and Body Works Lotion or  Coconut or Olive Oil. I like Olive Oil or Sunflower Oil is what I use in my massage practice. Lay her down and oil her up. Use your whole flat hand. Even if you have rough hands the oil will help to soften and I bet she will love feeling your hands in her body. Pay special attention to her tense spits that she complains about but also to her sexy zones. You like her breasts and pussy, so play with them but try to remember what she likes. Find her turn on buttons but don’t race there! Give her time to relax and calm down from the stresses of the day.

As you get her relaxed and zero in on the sexy time slowly lean in and kiss her body gently. Kiss softly on her neck and nibble her ears and don’t forget the nipples! As you begin tobget you bodies close and have sex notice how it feels with her body all lubed up with oil and your skin slides around on eachother. It is a sexy smooth feeling.

If she is feeling fiesty she may rub up against you and lube up your body too! Have fun enjoy giving your lover a massage and relaxing her. It is a very powerful and fulfilling feeling to make some one feel better. Don’t worry too much about you technique it is all about intention. You start off trying to help her relax and then it changes to making love! 

Kiss soflty, Fuck softly and gently. Make love and as you get into it go harder and faster until you love erupts ona loud and strong giant Orgasm!

Sensual Massage…with a happy ending for your lover! Enjoy!

#Everyday2015

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The Last 2015 Pee Wee Saturday!

21 Saturday Nov 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Connection, Do Your Thing, Family, Football, Seahawks, Sex, Volunteering

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Breast Cancer, Fundraising, Go Fund Me, Hope4Melisa, never stop reaching out ad helping others when you can, Relax, Saturday night, Seahawk's voice, volunteer

Happy Saturday! Today was a day of volunteering for Football stuff. It was gear check in today! A bittersweet day. An end to a fun season but a tough one! Now there is a lot more work to do but for some reason it seems that the gear is more organized than usual! This is my 3rd year as equipment manager so I am getting a better flow and feel for how things need to and can be done.

Next step is to recondition Helmets and inventory pants, shoulder pads, and helmets when they come back from reconditioning. I am planning a productive off season so I won’t have so much work leading up to hear check out that will be July 30, 2016. Lot’s of work but I am finally feeling like I kind of know what I am doing!

But

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for now tonight is time to relax and unwind. We have a fundraiser that we are attending supporting a friend of a friend who is battling breast cancer. Our PeeWee team raised $145 during October to help support this local lady! If you feel so lead they have a Go Fund Me Account https://www.gofundmofcom/Hope4Melisa go support.

Have awesome Saturday! I think I will take advantage of a kid free house and be loud with the Hubs tonight! Looking forward to some ore Seahawk’s game love making!

#Everday2015

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There is Always Time for Friends in a Saturday Night

07 Saturday Nov 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Baseball, Be You

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Be Honest, Have Fun, No Excuses, Relax

Oops forgot to blog earlier! We are out with a bunch of friends. One of my bestie’s is back in town for tonight and we are hanging out. Some of our other besties are being lame and making excuses for not coming out. FYI folks, don’t lie or make excuses to your friends. If your not feeling it just say so. You don’t need to tell me your bath tub is leaking into your kids bedroom and now is the time to deal with it at 9:00 on a Saturday night. Promise we would like to know you just don’t feel social vs you making lame excuses. Turn off the water and come hang out and deal with itin the morning in the mean time we are going to spam you with photos like this:

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Going to hang with the crew!

#Everyday2015

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Saturday Nap Day

15 Saturday Aug 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in #GoHawks, Friends, Nappping, Reboot

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Friends, Fun, Reboot, Relax

Happy Saturday! It is nap time here at the Earl House. Well one of us is napping two are watching Disney Channel and one is pseudo working… take a guess who? I need to get football gear order submitted for Jerseys. I am afraid I am going to miss someone, write someone’s name wrong on the back and have no way to fix it at all since it is coming from back east! But I just have to get it done! This is a stressful job and when I decided to save the league money by doing it this way I didn’t realize the extra stress and work load that I would be affected by. But it is for the kids and it will be much better in the end! …I hope!

Like I said it is nap time here. The Hub’s is installing Windows 10 on our home PC and 10259903_794316270588938_1979588331700485692_nnapping at the same time. I snoozed a bit but woke up and can’t go back to sleep so I figured it was a good time to blog here.

So the Seahawks game was fun last night but, they have some work to do. Which really is what you learn most first preseason games! I trust the coaching staff and the team that they will get back to work and come out on top this year. After the game the Hub’s and I stopped at our favorite watering hole in town and just hung out. We had a great time until the end of the night, a drunk fight broke out and the Hub’s had to step in a break things up. Stupid people! Then the guy resisted the police when they tried to arrest him, boy he probably did not have a great night! So the Hub’s and I were spun up at 2am so we got home weren’t tired and had a good time sans clothes and made the most of our adrenaline rush… which is why we are so tired right now, but oh it was a sexy night for sure!

Tonight we are planning on going to a “Glow Party” which should be fun. It is a charity event at the bar I work at. I like it when the others come out to support events I plan and work so I am going to be a team player have a few drinks and see what a glow party is all about. Should be fun and exciting! Although we just got a text from a friend about what are we doing tonight an invite from friends may change my “loyalty to my bar’s event” although we will check it out at some point regardless! Time to get back to napping on this Saturday afternoon!

#Everyday2015

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Time to Unwind

08 Saturday Aug 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Bartending, Be Present, Family, Live in the Moment, Love, Reboot

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Relax, Unwind with your love

Happy Saturday! I worked at the bar today, the weekend day person is on vacation. I worked until 3 then took the boy to All-Star baseball team Potluck. Then after that we are done! I have no schedule from now until Monday.

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Hallelujah!!! I need a break! I think the Hubs and I are going out to relax or just going to take the kids to Grandma’s and come home and sleep (after we fuck of course!) Then Monday morning I have to start it all over again! Busy busy busy. After Wednesday I am hoping to have a relief of work being completed for PeeWees!

But tonight time to relax! Don’t know if we will Karaoke, drink, find a patio fire somewhere or just come home to our couch.

But it’s time to relax!

#Everyday2015

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