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Vacation for Me talk Health

18 Monday May 2020

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mental health, Self Care, Vacation?, wellness

Happy Monday SLWC-ers! This post is coming to you from our rented Hertz Hendrick SS Camaro. The Hubs and I are road tripping to visit a friend today. We took our family on vacation to see their Grandparents and we have friends who live a few hours away. Everytime we come to the in-laws we always consider this road trip but have never done it. Since we’re all in quarantine and can’t do much anyway we figured this is the best trip to road trip it.

What I have noticed about this vacation so far is that I really needed it. It is no secret I have not been doing well with this whole quaratine thing! I am surrounded by people who I don’t feel really understand what I am lacking and why I am so off kilter. When you go from seeing and connecting with people everyday to only seeing your family it affects you, and for me it has been a negative affect. For some it has been super positive, they are living their best life and are dreading going back to “normal” that’s just not me. We are all trying to figure out how to manage I this new circumstance and in reality maybe they do understand and I don’t understand them? Or we don’t know how to communicate this right now. What I do know is that they love me and I love them and I am going to work to bridge this gap as I believe it exists in a lot of places I. Our world right now. The word is acceptance, of others and ourselves. As well as acceptance of not knowing or understanding and not being okay.

Moral of the story today is that I want to encourage you to live your best life. First, take a step back and figure out what you need. That is way easier said than done, but it is essential! I kind of needed this shut down in a way, I was burnt out and I needed a reset. I needed time to slow down and figure out what I needed. I need connection. For me I get connection from human contact and human touch. I kind of suck at text message or phone call relationships be it business or personal, it is hard for me to not see touch or feel a person’s presence. I need touch and eye contact. I feel whole with connection and that connection is not made without touch. I have seen friends and we do the nod, or wave and it pains me to not connect with a hug or hand shake. So I have learned I need touch.

Second, make sure the ones you love know what it is you need. If you need touch or eye contact, to hear their voice or be in the same place (6 feet apart of you have to) tell them! It took me over a month of the stay at home order to figure out why I was going so crazy. It hit me one day that I am so used to being so intimate and connected to people, even in the professional level of therapeutic massage, that my whole life relies on that. There have been multiple studies on this but if you work with inadamant objects like computers or refrigerators you may not understand half of what people who normal work with people are missing in life in the stay at home order. My point here in this paragraph started as tell those around about this so they understand where you are coming from.

Your people need to know that you know what you need. I want to tell you, it’s okay if it’s not what your partner or rest of your family needs and it makes communication even more important. I still struggle with this. I know I need human connection but how do I tell my family and how do I get that when we are in quaratine and social distancing orders? And when I say that and they look at me like I’m speaking Greek how do I explain more? The answer is, you don’t. Stop trying to justify yourself. So instead of explaining and justifying to those around you that you think don’t understand you, accept yourself. It’s okay if they do t understand,now they know what you need. Tell them what you need and leave it at that. I need human connection. I need hugs and hand shakes. I need face to face in person connection with people. I thrive at being the highlight of a person’s day, which is why I became a Massage Therapist. It feeds my sole to help someone get out of pain and be able to manage their life better with less pain. These are my why’s of doing my job. I have accepted that and it’s my job to be sure to make that happen in my life. That is part of me taking care of me. The tough part is for the last 8 weeks, I haven’t been able to do that.

Taking this vacation was so much needed for me. I needed to get out of my head where I was upset with myself for not feeling good enough for not being able to feel good. I have struggled, why isn’t this life good enough? Our family is blessed that The Hubs still has his job and we have been able to save money not going out that all our bills are paid and we have even put money away in savings during this time. We are blessed so many people are so much in a harder place. So why am I struggle so hard? Stop judging yourself! Human connection is a real need. I’m not getting as much as I was before and that’s the missing link. Taking this vacation I have been better able to stop judging myself and stop hating on myself. I’m not killing my side hustle sales business and the house is not spotless and I’m not a steller homeschooler, I don’t even know if my kids are really doing school some days. On vacation, here, I have been able to let that shit go! I have been able to look at my kids who are healthy and young who should be enjoying life as much as learning. They will never get this young age back again. They should be seeing their mom take care of herself in a way that she wants them to take care of themselves when they grow up. That’s my job right now. With this vacation I have been able to reset myself. Kind of hit the reboot for my brain. To look at what’s important and guess what ( sorry for saying this Hubs) chores being done, dinner on the perfectly set table, kids studiously learning and not fighting, everything in its place, is not really the most important. The most important thing is what’s going on in our heads. Do we love ourselves? Do we love what we have? Are we appreciating eachother? Are we taking care of what we need in our own lives? Are we allowing the ones around us to do the same? That is what is important!

So, forget the fucking dishes, go to bed early and fuck like bunnies. Teach the kids life lessons like how to change the oil in your car or change a tire when you can’t figure out how to help with math. Do something you all enjoy and enjoy each othermaybe take a walk.

Manage your me talk health. Exercise is the most underused medication for mental health. Mental health is just that how well are we mentally? Can we handle our emotions? Me talk health isn’t always being happy,it is handling life when we are sad or frustrated or not getting everything we want or need and knowing how to go about making it right. Talk about your feelings,good and bad they are all okay there are healthy ways to ha dle all of our emotions!

It’s the people that matter in life most of all the person who you are ultimately responsible is you. Make your self happy and you will see the world opens up! Take a vacation if you can it’s easier to see yourself.

#MentalHealth2020

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We Made It To The Beach

05 Tuesday Jul 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Family, Love, Reboot

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Camping, Family time, Love, Vacation?


Well we made it to the beach! We got off to a late start leaving the house (surprise surprise) then as we stopped for lunch and for cash at the bank The Hubs heard air coming from the tires. Earlier this season he had flat tires one morning when him and The Boy were on a trip for baseball. So we knew it had to be addressed. We did not want to have a blow out or flat on the side of the road so we stopped by Les Schwab and took care of he tires. Nothing $600 wouldn’t fix! 
Luckily we were close to a Wetlands area that has hiking trails and board walks that we took advantage of and went for a 3.5 mile walk around the wetlands. Then we were on our way a couple hours later it only took is about 7 hours to get here and usually takes 1.5-2.

We were met by our neighbor camper who was on his second ‘Margameeta’ he liked watching us set up because we were a young couple and young couples always have cool gadgets! I think it will be a fun week of camping. I love the waves and the sound of the ocean. Can’t wait for our typical yoga and kite flying sessions out on the beach tomorrow!

I love vacation!

#Recommit2016

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Vacation Starts Now!

01 Friday Jul 2016

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Do Your Thing

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Run before they make me come back to work!, Vacation?

We have baseball this weekend and don’t actually leave u til Tuesday but we are officially on vacation!!! Heading to the ocean in a couple days! There is just something about that “vacation” feeling! First thing I did when I got home is crack open a Mike’s Hard Lime last thing I’m going to do tonight is The Hub’s hard cock.

Ruby out!

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We Have Landed

26 Saturday Dec 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Live in the Moment, Reboot, Relax

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Christmas Joy, Christmas Spirit, I love Christmas!, Live In The Moment, Vacation?

Well, we have arrived home on Christmas Night. Before we left California we had a nice-ish Christmas dinner (The Hubs normally make prime rib and that is the bomb so that is the reason for the ‘ish’). The flight was fine but The Girls suitcase did not make it down the ramp to baggage claim. So hopefully it will be delivered unharmed tomorrow but if not then we will have to buy her a new wardrobe. I helped pack her  suit case with the extra  stuff she didn’t know she needed. Oh well a shopping trip is in order. There actually are new boots for her under the tree from her Auntie.

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My heart is happy. I hope yours is too. If your kids opened gifts and gave you a warm fuzzy feeling I hope it lasts longer than the toys work and get played with and longer than the new clothes fit. I am so grateful that we had the opportunity to take the kids to Disneyland for this Christmas! We made memories that will last a lifetime! Christmas is about drawing back to your family. Whatever accomplishes that for you..a church service, gifts or a trip, I say do and do it big! Hug your kids and your parents hard and long. Kiss your partner or spouse and fuck hard and long! Take this moment to reflect and be in it! Live and love to the fullest. Say I love you, out loud, to your family. If you traveled get home safe and take these moments with you and savor these memories!

I look forward to my own bed and pillow and my husband naked beside me and inside me. (Leave it to me to make a sappy Inspirational post about sex.) Merry Christmas everyone!

#Everyday2015

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Magic of Disneyland

25 Friday Dec 2015

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Disneyland, fun with family, Love, Love my family, Magic of Disneyland, Merry Christmas, Peace, Vacation?

It is Christmas Eve! Today was our last day in the Disney Parks! {Sad face} we had a blast. It was very memorable. We celebrated Christmas and family and fun together! It was amazing I loved every minute of it. Now, today there were a few more tension filled moments due to lack of sleep and tiredness and lack of proper nutrition and eating habits. But, it was still amazing.

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I am so happy we decided to do this trip with the family. I may regret not taking more photos at the perfect photo op stations like the entrance to Disneyland, you know where Mickey’s head is designed in the flowers as you come through the gates. But of that is the only regret I am flying high. I loved how the Hubs just ran with the flow of the last few days! He was the guy I fell in love with! Amazing what the non stress of vacation will do for us!

I can’t say enough of how happy I am with my little family. It does not feel like Christmas Eve tongiht but I have so much love bubbling over it is okay with me. I love Christmas and I believe we got the true meaning of “Christmas” right here. Connecting with each other and just being in the moment to enjoy each other! Gift and presents under the tree don’t bring what we got this week! I am going to bed not waiting or expecting Santa tonight. I am going to bed smiling because what matters is family and love and we have that, we always have we just had to step back and see it and for this I thank the magic of Disneyland!

Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night!

#Everyday2015

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It Was a Perfect Day!

23 Wednesday Dec 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Family, Live in the Moment, Love, Reboot

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Christmas Vacation, Disneyland, Family, Fun, Love, Perfect Day, Perfection, Vacation?

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Today was our first day in Disneyland of our Christmas Vacation! We had so much fun! It did rain but hey, we are from Western Washington we are used to the rain! We rode Splash Mountain early and I took the front seat and proceeded tobget my pants soaked! They just got somewhat dry the pockets and seems are still damp! We we there from about 7:30a to 11:30p. We rode Star Tours, Space Mountain, The Matterhorn, Big Thunder Mountain, Pirates of the Caribbean and Indiana Jones twice!

The longest wait was at the Matterhorn a total of 1 hour and that included about 15 minutes for a shut down for a quick repair. While there we spoke with the head Maintenance guy. He told us silly jokes and then after he gave us VIP access to skip the line for Peter Pan and then gave us a front the line pass for anything ride we wanted. It was so sweet what a nice guy he was, Thanks to Jeff!

We had a great day! Loved it all. The kids did awesome! They were well behaved enjoyed themselves, didn’t fight too much. The Hubs really was amazing too! I love it when we can just go with the flow and really be in the moment! Loved it!!!

One of the best Christmas’s ever!

#Everyday2015

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We Have Arrived!!

21 Monday Dec 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Be Present, Family, Kids, Live in the Moment, Love, Raising Kids

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Christmas Vacation, Disneyland, Family, Kids, Lies vs Secrets of Surprise, Surprise, Trust, Vacation?

We are at Disneyland!!!! We woke the kids up at 2am to get them ready to get on an airplane. They were still not sure they were really going we fibbed quite a lot recently to cover our surprise, which made the kids question our sincerity of our story that we were actually going to Disneyland. Today after we got to Cali, we went to Downtown Disney atr at ESPN Zone (YUM!) and watch the new Star Wars movie. I had a hard time not falling asleep during the movie, not because of the movie but just because of my lack of sleep lately. The movie was good.

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Tomorrow we head into Disneyland the actual park! I am excited. I am trying push through the annoyance of being in close quarters with the in laws and the way our kids act with Gma around. Who’s kids are these anyway?! I am determined, despite that drama in my head, we will have fun. I just need to remind myself of the fact that it is not a competition for the children’s love… It is about fun and making memories!

It is time to stop and smell the roses…or stop and admire the sparkles and the decorations and the smells and memories! I have high hopes for this trip I need to just take it and enjoy whatever happens!

I love my family!

#Everyday2015

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Almost Christmas Time

20 Sunday Dec 2015

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Christmas Surprise, Disneyland, Family Vacation!, Vacation?

Seahawks won today’s game! It was a good game. The kids went to their Great Grandma’s house. As we got their age says, “so, have you figured out where you’re going?” They didn’t know they were going anywhere!!!! Leave it to Grandma Great to ruin a good surprise. She is a bit flaky these days, obviously.

Anyway, I have gotten about 6 hours of sleep the last two nights. I am tired. We had a fun full day of football and tonight staying at Grandma Great’s tonight. She lives much closer to the airport than us. We will be waking up at 2am to head to the airport. The kids don’t know for sure what’s up. We are waking them up and going to Disneyland! Getting on a plane and flying there I am so excited but very tired so I am going to make this short!

I plan to video the kids’ reaction to getting up and the news that they’re going to Disneyland! They are not just staying here like they thought. It should be a good surprise! I for one am very excited! But I need to go to bed!

Good night readers, and Merry Christmas!

#Everyday2015

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Feels Like Christmas Eve

19 Saturday Dec 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Cleaning, Family, Love Your Kids, Seahawks

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Get Ready, Preparation, Procrastination is my specialty!, Surprise, Vacation?

Up till 5am last night. Now we are trying tobget the kids packed to go to Grandma’s for 5 days and get ready for a secret trip that they don’t know about for Christmas. We still need to pack, wrap Christmas presents that should be been do e already bit you know me… I am super tired.

We have a Seahawk’s game tomorrow. We will leave here early like at 7am which means get up at 5:30 or 6am! Drive around to the kids’ Great Grandparents then head to the game. Come back to grandparents out kids to bed at an early bedtime and then wake the up at 2am to tell them their surprise!

I am so excited I can hardly take it! I have almost blown it a few times today, the Hubs too! It has been a bit tough getting the kids to seriously pack. Their Grandma’s always have extra of everything…

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I have so much to I don’t have time to write too much. I am surviving this evening on a Rockstar and shipping on a Sin-namon Roll Drink (Sinfire and Vanilla Cream Soda). We got invited to a party but will be staying home because we need to do as I stated above Clean Wrap and Pack. And have time to have sex because did I mention we are staying with the In-laws on our trip in their RV.

It feels slightly like Christmas Eve which is when we usually wrap gifts and clean. So Merry Christmas everyone! And to All a good night!

#Everyday2015

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The Ocean..my happy calming place

26 Sunday Jul 2015

Posted by Sex Love and Washing Clothes in Connection, Family, Reboot

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Calming, Family, Happy, Ocean, Vacation?, waves

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Those are my toes in the sand! Yes, that’s right my vacation is at the Ocean! I love hearing the waves watching the water roll in and the waves crash as the tide is coming in (or going out). I love watching The Boy run and dig for clams (even though they are out of season and I told him not to) I love seeing The Girl checking out the shells and things she finds in the sand. I love watching The Hubs playing in the water and waves just like a kids he is like me, calm around the ocean we both love the water. It is our happy place. I love looking out on the horizon and seeing just water and waves. Even on a cloudy gray day it is so calming and relaxing. I feel so close to God and so spiritual at the beach.

Not to mention the time with the family! We are camping here in our trailer. We eat together and even clean up after meals together. We play cribbage or cards we don’t do this stuff at home, we could but don’t! I just love our Ocean camping trip vacations! Away from all the bullshit of work and house and bills and life in general (at least for a bit).

Everyone needs a vacation like this, even if just for a weekend, we only have 5 days…actually 4. A vacation to be close to your family at a place you can close your eyes and feel your mind and body relaxing with every breath that you breathe in!

Going back to my family!

#Everyday2015

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