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24 Wednesday Jan 2018

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oral sexHappy Hump Day! Today’s Hump Day Challenge kind of pairs with last week. Last week it was all about the boys, this week it is all about the girls. Lets start with getting a manicure. Go to the nail shop, there they will not only file and trim your nails but soak your hands and soften the skin on your hands to be smooth as silk. When your lady gets ready you are going to give her the lick of her life.

When you go down on her as your face closes in on her pussy, consciously breathe out while approaching her luscious lips to lick. That will draw her brain’s attention down there and she will just notice that something amazing is about to happen. Softly start kissing and licking her outer labia, work your tongue in between her luscious lips and find her clit. Play with that for a bit, you will feel it firm up, if it hasn’t already. Feel free to add some humming or moaning as you go along. The vibration will add yet another level of stimulation. As she is getting going and to add even more sexual stimulation, use your hands to touch her body. Touch her everywhere, but some maybe even most, women really like their nipples stimulated when they get oral, but don’t ignore the whole boob. Caress it, her whole boob, in your hand and then with two fingers roll the nipple around and rock your finger back and forth on her nipple, alternating this will be best. You will feel her body writhe with pleasure under you and she may even start grinding on your face.

If you are worried that you don’t know what to do, pretend you are making out with her, just like you would kiss her. Suckle, lick, suck and then when you are ready to take it to the next level, insert a finger (or two) in her pussy. Keep licking and keep your other hand caressing her breasts and stimulating her nipple. As she gets even more into it you keep your tongue going, she may even be grabbing your head and pressing it into her, insert another finger into her pussy. Feel her G-spot it is a bumpy area inside of her vaginal canal, on the front side of her body. Now, walk yourself up her body and kiss and make out with her, insert your cock inside of her and fuck her for a little while, but do not let her come yet, unless you plan on giving her multiple orgasms.

Before she climaxes, go back down on her finger her while you lick her and stimulate her sexual region. Make sure your fingers are super wet with saliva or even  considering grabbing some lube for the next step; gently insert a finger in her ass. (If anal play is new to her start with your pinky because it is small,  this is where the manicure comes in handy the anal canal is super sensitive don’t want to scratch her that will really turn her off to anal play and maybe all together.) Don’t need to worry about moving that finger much maybe a little back and forth or gently with the whole movement of her body and your whole hand. Keep your tongue going and keep a finger in her pussy as you add the anal play. Check in with her or at least make sure she is enjoying it. The Double penetration is sure to send her over the edge! The key is to go slow and make sure she knows what you are doing especially if it’s new. If you do it right she will be grinding on your face and you will have the taste of pussy juices on your upper lip for the rest of the night. And hey, maybe you will get a returned favor (but please don’t ask her for it, let her enjoy her “O” the same way she let you last week, let her offer it to you).

The combination of fingering her and oral is sure to get her going even if she is not that into sex! She will go from stressed to impressed by you in just a few licks and finger strokes. I prefer to finish with my man in my pussy and he knows that so that is how we do foreplay, but you are free to explore with your lover and decide how to go about this. Don’t hesitate to make oral a regular occurrence in your sex sessions. It is a great way to get your partners body going. My body, like many other women, tends to need a little more assistance getting horny than the Hubs, like most men you just say sex and they are standing at attention, and this is a go to for him and I top be on the same page. Honestly it is one reason we have such great sex. I remember when he got good at it and it is when our sex life hit the next level! I hope you enjoy it as much as we do!

#SLWC2018

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10 Wednesday Jan 2018

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Give her an orgasmHappy Hump Day! I am still working on getting writing in my schedule before the end of the night! Once again today here I am at 10:03. Anyway update from yesterday it was a bit of a downer but later in the day after the couch sucked me in for the morning in the evening I went for a 3 mile run and felt much better. I didn’t want to stop and I wanted to go again today however schedule did not allow it! I went running in the evening and it was dark and I survived. We have a nice well lit running/walking trail along the water downtown so I felt pretty safe down there! So there I know I go in the dark and be safe. There is nothing like a runners high!

Well actually yes there is the feeling you get from an Orgasm that leads me to the Hump Day Challenge for today the first of 2018 (since we started SLCW Monday). Todays challenge is to get to the big “O” this may sound strange if you and your partner are always on the same page and orgasm together every time and are both as satisfied as the other. I love sex with The Hubs. He is great at taking time on me to make sure I get off and enjoy what we are doing. However as we get older and busier and life happens my mind gets side tracked and my body doesn’t always respond the way it should. I am pretty sure I am not the only one. So sometimes we either fake it, or just let our partner know the body is not working so go ahead and finish so we can get to sleep or because the longer you are taking the more stressed you are about it and just want to satisfy your lover and give him what he deserves for all the effort he is putting in.

So today you must fuck your partner until you both come! Remember it is not a rule that you come at the same time or even the same way. Some women cannot orgasm with intercourse. Some need your tongue to get the wetness flowing and a little G-spot stimulation to finishe the deed. While others need to self stimulate or many other combinations of those and many other methods. Remember for women the biggest sex organ is her brain, the one that won’t shut down counting chores that she needs to do and trying to remember what she needed at the grocery store. Give her permission to stop thinking.

Men are usually the easier sex to SEX. Some men however need a little more as well. Oral goes a long way, so does dirty talk. Tell him how hard and how big he is and how great he feels inside you. Let him see you! Visual stimulation is huge for men much more than women so if he needs help leave the light on! Feel free to move around positions places to allow him to fuck you, positions and even if he needs to give some self stimulation today’s hump day goal is for both to have orgasm while you’re fucking each other but that may not mean there is no self stimulation. Remember there are no rules! Anything goes as long as you both Get Off!

Cheers to your “O”!

#SLWC2018

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10 Wednesday Feb 2016

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Happy Hump Day! It has been a long week and it’s only Wednesday. I have not had time to put together a super amazing challenge. The Hubs just said to me (as we are out for date night) you haven’t talked about Anal in your blog for a long time! So here it is folks, today’s Challenge is Anal sex grab the lube and have him fuck you in the ass!

Make sure you get the lube! Joe Premium is the stuff to get!!! You can buy it from the Sex Love and ashing Clothes A-store ( look for the link on the top of the page). Lube is necessary, Don’t skip it!!! Go slow, relax and enjoy! Relax and go slow is the key! If you are scared or unsure these are the two most important things to remember.

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Don’t push your partner into if they are uncomfortable. Just wait, make sure she is nice and turned on, happy and ready! Don’t push it if she is not! Just relax and not will eventually happen. It feels really good when she is ready, if she is not she may never allow you to do it again! So relax enjoy compliment her and give her plenty of foreplay! Use your tongue play with her nipples and just relax and wait until she is ready. I promise it is worth it!

So there you have it, anal sex challenge. Relax enjoy use lube and go slow!

#Everyday2016

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30 Wednesday Dec 2015

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Ok, so I teased it yesterday! Today’s Hump Day Challenge is to give your man a prostate orgasm. I have little knowledge on the subject and although I have participated in a bit of anal play on the Hubs I still don’t do it often but he likes it when I do and he wants to try more. He might be more into than me. I have a bit of a weirdness feeling around it. Nothing homophobic but a little just gross-ish. Boy’s butts are hairy (I get mine waxed so maybe girls are normally too) but I am willing to try on this last week of 2015 Hump Day Challenge.

man buttWhat I want to try most is to get a strap on but we don’t have time for that tonight though. So I will chat with the hubs and see what he is up for… I have tackled anal you would think I would be more ready for this. Any way I have researched a bit (today was a bit of a BS day with lots of crappy things that distratcted me from writing until right now (20 minutes before we are supposed to head out for date night. Here is a link to an article with 5 tips.  That I think are good info to get us started.

 http://www.alternet.org/sex-amp-relationships/5-steps-achieving-amazing-prostate-assisted-orgasm

The bottom line is communicate. Use lots of lube Joe premium is our fave (you can get it in The Sex Love and Washing Clothes Amazon store link above) for Anal when he is penetrating me so I am guessing that is the choice he would make for him. My problem is I have small fingers I don’t know if they can get in far enough, I wonder if my Njoy butt plug (also available in the A-store) be nice for him and stimulate the way it needs to. I would love to give him multiple orgasms! I am kind of excited in an experimental way not really erotic or turned on yet. But searching for a photo to place with this post helped with that.

Go have fun with your man ladies. They probably will like us taking charge and when we accomplish this on him, he will get that glimps of what it’s like to be us when we have those long drawn out G-spot orgasms! And when they give us multiples. Favorite thing I learned in this article:

Apart from the intensity, the most appreciated aspect of prostate-assisted orgasms has to be that they allow for multiple orgasms (no more female envy!). With prostate-assisted orgasms, many men will experience “dry orgasm” meaning they don’t ejaculate. Ejaculation needs a refractory period; orgasm does not.

There you have it your last Hump Day Challenge of 2015. Something completely new and adventurous! Go get you some. Leave your worries and judgements behind and enjoy this kind of sex!

#Everyday2015

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21 Wednesday Oct 2015

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Today’s Hump Day Challenge is inspired by Homecoming season and a random student in my Zumba classes a while back when I used to teach. The student said Zumba helped her sex life. WHAT?! Zumba for sex? Well, yes if you watch a Zumba class and look at it in a sexual light you will see it all over. Between the chest pops and hip bumps hip circles gyrating and all the shaking. Yes Zumba and/or Dance can help your sex life! Here is our challenge, dance until you have sex.

gty_grinding_dance_jp_110815_wg1There ain’t nothing wrong with a little bump and grind. If you are a Zumba dancer shake it for your lover and see if he or she will join in. Show him how to dance teach him the body roll or your favorite move. You lover probably will want to watch you dance anyway. Try taking off your clothes while you are dancing. Then get close, grab his hips, rub her ass. Get close up behind her and press your hips up against hers as you grind up against each other.

Then put on some slow music and slow dance. Remember in high school at the high school dances the people the teachers had to pull apart, well you aren’t in high school anymore you are allowed to dirty dance! Get close pull your hips in to his feel his manness up against you. Slowly grind against each other rub your hands all over his body and let his hands explore yours.

Then take your dancing horizontal. Slowly grind hips against each other. Of course make out with each other get naked and get inside her. Go slow and romantic and sultry. Some Keith Sweat or R Kelly Bump And Grind is great background music for this.  So go back to high school and dirty dance like there are no teachers and let it develop into what the teachers were trying to prevent back then. It is no longer illegal!

Have fun dancing this out!

#Everday2015

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09 Wednesday Sep 2015

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Happy hump day!!!! OMG! I almost forgot to post today, then I almost just didn’t because we are out on date night and my phone is almost dead! But the Hubs offered up his phone so here goes today’s hump day challenge!

  • Today’s challenge is Truth or Dare. You know, like you played backmzl.twfluzkp in high school or college. But today you are playing with your lover! Think sex and sexual fantasy. What do you want to do with your partner? Dare them to do that! What is there number one sexual fantasy?…  Do you want to know, ask! Don’t judge! You have to be non-judgemental! Don’t get mad at him when he says his fantasy is you and your best friend sharing his cock!

What is your strategy? Do you normally hide behind easy ‘truths’ to warm up to the ‘Dares’? Don’t do that!!!! Be brave and really engage and go all out on this game of truth or dare! If she dares you to lick her ass do it, if he dares you to take his load deep in your throat…do that too!!!! No holds barred you can do it (be mindful of your partner’s limitations and be respectful)! Enjoy your partner and enjoy the dares you give them and they perform on you! Then go all out on the dares they give you! Be honest with the “truths” and I will say it again, don’t judge! Have fun!!! Somehow get a good fuck out of it!!

#Eveyrday2015

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02 Wednesday Sep 2015

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So for today’s Hump Day Challenge I grabbed my 365 Sex Moves book by Randi Foxx and opened to today which is day 245. And I like the moves on both pages so I am going to share both with you. Both moves involve a chair and really every sex session should involve more than one move so this is perfect!

The first move is 245 and is called Welcome Guest “The woman gets on her knees and leans over a chair or the edge of a bed. Her partner penetrates her from behind keeping his legs outside of hers. His hands are free to guide her hips backward and forward on his pens” A bit of a twist on the doggie style let his hands float around your body too like to your nipples and maybe even a tug on the hair if you like that.

Then the next move 246 is called Down Boy “She sits on the edge of the chair with her legs apart and feet on the floor. He Hops up on her Ike the Herndon he is and penetrates her. The angle of entry allows for extra clitoral stimulation.”

You really should buy this book! It is in the Sex Love and Washing Clothes store.

I love the idea of more clitoral stimulation and I know the Hubs is going to love the Welcome Guest as he enjoys doggie style. I love it when he guides my hips forward and back. I have great hips for him to hook his hands on… don’t we all ladies??? Anyway have fun with your lover and a chair and try both of these moves. Play with the chair and experiment you own.

Happy Humping on this hump day!

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Hump Day Challenge..refocus…New Challenge?

01 Wednesday Jul 2015

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Hello friends. Today is Wednesday and you know what that means, Hump Day Challenge!!!!

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Today’s challenge is coming at a time that I am super busy and struggling with my Sex Love and Washing Clothes Bare Necessities. That is the everyday having sex. At a certain point sex became a chore…as the year wore on and the Hubs and I had some stress in our life he expected and wanted me to “follow through with my commitment” and I wanted him to “just get me there” and got tired, we sort of slacked off. We have missed about 1-2 days a week on average for the last 4-6 weeks. But I have been doing something Sex Love and/or Washing Clothes related. I have also fallen out of Washing Clothes everyday since I have gone back to work and gotten busy! I have blogged everyday, however.

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The hump day challenge for you my friend is to make passionate love in 3 different positions tonight. Man on top, Woman on Top and Something vertical! Enjoy your time with your lover, do these three positions in one session!!! Fuck your brains out but do it sensual and sultry slow and deep! Make love, do not just fuck today! Be intentional!!!!

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Consider a sex challenge, conquer a whole week 10 days or a month but do it to reconnect and and get physical and enjoy each others company. I am planning a new recommitment to sex everyday. It is July 1 so for the month of July I will fuck my husband everyday and not let it become a chore but do it, even when I am tired. Nothing super special just, at least, fuck everyday!!!

What is your commitment challenge maybe it is to have a 5 minute conversation everyday, maybe it is like mine to fuck everyday. Maybe it needs to be you eating dinner together everyday. Make a commitment to #Everday2015 #July

Now, go Fuck you lover in three positions for this week’s Hump Day Challenge and decide a July challenge together! #EverydayJuly

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24 Wednesday Jun 2015

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Chains and whipsHappy Hump Day!! I have to confess that I am feeling a bit overwhelmed and depressed so this post is hard to write. However I pulled out a book from my nightstand that I kind of forgot that I had “The Good Sex Bible” by Judy Batyra and Nitya Lacroix. This book is good! Some great photos and great suggestions. I am not copying anything they wrote because my ADD is in full gear and I don’t have the attention span to really research today but OMG these photos were great to spark my ADD brain and inspiration!

So I decides today to write about bondage. Have you heard the Rhianna song “S & M” This is kind of my theme song. It is my dance on the bar song and get flirty song. There is a line in the song that says “I may be bad but I’m perfectly good at it. Sex in the air but I love the smell of it. Sticks and stones may break my bones but chains and whips excite me”. The thing about bondage or S & M is that I don’t (and I’m sure all women are like me, not really) really like it rough, I like it just rough enough to say it is until I am really turned on and horny. You have to work up to it. I like the feel of the whip but only when I am turned on. So men, don’t go in and whip your wife before she is turned on and ready. We have a whip that has little plastic hair like things that doesn’t really hurt at all and sometimes doesn’t hurt enough when I’m really horny. My point is that it is all relative.

Tie up your lover, for added bonus get a blind fold too. Start soft and sultry lick her up and down suckle a bit on her nipples then blow on them watch them get firm and then play with them some. Kiss them some more. Lick your way down her body, remember she will be tied up so she can’t hold you there longer or move away from you. Pleasure her until she is writhing to touch you. The idea of someone pleasuring you is amazing and awesome but it is a different animal when you can’t touch back, or you know you like to add certain stimuli and you can’t, it is such an enjoyable painful predicament (that’s a good thing).

If you want to include a whip, start off whipping her thighs then work toward her ass. A swift crack in the ass at the right time is ecstasy. Just remember that we women are finicky and sometimes, if you don’t time it right it is less than enjoyable but the key is to get her horny enough for you foreplay is the key. Don’t get discouraged or upset if she doesn’t like it (the spanking or whipping) and don’t force the issue. If she says she doesn’t like it, don’t spank her with the whip or not. She may have some underlying emotions (or history of abuse) about being hit that you don’t know about it may be good to talk about it later but not in the moment just go back to licking her clit and all will be good (as long as you haven’t pushed the issue so tread lightly my friend. Maybe even talk to her about it first and if there is any reservations at all about whipping or spanking stick with the bondage only).

One thing that is also very enjoyable is nipple stimulation. I love the idea of nipple clamps, I even have some. The sensation a woman gets when her lover is giving her oral and playing with her nipples is sensational. But her lover probably only has two hands and if you want to add some penetration while laying down the cunnilingus then you need help. Enter Nipple clamps! Such a good idea however some nipple clamps clamp harder than others so be careful. There is that fine line of pleasure and pain (and it is oh so amazing when you find it) but it is a very fine line and nothing kills a mood like too tight nipple clamps, but a fast acting woman can unclamp them and it’s on like nothing happened and then she is longing for the whole package of nipple stimuli, cunnilingus and penetration…so she tries them again… Just try them! Consider buying some that are adjustable tension, wish I knew they had that option when I bought mine! (I will try to update my amazon store with some.)

So there is a bit of help on getting started tonight! I am excited for this one and I know I will have time for this one tonight as we are skipping our date night tonight and moving it to tomorrow. So when the Hubs gets home late from teaching tonight I will be handing him the bondage kit (which can be as simple as a few sheets or towels) and a blindfold (bandanna) and I am sure he will figure out the rest! My nipples are getting hard just thinking about it (TMI?). Have fun with it but as I always say be respectful. If you are into it more than your partner be mindful and don’t pressure them into it. Take baby steps maybe try the whip but no bondage or vise versa you will get adventurous and grow and strengthen your relationship with respect first then everything else follows! Be patient with your more prude than you partner he/she will get there one day but not if you push him/her! I was once a very prudish girl (a long time ago) and look at me now! Now I am craving crazy wild sex to help induce a bit of an attitude adjustment for me! I’ll let you know if it worked. I am sure it will! Expect lots more cuss words and craziness from me, I am at the wound up tight and need to let loose stage of stress! Thank goodness I have a blog and the Hubs to be able to release that energy!

Enjoy!

#Everyday2015

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17 Wednesday Jun 2015

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Happy Hump Day! Today’s hump day challenge is going to be to attack your lover! When he or she walks through the door attack them with kisses and hugs and get ready to tear his clothes off! If you have kids at home you may need to change this to after they go to bed. Plan a way for an early bedtime tonight! The boy has baseball and has been sick so he will have a good reason to go to bed early. As soon as the kids get in bed, come out to where he is and attack him with kisses and come on to him like you are in high school and your parents just left you alone.

Being with the same person for along time can get old and boring and even your attempts to do things like date nights and different positions get routine. So today break the routine. Show him (or her) your excitement. You know what they like, surprise them in the middle of their show with those kisses on the neck just like he likes. Then show him your getting excited. Be raunchy and dirty and sexy. Be raw grunt and moan, be that lover that you fell for so long ago!

86b57e5b10d04e0c0c4192c66fad3de3As you surprise your lover with kisses as he walks through the door or during her favorite show he or she will be taken aback and they will see the person they fell in love with and the excitement of when you were dating, they will be flushed back to the time to when you didn’t have distractions of kids and house payments and others worries! This is time to be sexy and raw (I love that word). Fuck like you are dating! On the couch or in the entry way (if you are lucky enough to not have kids at home, if so you may want to lock your door). Rip clothes off of each other lick your partner as their clothes come off. Kiss passionately and hard like they do in awkward romantic comedy movies because they are so excited to be kissing finally!

Fuck hard, raw and with reckless abandon! When you get done then you can breath but until you are done you are into this 150% effort! This is not slow and romantic, this is hard and strong and passionate and rough and raw! Be mindful of what your partner likes and hightlight those things! Don’t back off until your hear him grunt and explode inside you and she screams with ecstasy and relief! Be real be raw and talk dirty get dirty and nasty and love like you are in college!

Now go get your some!

#Everyday2015