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get to know each other, Get to know your partner, if they are not you have work to do, Love eachother, see inside each other, Sex Quiz, talk to each other, these questions should be easy, this is what I mean by connection
Happy Hump Day! The purpose of Hump Day Challenges is to create more connection with your lover. So today is a POP Quiz with your lover. It’s a STRIP POP QUIZ. You know your lover if you know each other well you can make it every
Ask these questions to him or her or make up your own questions. You can change the order of questions if you’d like just make sure you ramp up to sex. The way you are going to ramp up to sex is you are going remove clothes every wrong answer (if you think your partner will struggle you can change the rules and take off clothes every right answer depending on how quickly you want to get naked). For every wrong answer tell you lover the correct answer open up the conversation and learn about each other! As he answers then you answer for him so each question you will both be answering each question as you go along, it’s no fun if only one partner gets naked and the other doesn’t. This will open up some lines of conversation and help you connect on another level other than just sex on this Hump Day. Also feel free to look at the parts of body as clothing is removed and insert any form of foreplay as desired but focus on the questions and enjoy the conversation however it may be hard (pun intended) but you have to balance the conversation with the sex:
Here are some questions in no particular order except for the last two:
- What is my favorite color?
- What is my favorite food?
- What is the anniversary of our relationship? (the answer is not marriage it is when you started dating or the party you met at or your first date)
- Who is my best friend?
- What is my favorite activity or game to play?
- If we could travel anywhere for a vacation alone with you where would I choose to go?
- What do you think was my favorite trip or day or experience that I have had with you?
- What is my mom’s name?
- What is my dad’s name?
- What makes me smile the biggest?
- What is my favorite movie?
- What is my favorite song?
- If I was a stripper what would be my theme song?
- What is my favorite sexual position?
- What is my natural hair color?
- How do I take my coffee?
- What is my favorite breakfast meal?
- What is my sign?
- When is my birthday?
- Am I an introvert or extrovert?
- Am I more modest or exhibitionist?
- Do I enjoy these questions and this conversation or am I ansy to get down to business of humping?
- Are you ready to get down to business?
After you decide your ready to get down to business start with your partners favorite foreplay. Hopefully you will have already started some of it during the game as your lover got naked. Feel free to talk during sex (I am not much of a fan of talking during sex but today will be an exception) keep the conversation going if you like. Feel free to just fuck and not talk after the conversation if you prefer. Get to know each other this will help you want to have sex more when you feel more connected!
#Connection2017
Hello readers! Happy Hump Day. Better late than never right?! Especially since it has been a little bit since I wrote! I am not gone just busy and working on organization! I will get this whole working mom, business owner, wife and blogger thing down if it kills me!
Good sex is defined as sex that you and your lover (sometimes only one or the other) truly enjoys. And yes I believe if you are freely giving yourself to your lover even if you do not “enjoy” it that it can be considered good sex. You are giving yourself freely to your lover on your own for him or her to have or experience pleasure. That is a kind and generous thing to do. It is not something that can be forced. However, i is your choice don’t ever let anyone be it your lover or not force you to do something you don’t want to. My challenges are intended for free and consenting adults. Please do not use these to guilt your partner into doing something they don’t want to do. That would be rape! Consider yourself very blessed if your partner let’s their guard down enough to break out of their comfort zone and try something new. Please respect your lover, be thankful if it’s one and done enjoy that one time and thank your partner. Return the favor. Let go and enjoy and respect each other!
