Monthly Archives: February 2016

Monday Blues

29 Monday Feb 2016

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Today has been a “Monday”! I have been in a downer kind of mood. I had 2 clients either no show or cancel at the mast minute and the one appointment that I did today was only a half hour and was late. That made the Bossman late and started out the day kind of shitty!

To top it off, beware TMI right here, I started my period, maybe that’s part of my funky mood. So day one of period to start off a Monday whoo hoo!!!! No wonder I am so tired and slow moving and lacking motivation.

Well right now I am drinking wine and chilling in the couch with HGTV until the Hubs gets home from teaching then it will be corner of the couch time! So, have a good night, here is to a better end to Monday and a week that gets better!

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Negative Bluh

28 Sunday Feb 2016

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Today started out shitty! The Hubs and I got into am argument! Then we had baseball practice for the Boy. Then came home watch TV and the Hubs worked on the Boys glove (I snoozed in the couch), then we had dinner and took the kids to see Star Wars: The Force Awakens again. So it ended well (not that it’s over).

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I am stressed and exhausted I don’t see a way out of this. I work, I am still the momand feeling like I will always be behind and running  from “what the fuck am I doing” and “when will I get time to ______?” I am feeling a bit negative, it frustrates me and I want to be positive and just can’t shake this negativity. Writing about it is making it worse so I am going to go back to watching Mythbusters and maybe pour a glass of wine and have some chocolate. Hopefully some attitude adjustment sex that doesn’t lead to an argument later would be good tonight!

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28 Sunday Feb 2016

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The boy got third in his tournament today. This tournament they break them down into brackets of 4. He won his first match then most the next two. He lost to kids who not only weighed 10% more than he but were really good! He wrestles hard, did a great job, I am so proud even though he didn’t get the win! He was bummed but after chatting after the matches today I think he finally realized that in a few years he’ll be Wrestling in school and be against kids his own size. Hopefully he can learn from these tough losses and just keep getting tougher and better!

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After Wrestling tonight the Hubs and I went out to dinner and a movie with some other couples. Parents from football and assistant coaches from football. It was so nice to hang out with other couples. We saw the movie Deadpool, so funny! No way are we letting our boys watch that anytime soon! Was so good to hang out with other adults that we enjoy being around and our kids get a long too! Great night, now we have to go get the Boy from their house since our normal babysitter (my mom) had plans tonight. Good thing the older sister agreed to let him come hang with her brother, hopefully they didn’t annoy her too much!

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TGIF!!!!

27 Saturday Feb 2016

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Today is Friday! I had 18 massage appointments this week plus 2 Wrestling matches, a PeeWee football equipment meeting and a baseball team mom meeting and Dentist appointments for the kids, oh and had my Dance class (but only made one class this week) I also hand washed my car and fed my family everyday and only had Pizza once! It has been a crazy busy week! The girl hurt her knee at dance and I keep forgetting to call the orthopedic Dr about it! I do t thinknitnisnmore that bad but of it is I am going to feel so bad for ignoring it!

Bottom line is I am tired today. I had a headache from last night until today at 2 or so I finally gave in and took Alieve. I tried my EOs, got an adjustment and drank water and nothing helped. I think it may have been my body telling me I was tired and doing a lot more than normal this week. But this is what “normal” is going to be soon (or right now obviously). I am striving for 20 massages a week which is considered a full time schedule for an LMP. Our family is busy and we are involved parents! I am going to have to hire a house cleaner (and maybe even a house nanny to/do laundry and cook dinner do they have those?) I am busy but honestly the house is not too disastrous surprisingly enough!Especially considering I am the only one who does laundry and dishes unless my mom babysits early enough that she is not too tired to fold laundry ( I love that about her) this week she had time to fold my clothes when we were on Date Night!

I really am enjoying my job and my life lately. I feel good about myself. Work is going well the kids are doing awesome (The Girl just got two awards today at school and The Boy took two reading tests to meet his monthly reading goal!) Blogging is going well-ish too! I am writing this one in bed while the Hubs snores next to me. We are sexing inthe morning because tongiht as we went to bed I was working on his knee and started rubbing his back too and he got that sleepy look so I asked him and he said yes let’s do that, the alarm is set for early, it’s Wrestling End of Season Tournament Day! But we are going to get up even earlier do “It” (lol I said “do It”)

Things are going well in the Earl household here! Loving life enjoying family and making it all work! Good night folks!

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Hard Work Always Pays Off

25 Thursday Feb 2016

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Tonight was the boys last duel Wrestling match. His team vs the other city teams. He wrestled twice tonight and went 1-1. He wrestled hard tonight and all year. He has struggled this year because all the kids he wrestles have gotten bigger and stronger and he pretty much has stayed the same. He is a small kid but he wrestles tough. He is not usually matched up wothnkids his size. They are all about 5-7 (sometimes more) pounds heavier than him.

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He out in work wrestled hard the whole time and never gave up. I am so proud of him. He had a struggle this year, there was a few times he was bummed and down about not winning but he kept working, he kept trying and even though his record is not as good as it has been in years past he made us proud! He was a leader in his team and always supported his teammates and had good sportsmanship! I love watching him work hard and go hard win or lose Hard Work always pays off!

Can’t wait to watch him at the tournament Saturday. It is going to be bittersweet being the last time this year to see him wrestle until next year! On to baseball though!

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Google Your Hump Day

25 Thursday Feb 2016

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Happy Hump Day! It’s late on Wednesday, the Hubs and I are out for date night and I haven’t wrote a Hump Day Challenge yet! I am struggling for ideas so…grab your lover and your lap top. Google your favorite sex position. Then Google your lovers favorite position. Follow the images search and just scroll through. Find anything inspiring that entices you? Then follow suggested searches from there.

Simple and easy just relax and chill taken this time to just enjoy your partner and explore your desires and their desires. Fuck her the way she likes. Relax and enjoy your Hump Day best way to do so is by fucking and giving her that big “O”

There you have it go Google your Hump Day Challenge!

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2016 #Everyday

Ready To Turn it Around

23 Tuesday Feb 2016

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Quote_AlwaysRecommitDontBeatYourselfUpOk, so it’s confession time! Yesterday’s blog was a new beginning and a recommitment and I failed! The Hubs worked late teaching and by the time he was home I was spent. I didn’t feel good, made excuse after excuse and he took my sexual “advance” as not a serious bid for sex, can’t blame him it was weak. So today is the new beginning! We kind of got into an argument over it but regardless we didn’t have sex yesterday! Today is a new day!

Today, actually I feel normal again. After being sick last week and kind of in a fog for a while I feel focused and in control of my life again. I am super busy at work but I kind of feel like I have a new rhythm and routine. No working at the bar tonight, no kids or husband sick, not sick myself and now I am ready to commit to this life and regain control! No more playing from behind the 8 ball, not that I really understand that analogy I don’t play much pool, but I am ready to start 2016 again! So here we go!

I had a good day, did one load of laundry (even though it is still in the dryer) cooked dinner for the fam, the house is clean-ish and I feel accomplished for the day! The kids are in bed and even got in their reading today now it is time to sit next to my husband on the couch and snuggle then mount up for some naked adult fun before we drift off to sleep for the night! I am ready for this. I know I have a lot on my plate but I am ready to conquer this thing called my life! Here we go Ruby get ready to turn this life around! I got this!

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Recommit Everyday

22 Monday Feb 2016

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So I don’t know if you noticed but I have not blogged everyday this last week. This weekend partly out of the fact that I was busy but partly for lack of something to write about, partly lack of time to write and partly out of spite, I didn’t blog. I did post a picture yesterday about change. It’s time for a change. wpid-wp-1444628372071.png

So let me go back a bit. Since this year started I have kind of abandoned the whole everyday thing. I have been writing everyday but that is about it. I have not been making sex a priority in my relationship I have been busy! The Hubs and I have had a rough year. I don’t know if it is because we haven’t had sex everyday or for some other reason. I do remember noticing last year when we started this that he and I were much less stressed. My husband is calmed by having sex everyday. He tends to lack the ability to control his stress level and handle his stress. It seems one of the only ways he relieves stress is sex. I don’t know if this is bad or good but it is what it is. I know that sex with my husband is much better than fighting with him! So I am reviving the focus on having sex everyday.

Last year it did get to a point on occasion (often toward the end of the year which is why I went away from it the beginning of this year) it became a hassle. Everyday having to have sex it felt like a struggle to have connection. I am still fighting with that but I am really wanting to have a happy life with less fighting. I know there is more to a relationship than sex and problems and communication issues cannot be solved solely by having sex but having sex does create a connection that would not exist while abstaining. So it’s like I have said before, you can’t build a relationship on sex but you can keep yours together by having sex. We have some issues to get through. We do but for now, sex is needed, everyday! So once again we are going to be reconnecting to the routes of Sex Love and Washing Clothes and that is have sex everyday! So for now I need to get ready for the Hubs to get home.

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Today Was a Good Day

19 Friday Feb 2016

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I had a great day back at work! I felt strong I felt good. Tonight my sinuses are acting up. Having a major sneezing stuffy nose allergy type attack! Maybe it is maybe I rushed it but this is new! All in all today was a good day!

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Now let’s hurry and go to bed and het it on before I run out of energy or sneeze my brains out!!!

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